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wilulvme (13)   ranked 381 out of 801 in single3 months ago

Can anyone tell me why single women attract married or attached men. I often ask what do they see in me and yet they all tell me I am wify material, but the problem is they already have a wife. I am not the type to settle just to be happy. So why do men settle but yet cheat...Of course they don't come out and say there married, but when i find out they are cut off. Can anyone give me pointers on meeting single men?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 34/100. loganirado (252)   3 months ago

I need your photo for better evaluation and to express a more qualified point.

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2. myLot reputation of 61/100. freezeover98 (103)   ranked 85 out of 801 in single   3 months ago

I'm single. Nice to meet you.:-p

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3. anning (82)   3 months ago

haha,it is an interesting phenomena .you are clever to determine that they are just cheating you. find a single man is easy . if you find a man nervous when you first meet him it demonstrate that he likes you and he is single and he has never married.


redstar004 (31)  3 months ago

hey!nice to meet you!i also come from china!accidently, i found your comments!
so please add me as your friend!

I am so interested in this topic!

this is an embarrassed situation,but it really happend around us!

we can not deny some woman or man really can attract some married man or woman!
so there must be something that the married man or woman really care or curious!
so i suggest this woman must pay attention to her behaviour and words so that could avoid some uncesssary troubls!
if i were the woman,i will ask this man is single or not,if the answer is yes, you can proceed to go out or something!if the answer is no, obviously,you try to ge away from him or tell her!
this is only my point!

good day!
anning!

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4. vutum6887 (71)   ranked 535 out of 801 in single   3 months ago

How can a man just say that YOU are an 'wify' material?
What the hell is 'wify' material?
Is there a norm or eligibility condition for a girl or boy for being a wife or husband?
Certain things must be there for both sides to be suitable for marriage and that is, honesty, transparency, tolerance and fairness.
Shall I presume that the man who is complimenting you such, is not happy with ihis own wife?
In our hippocritic society throughout the world very few men actually respect women in any form, in the real way.
The moment they see/come across a woman who happens to be Single, Divorced, Widowed etc..... he assumes that she is 'AVAILABLE'.
By the way, I too belong to the male gender..............
As for cheating, both men and women, in all fairness, tend to cheat whenever it suits them................But perhaps comparatively women are more dependable.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. paleorainy (609)   3 months ago

That's the same for me, I really am clueless on how comes I attract loads of married men. I think it's not our problem but theirs and is common to most of the women, not just us two. I guess some married men cannot settle into married life and just want to get out from there, that's why we have them around. And we feel like it's us, but really it's just all about them and their problems.

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3977)   ranked 11 out of 801 in single   2 months ago

It's about challenge. They want to see if they still got the ability to woo women. Yeah, I know it's pretty harsh but that's just the way it is, men will always be challenged to try something, which is why it's up to the women to decide. The worst part there is is the fact that there are women who are taking advantage of their womanhood and would accept these guys, it's actually for the money but there are those who claim that it's 'love' but still, if you're really decent, you should abide by the golden rule don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you, so if you don't want your husband to cheat, then don't give the married men an opportunity to cheat.

I know the feeling, there have been many who have attempted me, even to the point of telling me that if they weren't married they'd marry me in an instant, or the most common of all 'I would leave my family for you'. glare

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