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myLot reputation of 95/100. flagella08 (1797)   ranked 627 out of 38,524 in life3 months ago

Everybody lies. It may only be “white” lies, but everyone tells lies or “omits the truth” sometimes. that's my main problem too. i can't air what's inside me to anyone. im very sensitive to the feelings of other people that's why i just tell lies or keep things by myself. i wish i could readily do and say whatever i see in any person but i just couldn't. it seems like my tongue would move backward.

Others lie to protect themselves, look good, gain financially or socially and avoid punishment.How about you?

 
 
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MrKennedy (318) response was accepted on 10/28/2009.
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tags:  lies, lie, truth, habits, it's better to lie sometimes
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. runningman72 (1040)   ranked 292 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

I don't lie on a regular basis, however I do tell little white lies, I do without info or the truth, so that is just as bad as a flat out, bold, brazen big lie! People lie because they are cowards, or they are in power and don't want to threaten their position. Some lie so they can move up in a company or get ahead in this world. Many people would rather lie that do something honest to make it in life.


myLot reputation of 90/100. runningman72 (1040)   ranked 292 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Sorry, should read "I do withhold info or the truth" instead of what I typed.


myLot reputation of 95/100. flagella08 (1797)   ranked 627 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

it's okay. anyways, telling lies is a sin and it's not considerable even if they're white lies. as long as they belong to lies, we are still making sins. i try to minimize that act as possible as i can and get rid of it as often as i can. thanks for being the first one to respond to this post.


myLot reputation of 81/100. Archie0 (3139)   ranked 1,390 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Everyone lies. Sometimes its to make something sounds more interesting or better, sometimes to get them out of trouble, and sometimes just because they feel like it or because they know they can.


myLot reputation of 95/100. flagella08 (1797)   ranked 627 out of 38,524 in life  4 days ago

that's right and it's keeping me guilty in some ways. there's no other way to keep ourselves from trouble but to tell lies. At the same time, not all lies are harmless -- even little white ones -- and some untruths can tear apart a relationship by damaging intimacy and trust. The worst kinds of lies result from trying to change who we really are or to minimize a serious problem in a relationship.

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2. myLot reputation of 43/100. dekada80 (369)   ranked 17,849 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

There's a lot of situation where you will be tempted to lie just to make some things right for you, you can't avoid it, just like in your case, it happens to me also. You are force to hold your opinion just not to offend anybody. Some people will lie just to stay away from troubles, I don't know but sometimes it depends on what is on the line wether we would lie or not.

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3. adinata (68)   ranked 7,195 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Hahaha... it was an interesting question. Why do people lie? The answer is because sometimes the truth just to many hurt other hearts feeling. There's one moment when we have the truth in our hand but in the other hand we know if tell the truth to others it could make they feel sad. That's why some people decide to hide the truth just only to keep your heart.

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. kling2388 (1513)   ranked 5,608 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Lies can often be used to cover up a more painful, or uncomfortable, truth. Some people like to see what lies they get away with. Sometimes people don't want to tell the truth for whatever reason. Usually to not hurt a persons feelings or offend them by telling them the truth. Sometimes it's to just get out of something you just don't want to do, sometimes people can be pushy and don't take no for an answer and that is often the easiest way out. w00t


myLot reputation of 88/100. starsailover (1461)   ranked 5,975 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Hi kling: that's why we say that people can be sometimes "brutally honest" when they tell something true hurting somebody's feelings. It's not necessary to hurt someone just for "being honest" even that's the typical excuse some people use after doing this.


myLot reputation of 95/100. flagella08 (1797)   ranked 627 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

being honest is actually a great virtue but in terms of being brutally honest, that will really hurt. most people prefer others not to say the truth because they don't want hearing the hurtful truth.

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5. myLot reputation of 85/100. rhan04 (183)   ranked 11,197 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

It really depends on the situation. Sometimes people lie to cover up for their mistakes. Sometimes they do that to save someone else or to avoid hurting their feelings. Like you, I'm also very sensitive when it comes to other people's feelings. As much as possible, I try to just keep quiet instead of telling them lies. I feel guilty every time I do so if it's not really necessary, I tell the truth if possible, or if it will do them good.

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. JAG2009 (238)   ranked 8,676 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

Why do people lie?
In addition to all the reasons you have listed, I'd like to add 'compulsiveness' as well. It's like kleptomania for some people; they can't help it; they just have to lie. It may not be with the intention of gaining something or protecting somebody; they are just conditioned to not tell the truth.
Is there help for such people? I don't know.
Should such people change this habit? I don't know.


myLot reputation of 85/100. rhan04 (183)   ranked 11,197 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

If it's out of compulsiveness, that's something that is very hard to break since they do it out of reflexes. They say it before they think about it. I'm just not sure but may psychological counseling might help them. Lying would be a bad habit if it would do more harm than good.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (2865)   ranked 412 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

There are different types of people who lie. Most of the people lie on small issues because they don't want to disclose something. I use 'I don't know' sometimes even though I know about the matter because I don't want to share the matter to somebody who asks me about it. Some people are addicted to lie. They lie about all the matters they talk. I think those people should be taken to hospitals.

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. MrKennedy (318)   ranked 3,694 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

I take pride in the fact that I'm a generally honest person. However, there are certain times when I find myself forced to break such honesty and hold back the truth. These include:

-- Information that may put myself or others in a dangerous situation. For example, if a bunch of intimidating individuals approached me and asked for the whereabouts of a specific person, if I believe they are out to provoke harm, then I will retain the truth and give them a false location.

-- Information that may hurt the feelings of others. In the past, I have given my honest opinion to such questions as the dreaed "Does my butt look big in this," however, over time I've learnt that if a person asks for my own personal taste or opinion on something, and its obvious they are expecting a positive answer, I will give them a positive answer PROVIDING it won't cause them embarassment later.

-- Information enquired by a stranger regarding my address, phone number or any other information personal to me. If I don't know the person, or if I don't intend to give away my information, then I will tell a "white lie" or just avoid the question entirely.


myLot reputation of 92/100. MrKennedy (318)   ranked 3,694 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

Oh, and to quote the fantastic Jack Nichols, "Only lie to two people in your life: The police and your girlfriend. To everybody else, be honest with." Not that I condone lying to authorities and loved ones mind you;)


myLot reputation of 95/100. flagella08 (1797)   ranked 627 out of 38,524 in life  3 months ago

those fit to reality really. those are the common lies that people do aside from being brutally honest. i don't also share correct infos especially on some of online activities. i only tell the truth if they are in connection with bank transactions. thanks for making a great response. i credit one for you. keep on responding to mine.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. jugsjugs (3255)   ranked 218 out of 38,524 in life   3 months ago

There are alot of people out there who lie,about all different things.You have people that say they are doing really well with finance and what they really mean is that they using a credit card to buy things with or they have bills every where.There are others saying that their life is great where as it is the total opposite.There are others that say they love someone where as they do not mean it.This will always be one of the things,people do lie.

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10. dreamaker (6)   3 months ago

Lie is normal because: Imagine that u did a thing that your parents hate.and your parents question you: What did you do today? You'll 100% lie beacause lie is natural

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