Men: Attention Which one will you choose?Beautiful or wisedom?

That is the problem that men have been into. They chose a beautiful to look-upon wife. But I think that its because we have eyes to see and we admire what is good and beautiful. But I think that the most important for a woman is her character above physical beauty. That is how I see things in the background. A woman or young lady may look physically attractive but her character is such a worst that after marriage, the man wish not to have married that beautiful and good-looking woman but deep inside isn't that desirable.

if i had to pick one i would go for a woman who's wise and know how to treat me right as well others, beauty inside is more imporant then the outside. i got lucky my wife is both.
but i know some guys they go a great looking wife or g/f but on the inside they are so ulgy. and know some dudes who wife is both beauty on inside and out, well other are ugly inside and out too.

If you talk about me. i would like to have the moderate combination of both.
i think as a normal guy i would also wish to have a beautiful girlfriend or wife. but there must be a wisedom too. as there is no parameter that a wise girl cant be beautiful or vice versa.
but i will also not go for only a beautiful girl who dont care of other.
i think the balance is needed.

Beauty is only going oh so far, beauty only goes beyond the eyes and doesnt cement in the mind, like wisedom, with wisedom, espically if within a woman, who can teach her man a few things thats god given, thats like finding priceless treasure lol a guy who only looks at a woman for beauty thats natural, but if he wants a long serious relationship, he'll have to change that, I cant just talk about how great a woman looks every single minute, how is that a relationship? yeah she can be cute and all but, she might not know how to cook or not know how to read a map or cant maintain bills correctly lol like theres so much to say other than oh ur cute etc etc, Dont get me wrong i like a beautiful woman but she gotta have other things that attract me also

you are right there vincyk, i also noticed that to all boys out there.. beauty is the most important thing for them, and they never consider the inside beauty of a girl.. but for me i will rather choose the inside beauty rather than the physical appearance, we all know that it rally fades by time, but the inside beauty is always there and will always remain in their hearts and soul.. so guys, better change your vocabulary and think so well specially when you are looking for a wife..

i am a girl,but if you want me to make a choice between charming boy and wisdom boy,i would choose wisedom boy,we all know beauty can't last long,wisdom is different,i would be attractive by a man with wisdom!

If I am to choose someone, I'll choose a girl who's beautiful from both inside and out. If that is not possible, then i should go for wisedom. The outside beauty fades away with time, but the beauty of the inside, never wears away. I would rather fall for a girl who is clean from inside, than someone who is beautiful from outside and ugly inside.

beauty comes with a price. What you see is what you get. To be honest, not all beautiful woman are clever, nor urgly ones. But it comes with respect. How do you treat your partner.

I've had this experience of having a beautiful girl as my girlfriend. And from what I can recall, our relationship got screwed up. I broke up with her we lasted for 4 months. I broke up because my trust died when I found out that she was not loyal to me. And I was able to prove that she really is. But don't get me wrong, because I fought for her how many times, sometimes I lose my control over my temper when other guys try to ask her for her number, I started a fight with the guy and made a statement not to mess with me and keep his distance from my girl. But I found out that it was my girlfriend's fault why guys flock to her. She was flirt, she took advantage of her face and made guys chase her. Now I'm just laughing about it, I wonder where will that girl end up now that she's not with me anymore. I'd now prefer a girl who has the inner personality, the one that is loyal, one who would not make a fool out of me. A girl who's not too fancy, I mean a girl who I'd not change for. Lucky for me coz thats my first relationship and now I learned. Pretty face but a terrible girl?? I doubt that, I will never choose a girl who always pretends, who always saves herself first and say lies to protect herself. IT'S THE PERSONALITY WE SHOULD FOCUS ON, and never put a girl in the center of your life.