Doing HAIR On a dead person.  |
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Could U DO IT?? I was a hairdresser for 47 years & when my customer's would bring up me doing their hair when they died i would tell them i was not going to do it. If they felt like they were going to croak they better run by & let me get their hair done. It was a bog joke to us all when they brought it up. THEN IT HAPPENED, one of my customers was killed in a car wreck & her daughter called me & ask me to do her hair. How could i say no to her. One of the girls i worked with said she would go w/me. It was a very hard thing for me to do for more reasons than one. Over the years i did a bunch of them. I felt like if i could do their hair for years when they were aloive i owed them to do it that last time, Could u do it??
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1. vonmac (2297) | 2 months ago | I dont think I could. Someone asked me to take a picture of a person lying in a coffin, and I couldnt do it. So I dont think I could do a hair style on a dead person
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | I know alot of people would feel the way u do. . Thanks for your response. Have a good night.
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2. rocketj1 (2217) | 2 months ago | Wow! I'm not really sure.... I suppose I would feel kind of obligated like you did too. But I think it's great! I have been to funerals where the hairstyle is not the one they wore and it just seems strange. People like to see their loved ones as they were one last time...
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | HI HEIDI, nice to hear from u. I'm o.k. The leaves are beautiful here & will be turning more i'm sure if they don't rot from all the stinking rain we are having.I can't rake leaves anymore but really don't have too many in my yard like alot of people do, thanks heavens. lol. Any time the family ask which they usually did i went. I did both my grandmother's hair & my aunt's when she died last year. it's the last thing i could do for them & they were special to me.
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3. AmbiePam (15386) | 2 months ago | Yes, I could. Like you, I would think of it as a tribute. Just something to do for a loyal customer. If I didn't know the person, I don't think I would. But if I were the regular hair dresser, I'd already know what she liked, and maybe I'd feel if the family wanted me to do it, at least I'd know it would be done by someone you know she trusted to get it right.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | U are a very understanding lady, Ambie. Thanks for your response. Hope u are doing real good.
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4. rusty2rusty (4201) | 2 months ago | I could not do anyone's hair after death. I feel grateful for the ones who can. Me, I have to much of a fear of dead people to touch one and do their hair. Not even my family could I touch.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | i'm sorry u feel that way. There is nothing to fear from a person that is dead. Thanks for your response.
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rusty2rusty (4201) | 2 months ago | Yes, I am aware there is nothing to fear of dead people. But the fear is still there. maybe I watched to many scary movies growing up. I am not sure. I will have dreams with relatives and friends who have died. In the dreams I freak out and tell them they are dead to go away. I freak out in my dreams as well.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | i'm sorry. That has to be pretty bad for u.
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5. cynthiann (3141) | 2 months ago | What a wonderful person you are! I do not know if I could do it but I am sure that your customers were smiling at you and blessing you for making them look good in their coffin. I always tell my kids that if they see that I am dying then please remember to get my roots done!
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | Thank u, dear. U sound like my customers, lol talking about getting your roots done. Alot of my customers & i grew old together. I don't know who in the world will do mine because i have always done it myself. Thanks for your response.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | U are right the first time was bad but over the years it was people i had fixed their hair for years & there was alot of tears but the families were always so appreciative, that really helped.Thanks for responding.
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GardenGerty (20408) | 2 months ago | This has stirred up a lot of memories for me. When my husband died, I had been spending 22 hrs a day at the nursing home, and just about the first thing I did was go to get my hair cut before the funeral. I had worked driving bus with the shop owner and then the lady that was the stylist that offered to do my hair was also a friend of mine. I never got my hair done often at all. They did the whole job for free as a gift. You just made me remember a very touching time.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | That was very nice of them, GG.
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7. dawnald (10116) | 2 months ago | No, but then I couldn't do it when they were alive either. I'm no good with hair.
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ced_cap (170) | 2 months ago | me too dawnald. i'm also no good with hair. i even ask my daughter to do my hair sometimes...
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | Thanks for the response. I'm sure y'all have other talents.
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dawnald (10116) | 2 months ago | yeah like bad puns and silly poems...
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | u DO JUST FINE. i ENJOY YOUR PUNS & POEMS.
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8. ronnyb (2734) | 2 months ago | Wow Antique I dont think I could so I take off my hat to you .I guess you were in a trick situation there and couldnt refuse .I bet it must have been nerve racking and you must have had many memories flash through your mind when you were doing here hair,glad you survived it and became stronger for it .Great discussion and have a great night Antique
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | Thanks Ronnyb, I always felt obligated to my customers. They were good to me & i tried to be good to them even in death. Thanks for responding.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | Thanks GG. It was a sad job but i was very willing to do it for them & their family. Thanks for your response.
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10. ced_cap (170) | 2 months ago | hello antiquelady...definitely i won't do that. not beacause i'm scared or anything but i think let's just leave it to the hairdresser of the dead because it's their job and profession anyway.
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ANTIQUELADY (11450) | 2 months ago | Thanks for your response. it was not a job to me it was a courtesy.
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