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myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people4 weeks ago

I had a slight misunderstanding with my friend today. I know I had a fault and I said sorry but he never accepted it and still mad that he stop talking to me. Why he cannot accept it when in deep humility I accepted my fault?huhuhu

 
 
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LetranKnight25 (4112) response was accepted on 11/16/2009.
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tags:  sorry, forgiveness, friend, accepted, mad
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. muscles4me (8416)   ranked 104 out of 1,343 in understanding people   4 weeks ago

Hello. I am sorry your friend will not forgive you and I think they are wrong to not forgive you. God forgives each one of this for all our sins so we should be willing to forgive people. I do not have any idea what kind of harm you have done but it doesn't matter. Your should still be forgiven. It might also mean you will no longer be friends though. I would not keep saying you are sorry over and over again for the same thing. Just pray to God that you want to be forgiven by your friend as you know He has forgiven you many times then just let it go. God Bless you.


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  4 weeks ago

Thanks for your nice advise. Actually this person has the reputation of being "indifferent" and a little bit "arrogant", but put up with him despite his unpleasant behavior because I treated him so close. But every time I made a mistake I always say sorry to him but kept ignoring it.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. Graceekwenx (537)   ranked 264 out of 1,343 in understanding people   4 weeks ago

Hello. I would suggest that you just be there when she needs you. Though it might have been a slight misundertanding to you, it might have been of big significance to her thats why she couldnt accept your apology all at once. it takes time to forgive anyway. dont rub your apologies too much on her as she would take advantage of your humble position. Let her take her time to accept it. and dont be too hard on yourself, sincere apologies are good enough.


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  4 weeks ago

My friend is a male. LOL!

Anyway, you are right,why I would insist my apology if he won't take it?it's no longer my loss. I will have to move on with my life and my endeavor.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (19812)   ranked 5 out of 1,343 in understanding people  1 week ago

try one more time please, a good friend is a sad thing to lose.


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  6 days ago

As of this time, we are okay but sometimes I fretted his coldness and insensitivity but there's nothing I can do about it maybe I will have to accept his personality other wise everything will be ruined.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4112)   ranked 12 out of 1,343 in understanding people   3 weeks ago

happyi guess it's better to leave him alone. i bet he'll asked for help some day if he needs it, probably there are a lot of things in his mind lately. some men takes time to forgive, i dunno why but most are cool when you apologized. lol


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  6 days ago

Yes I must admit that he belongs to the group of men who are stoic and cold and just shrugged when you ask for forgiveness and uttered sorry. He must be so insensitive that he just don't mind what is the implication of his callous character. There are times that I want to stay out of his friendship but then unsuccessful since he is always talk to me and ask some favor.


myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (4112)   ranked 12 out of 1,343 in understanding people  6 days ago

i think it's better to cut the bridge if he doesn't change. this is the curse of men for being so aggressive.

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (19812)   ranked 5 out of 1,343 in understanding people   1 week ago

jlamela wait a few days and try again as he was too angry to think straight. maybe whatever was in his heart that made him
your friend in the first place will again surface if you can talk to him when you are both calm and at peace. a good friend should not be lightly discarded after all.


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  6 days ago

I always treated him as my closest male friend but then he always do such things to hurt me and I don't know why he is very strange. I think he only treated me a good friend when he is asking some favors.

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. skysuccess (2244)   ranked 1,206 out of 1,343 in understanding people   6 days ago

jlamela,

First of all, I will have to ensure that I make it up or repair for whatever I have ruined or wrong doing to show my sincerity.

During the heat, I do not suppose anyone would have reacted positively or reciprocating our apology. So, I will just have to let the other party have their space and time to get over it.

After that, make up by having a casual conversation or catch up with a date. Most importantly, start talking and be willing to be on the receiving end.

There are instances where the other party would like to be seen as being magnanimous or does not seem to mind, but still we should not take them for granted. Just do your part as the errant party and wait for the other person to react.

Give him sometime and I am sure he will come around. Take care and have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 88/100. jlamela (2672)   ranked 34 out of 1,343 in understanding people  6 days ago

Yes I must resigned to the fact that he belongs to the breed of gentlemen who are cold and insensitive. Though there are times that I want to stay out of his friendship, he just seems like a waif that I can see him everywhere.

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