What do you do if you think a friend likes you romantically, but you don't?  |
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 If you feel like a friend is becoming attracted to you, but you are not interested in them in any way like that, what do you do?
Do you say anything?
If he hasn't said anything, but you feel its kind of like that, what do you?
Is there some easy way, or a best way?
He's heard that i have a bf, maybe he doesn't believe it?
What am I supposed to say? Just say it directly? I dont want him to be obsessed with me.
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1.  milagre (989) | 1 month ago |  I would wait until some conversation about would come and then i would clarefy everything.
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 skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | I would talk about my bf more, but i dont want to be like rubbing it in, so i dont know how to tell my friend anything, like that i am not interested in him. and hes very pessimistic and depressing, and i also dont want to feel responsible for making him feel worst. but i kind of cant even hang around him when hes like that . and that when he also wants to be around, and doesnt have any other friends, it kinda makes me feel uncomfortable. | |
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| milagre (989) | 1 month ago | Try to present your friend to new friends and maybe everything will change. Maybe yr friends problem is more a question of lonellyness and is projecting everything on you. To not hurt his feellings hang out with him and other friends maybe that someone will come to make to change his heart. | |
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | Yeah he is very lonely. he's quite silent. actually mentioned to him about finding more friends, because he moved to this city like a year ago or something. | |
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| 2. ejrasco (58) | 1 month ago | tell your friend immediately but nicely... dont keep his/her hope high then suddenly you will just burst his/her bubble.. | |
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | I meet him like maybe more than half a year ago, would he know now that im not going to be his gf?
Its just weird because most of my male friends end up liking me, its hard to even have friends like that. just started hanging out with girls more:S | |
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| muning (13) | 1 month ago | You can speak with your friend in a polite way, like before telling him you should recall the good times that you've been through and you are really enjoying his company and you just like it that way and tell him that being more than freind can lead to nowhere and might lose the friendship. | |
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| ejrasco (58) | 1 month ago | I guess it he doesn't have a clue. sometimes a person in love becomes blind or mistaken our actions toward them. Remember this saying, it is better to tell him the truth and make him cry than tell her lies just to make him smile | |
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3.  hireshd (341) | 1 month ago | I would not suggest u that you dnt say anything to him till the time he doesnt say anything, and at the same time, keep on trying to tell him what all you would like to have in your boyfriend that should be completely opposite to what he is, in this way even if some day he says u can say him nicely i have some different image and u do not fit in that he wnt feel that bad after that... | |
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| 4. chenmatrix (8) | 1 month ago | Well, it doesn't cost too much to solve your problem.
frist, put a ring,somethiong not expensive that representing affection, on your middle finger if possible and tell him that's from your BF.
second, reveal now and then that you have dates with yout BF and you have little spare time.
third, place your BF's image as the backgound of your cell phone or PC.
In general, make him understand,in a mild way, that there is no more space for him in your heart. | |
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | Yeah i know I could go on about my bf, but it seems unnecessarily cruel. I mean, if this friend has feelings for me, i dont want to hurt him. just dont want to lead him on in anyway, actually started to avoid him and thats because i feel uncomfortable doing any activities with him if he gets the wrong impression. its more like he's really lonely maybe. | |
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| 5. Ravenladyj (17921) | 1 month ago |  I woudl just let him know that I wasnt interested that way and value our friendship too much to mess with it...If he hasnt said anything but I suspect it I would ask him I think and THEN let him know how I feel about it
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | The hardest thing is, i dont want to open up a topic like, "hey u might like me, but i dont like u (in that way)". seems like kind of a shock. i think some guys feel like a fool or get really angry when u tell them directly that u dont want anything to do with them romantically? or maybe ive just had some ex-friends who were like this. Maybe they are just being unreasonable, but hence thats why im having trouble just getting the point across in a good way. | |
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| 6. chenmatrix (8) | 1 month ago | To be or not to be? This is a fix.
It seems that you have wavered between telling him your feeling and being afraid f his propable affection on you.
You have to make a decision before he goes too far.
Given that the hurt is hardly preventable, earlier and less pain is much better than later and more.
Perhaps there is never a perfect remedy for such matter. | |
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | Yeah its true, i might as well say it now. but feel like hes so depressive or negative, its like being in a fix. its like i dont even want to see him because if i say something to him all the hurt could let to him being suicidal, or feeling bad or what not. i dont want that at all. | |
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| 7. mdaazam (223) | 1 month ago |  I would never break a girls heart straightly like that, what would it cost any way . I think will be even more happier to be loved by one more!
It wouldnt cost that much i think and i wont mind hanging out with her when im free atleast i wont be breaking her heart .
But this is a very good question i must say you know!!!
Nice one really, thanks for posting, cheerz!
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| 8. Paarl20 (19) | 1 month ago | Romping other people into the fray is one of the best ways forward, and in particular the one you're involved with. | |
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | sorry??:S totally did not get what u mean.
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| 9. cripfemme (5640) | 1 month ago |  In most cases, you can just say "I'm sorry, I just don't feel that way about you and just move one with your lives as friends." In some cases, however, like the one involving me, unfortunately, people just don't get a clue and wouldn't even if it bit them in the butt.
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| skaterx (294) | 1 month ago | He's never said anything about that yet. Is it okay to say that if he's just inviting me out somewhere, if i feel like he wants to be my bf? | |
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| 10. solared (856) | 1 month ago |  Well just be honest with them an say, I only like you as a friend, if you can't understand that then we can't be friends anymore.
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