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myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships1 month ago

When was the last time you were asked for a date by your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, loved one and special someone? A date that allowed you to just be there and enjoy the night because your date told you this line---I'll take charge honey...my treat! Where did that date take place? Is it a fine dining, in a quiet place, an intimate place, a place of entertainment and fun, beach? How did you feel? and in return how did you thank your date?

The last time the my husband treated me for a date was last month after I arrived from my series of official business trips. It was a birthday date/treat for me because I was not home during my birthday. It was one of my out-of-town official trips. We had a dinner at The Old Spaghetti House. He made me feel so special for saving some from his weekly budget just to treat me for a date and made me feel so loved. I give him a POWER HUG and a kiss!

Now it's your turn to share. Thanks!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 83/100. karbuks (163)   ranked 4,818 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

the last time my boyfriend asked me for a date was last Wednesday. It was our 62nd " mansary " actually every mansary we celebrate it first by attending mass thanking God for reaching this far. Last Wednesday, we had a romantic dinner at our favorite restaurant here in our place. We had a wonderful time together talking about our dreams and plans in the future. We laugh about the jokes only the two of us understand. haha .That's one thing i love about my boyfriend, he cracks boring jokes and i just laugh so hard because of how bring he deliver it. hehe . anyways, just like you i gave him a hug for a very romantic and fun dinner.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

That's a funny-romantic celebration of your 62nd month-sary...this made me think about the number of years you were together??? thanks for tickling my mind to compute LOL. Yours is just so recent and i can still feel the "sweetness" as you share your experience. Thanks friend. More dates to come!

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4409)   ranked 473 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

That's just so sweet. I think you must have had a very enjoyable time with your husband. For me, I don't like to take charge; whoever I befriend or in a relationship with, they can just take charge, I'll just follow through.. LOL. It's great to just sit back and let someone run the show.. lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

You are so crazy Zed LOL... but this is a good idea. Let's wait and see for more friends to treat us all the way! more power to you and enjoy other's treat let them be hehehehehe!


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4409)   ranked 473 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

-wink2x-, ha... I know this will get you moving to the groove.. winkwink


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

hehehehe... you know what that's my noickname-- winky! thanks crazy friend!


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

nickname i mean...sorry for the typo error.


myLot reputation of 98/100. zed_k4 (4409)   ranked 473 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

Winky's your nickname? So cool.. ha...
It's alright; I make that kind of mistake too, sometimes.. wink


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  4 weeks ago

thanks zed!

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3. myLot reputation of 37/100. jerimiyah (221)   ranked 5,956 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

most of the time my sweety will take charge when we go out. honestly i like it if a guy does take charge of everything but not controlling and becoming manipulative though.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

That's good at least they are doing it because they love to treat you and make you feel special without anything in return.

How do you show your appreciation to them my friend after that wonderful treat?
Thanks.

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. mrfdg1972 (513)   1 month ago

Well, we always go out on dates, my wife is specially fond of eating at restaurants. normally its 2 times a week and maybe even more. It is going to be our Anniversary this Nov. 9 that is going to be a big Date, i will let you know what would happen, and its my eldest daughter's birthday also.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

2x a week date that's so lovely expensive my friend? but i know if you love someone money is nothing what is important is your finding time to be together despite your busy schedule. That's so sweet really!

So, it will be a double celebration. Well, let me greet you advance happy wedding anniversary and happy birthday to your daughter. Yes, i will love to hear any update about this big event... your big celebration! Goodluck and enjoy your day!

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5. myLot reputation of 34/100. ally12 (135)   ranked 6,610 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

Hello msfrancisco..Since my marriage my husband would always take charge on our dates.Even for sometimes I would tell him that Im the one who will treat him, yet, he would end up paying for the bills.lol.Our last memorable date was almost a year ago.It was his birthday treat for me.And if I could remember it right the name of the resto was TGIF in Riyadh.Going out with my husband for a date is always really a fun for me.For even years of marriage we still do some sweet nothing talks over a candle light dinner.(giggles)


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

I just could imagine you giggling while reminishing this event in your life with your hubby. TGIF food are great. I love their pasta and if it's your birthday and your date inform the management of one of the waiters' they will give you a surprise number and a small cake or present. A unique way of celebrating your birthday in TGIF. Did this happen to your dinner date?

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. doryvien (921)   ranked 5,792 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

Hi msfrancisco,

You're a hopeless romantic girl I should say happy. Okay, let me see... Whenever we go out on a date (meaning it's just the two of us without the kids) it's always my husband who takes charge of the bill, it has become a "given". When we have the whole family, it's either him or me, depending on who has brought enough money on that day, or who gets the wallet out firstw00t .


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

Really? thanks for giving me this clue. i better not bring any money, not even my wallet for every single date with the kids LOL...i will definitely save a lot. I'll just make up maybe in one of our dates (only me and my husband) when i will surprise him by saying this line... "i'll take honey, just relax and enjoy" followed by a kiss and a hug.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3211)   ranked 3,291 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

We are always so busy we don't really think about it much unless it is a special occasion. Our last "date" outing was to the movies. He was all dressed up the other night to go to work and I told him how good he looked and that I wanted a date night soon and he had to get dressed up! (He hates getting dressed up) Now we just have to figure out when and where.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

It's really good seeing our hubby all dressed up for work that's a good get-up for a date! Nice that despite your busy schedule you sneak in a time for watching a movie. more dates mama-- and surprise him always, but make sure he'll take charge of everything --the bill most especially hehehehe (just kidding).


myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3211)   ranked 3,291 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

No problem there, though you and I know it's really the women who are in charge:-)


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  4 weeks ago

you are really my friend-- to be frank about this fact! we are the cashier and everything is remitted to us so we are mandated to pay the bill!!!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (2666)   ranked 540 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 month ago

it was my birthday last october 29. and we celebrated in my mother's house. we took a lot of picture so we can also show our relatives what we did at my mother's house after the storm. we celebrated with all my siblings and their family. minus my other brother who lives abroad. then as you can remember friday was no classes because of the typhoon santi. then when saturday came i ask my wife for a date. she was laughing because she said its a bad weather. but last saturday the weather was okay. santi left the philippine island and it was a good day to ask her out. we left our son to my sister and we went out malling. we ate at pancake house and before going home we stop by at starbucks. we bought also pasalubong for our three year old son. yes i took charge. and we have a lot of fun laughing like we were teens again.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

First, belated happy birthday!

Second, it's nice that after the storm you went back home and celebrated your birthday there with your mom. I can imagine how happy your mom was and your birthday was really full of fun, food, pictures and drinks (hmmmm....).

Third, you're such a sweet hubby and dad for speding a day-out with your wife despite the storm (good that santi cooperates). Dates are meant to be a good break for couples to enjoy each other's company. YOU TOOK CHARGE OF THE BILL because it was your treat fro your birthday and it did not end there-- you too bought something for your baby...you are certified thoughtful, loving and sweet dad/hubby!


myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (2666)   ranked 540 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

of course i take charge of the bill IM THE MAN har har har joke. its nice to feel like we are bf/gf it makes us feel young. we couples much not forget things like that. my brother always has a problem with her wife, they quarrel a lot. i always tell him to still court her even she is your wife already. he does not believe of things like that. does not believe with sweet nothing. this add spice in a relationship. so i hope we can still have a date this coming christmas before or after maybe.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 month ago

continue treating your wife as special as she is... this will give spice to your relationship. i am happy to hear hubbies so in love with their wives. Cheers friend!

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. jonjee0203 (1648)   ranked 434 out of 23,177 in relationships   4 weeks ago

Nowadays,these hardly happen. If at all, it is for some supermarket trips to buy supplies. I do not understand why couples take each other for granted after marriage. But in your case, these little surprises make the marriage fun. It adds spice to it. Lucky you!


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  4 weeks ago

Couples new or been long married should not ignore the fact that they have to exert effort to find time together and give themselves a break for being so busy with work. They need to affirm each others vow from time to time and assure of each other's love all the time!

Thanks Jonjee!

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. rjvb26 (390)   ranked 6,319 out of 23,177 in relationships   3 weeks ago

If i have extra money i always asked my wife for a date, always my treat cause that makes me happy. I always bring her to restaurants that she really loves. I love her so much that is why seeing her happy makes me happy too.


myLot reputation of 98/100. msfrancisco9369 (1845)   ranked 1,264 out of 23,177 in relationships  3 weeks ago

You wife must be so lucky for having a sweet and thoughtful hubby like you. See what love can do??? the more you make your partner is what makes you so happy too. More surprises and dates with your partner. I am happy that you find time -- a break to be together!

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