sign in • sign up
web | myLot | discussions | tasks | blogs | news | photos
homeinterestsdiscussionstasksblogsnewsmessages friendsphotosearningsmyLotquizzes

Social Skills are Disappearing email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 92/100. hvedra (233)   ranked 4,071 out of 35,448 in people2 months ago

I do some work with a conservation group and we are often at events where we interact with the public.

At least we _try_ to interact with the public. Often a simple "hello" or "good morning" gets no response or some inarticulate grunting in return.

Some people have not been told it is rude to stand and stare (especially with their mouths open) or ignore people.

They'll turn their backs on you and walk away as if you don't exist.

If they do talk to you they ask the most bizarre things "Is that real wood?" or go "ugh" when you say you eat the berries that grow wild in the woods.

These are not youngsters but adults who often have kids in tow (I dread to think how those kids are going to turn out).

Why is it that I suspect that the only way you can get them to talk to you is via a mobile 'phone or the internet?

Why don't people have any basic social skills or manners any more?

 
 
people
sponsors
Washington VIN History at Carfax
Don't spend $1,000s on a lemon - Get CARFAX Vehicle History Reports.
www.Carfax.com

Is Your Kid Responsible?
Teach Financial Responsibility with a No-Worries Credit Card for Kids.
www.PayPal.com

Washington D.C. Vehicle Towing Services
PetersTowing.com offers free junk vehicle Towing services in Washington D.C.
www.peterstowing.com

BulletTooth (272) response was accepted on 12/4/2009.
denotes best response.
tags:  social skills, manners, rude people, ignorant, civilised
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. lrglara (1025)   ranked 5,064 out of 35,448 in people   2 months ago

i think the technology, whether we like it or not, are sometimes to blame with the fad. i dont consider this appropriate though, but its part of progress. people are cyber-active now that we dont know how to connect with people. I sure do hope we use our technologies wisely and still keep our manners and values intact.:)

Washington VIN History at Carfax Don't spend $1,000s on a lemon - Get CARFAX Vehicle History Reports. www.Carfax.com
 
sponsors
Washington DC Sightseeing Tours
DC's Only Comprehensive Sightseeing Tours. Guide hops off with you.
www.OnBoardDCTours.com

Moving Services, WA
Fast, and simple on-line storage space locator. Free move-in truck.
www.MiniuStorage.com

Washington Intl Airport Fly Hotel Park Sleep
Don't miss your flights - Washington airport parking& hotel packages.
www.ParkSleepFly.com

similar discussions
Just Tell Me!
Have you ever had a situation where someone keeps talking and never stops but as soon as you ask...
sponsors
Washington DC Sightseeing Tours
DC's Only Comprehensive Sightseeing Tours. Guide hops off with you.
www.OnBoardDCTours.com
return to mylot
We are loading a word from our sponsors. No thanks, cancel loading.