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myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love2 months ago

I find it very childish that I have fallen in love again after a long marriage and got divorced 4 years ago.

I met a man and we enjoyed doing things together. We had similar tastes and activities in mind. The complication started when I got double meanings on his statements.

An example is that he has special feelings for me, but can't utter the magic words!
Okay we are adults I have to accept this difference between male & female attitude.

We lived together for a month to test if we would find out if we will feel comfortable. Both of us have lived alone on our own hubs. One evening he brings up a discussion that things won't work with the relationship. We have tried so it has to end. He cries with tears of sadness and sorrow? Of course I also started to cry. But he can't decide if he wants me out or not.

Another week goes we drove to the country side and spent a week together again.
We had so much fun giggling, working in the garden, and fixing things together.
We had to go back to the city because he had to work.

When he came back home after work, the same discussion arises and he is convinced that the relationship won't work. He starts crying and I asked him why the tears? What does he really want? He says he does not know? He had no answers to give! I drove back home and left him.

I really got to like this person for what he is, including the crying part and confusion in what he wants.

I have fallen in love F! Any formulas on how to mend a broken heart?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (5904)   ranked 300 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

Maybe it is different kind of love that both of you are experiencing in your twilight years. Unlike when one is young falling in love has no boundaries. The meaning of love in veterans may have different kind of meaning, more to companionship. Looks like both of you are in love but stop short of confessing it to each other. Maybe you just take it for granted that love works by itself in this two adult hearts. You should be honest with your feelings and tell him how you feel about him so he can make his feeling known to you. Time is running short and you should make the first move to return to him. This is the only way you can find comfort in your heart.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Thank you Zandi458 for your reply.
I have told him about my affection and was very clear about it after knowing him 2 months before the 1 month experiment began.

Yes, I agree that at this stage of our lives it will clearly be companionship.
But U guess we have quite high expectations on the relationship that it is why it
won't work in his own eyes.

I have now left him and will try to forget. It is like getting another divorce! I did'nt expect it to be in this manner.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. Binthu (3283)   ranked 654 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

Hi Fois,

As a adult lovers both are liked and loved together and
some points would separate both of them, so both has to talk
personally in order to open the two hearts to exchanges the feelings
of love. Once you are happy with him then what is the problems
to live with him and also he is too loved you so much, so better to
have some time together again and would talked the matter seriously
and need to starts the life without any more delay, because this is a
life, so be quick and starts to have the fun.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Thank you Binthu for your response.

If it was only that easy. I have told him that life is complicated But .... Happiness is really simple! He does not get it. I had to leave him. I have not heard from him for a week, I really miss him!

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. sender621 (839)   ranked 1,537 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

We should never give up on love. Even though love can break our hearts we have to keep it alive. One day we will find that extra special someone who will be our soulmate. The best thing to do when you fall off the romance horse is to get right back on. This is the best thing you can do to ease the mending of a broken heart.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi sender621,

Thank you for responding. You are right to keep our hearts alive.
I thought the special someone is him. My heart aches and I am sad with what happened.
I still hope a new soulmate will come along.

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4. BelieveFast (15)   2 months ago

chocolate. lots and lots of chocolate.. maybe alcohol.. and getting together with friends..


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi there,

Yes, 70% cacao dark chocolate shared with friends helps. I'm on it!
Thank you for replying.

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5. myLot reputation of 80/100. junmae (599)   ranked 652 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

I am really confused to your partner, i dont have idea why he acted that way but you had said that you always have great time together. it seems that he hides something from you. i feel that he really loves you but there is something bothering him. If he continues in that way, i think you should move on and forget about him.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi junmae393,

I am confused to myself, that is why I decided to leave his apartment.
I guess he is confused himself too. Yep, you are right time to move on.

Thank you for your response.

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6. darmakawasa (75)   ranked 661 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

Love make a fool out of everyone, but i think that's one man with conflicting emotions, you experience a lot of things together, even spent a whole month living together ans spend some time in the country side and still saying it's not working out twice with tears fall down, this guy got issues, he's definitely hiding something, i suggest you find out what makes him acts like that, otherwise you might ended up alone again.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

darmakawasa Hi,

Yes, I have considered this issue of that he might be hiding something.
But he says he does not, I just have to rely on his answer.
Honestly he said he does not understand it as well and there are no words
to explain what he feels.

I do not mind being alone as I have been alone for quite a time.
I might reconsider to look f or a new friend.
Thank you for responding.

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. babymimi05 (662)   ranked 664 out of 2,076 in been in love   2 months ago

Honor how you are feeling. This means that you should not pretend that you are ok, when you really aren't. There is nothing wrong with crying.

Communicate with people that care about you. Make sure you share how you are feeling. Do not underestimate the support that these people can provide.

Exercise regularly and take care of your health. Often times during the period of having one's heart broken, health may be neglected. If you aren't careful, this can only make things worse.

Some people like to travel.

A great way to move through a broken heart is to spend a lot of time doing something you really love. This can be a hobby, work, or anything! If you keep yourself busy you will find yourself moving through the pain faster.

Above all, give yourself time. This type of healing can't be rushed. If you want to restore the relationship, make sure that you figure out why it went wrong before you rush back into it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. foisgras (101)   ranked 72 out of 2,076 in been in love  2 months ago

Hi babymimi05,

Thank you for your reply.
I guess I will have to just wait until the wound heals.
I am thankful to have experienced the togetherness and laughters with this man.

At this point I just have to do something else to heal myself.

A restoration I guess won't result to anything as he has to heal himself first.
I am unable to do this for him.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1157)   ranked 1,038 out of 2,076 in been in love   1 month ago

he sounds weird but i guess he is also confused with his feelings if he was really in love with you or if he only wants someone who'd be willing to be with him with no proper commitment at all.
mending a broken heart is very much easy for me because i know very well myself. i beautify myself a lot whenever i'm depressed and i'm loving it because i can boost back my confidence again. it depends on you. you know more yourself more than we do. so good luck!

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