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liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love4 weeks ago

I know a boy about 6 years ago when i was a senior student and him too on internet.And then,we keep contact with each other till now.Because he is 5month yonger than me,so i asked him call me elder sister and i seem him as a younger brother.
Dear friends,do you think there will be true friendship between us.And now,he tell me he want to come to my city to see me,and i think that he fall in love with me and want to see me.But i donot know whether it is love and whether i should accept him .I never thought that we will be lovers one day.
can you tell me what should i do?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. GADHISUNU (1099)   ranked 2,082 out of 11,783 in love   4 weeks ago

You could meet him if you consider that it is safe to do so. You could have a face-to-face meeting, to decide whether your idea about him would change. Suppose you have already decided he is not for you over the long exchange of ideas you have had, then you need to find methods of letting him know that you have no romantic inclinations for him.


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  4 weeks ago

Hi,dear friends,thank you for your guggestion about this,i think you are right.i will meet him and confirm what is my feeling to him.
Thank you very much

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. srganesh (3320)   ranked 98 out of 11,783 in love   4 weeks ago

As you are sure to keep him as a brother alone,then you need not worry about his visit.You can allow him to come to see you and act as an elder sister.But if you are having any dilemma about your pull towards him,then it is up to you to decide what you want.Select a secluded place and think in peace and come out with a clear mind.Cheers!


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  4 weeks ago

Hi,srganesh,thank you for your kindly reply.Maybe i should think about that seriouly.
Hehe.thank you!

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3. ANGEEELICA (58)   4 weeks ago

i think you must see him then you know if you love him or if he loves you, but you must see ichother...


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  4 weeks ago

ok,dear angeeelica,thank you for your favored suggetion.And now i think i have the idea what i should .

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4. myLot reputation of 81/100. smallcloud (251)   ranked 371 out of 11,783 in love   4 weeks ago

how u feel that he is falling in love with you and want to see you for expressing love?lots of time friend can be advance into the lover process. it is no something special. in my opinion, if you are having the same feeling with him, why not give a try? maybe he is your mr.right ya~~anyway, hope you find your happiness soon^^
all the best to you~


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  4 weeks ago

Hi,smallcloud,thank you for your response.Because he always say that he miss me and want to come to my city to see my and ask me wether want to he come.
And i always pretend donot know everything and treat him as a brother and just think he is make a joke with me.
But my girlfriends tell me that he must have feeling with me and hope i can give him a chace and give myself a chace also.
So i decide to let him come to see me.
Thank you for your kind reply.

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5. myLot reputation of 71/100. bird123 (1121)   ranked 3,172 out of 11,783 in love   4 weeks ago

If you get the feeling of brother and sister around him, it's not likely to be true love. True love has much more chemistry. It's hot!!


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  4 weeks ago

Yes,i know that is not ture love,i think i donot love him now,but just i want to give each other a chace .If there is no feeling after meeting,we can continue to be friends.
Thank you .

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6. lynnzheng (51)   ranked 5,795 out of 11,783 in love   2 weeks ago

i think you should go to meet him. when you meet each other, if you feel that you can not love him, then tell him and just being friends. if you are not sure, just tell him too that you need time to consider this. if you love him and he loves you, there is no doubt that you both should be together and live happily.


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  2 weeks ago

hehe,thank you for your suggestion and he already come to my city.
thank you .and happy in my lot

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7. doreencoco (89)   2 weeks ago

liujuanxh,in fact,there are many ways to say you love him or not,thinking yourself,when he doesn't contact,do you fell lose something and very like to connect him to ask why .if recevice his call,you are happen to talking with him .
get a face to face meething,then can decide .dear .


liujuanxh (75)   ranked 6,571 out of 11,783 in love  2 weeks ago

thank you for your favered response.In fact,i have the situation like your example,so maybe i already have some special emotion to him.I will meet him soon and get the answer soon.

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