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myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family3 weeks ago

Most us like child.if you don't have your own child,will you be accepted by your family? will you be accepted by your culture?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 74/100. vonmac (1440)   ranked 3,015 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

I know my parents would have been a bit sad if I hadnt had children because I know they wanted to do the whole grandparent thing.
If I hadnt had kids I would still have been accepted by my family.
Culture, well I dont think its such an issue here in regard of this matter.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes, in most city in china.i think most family would accept it.but i'm not sure in our countryside.


myLot reputation of 74/100. vonmac (1440)   ranked 3,015 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

Your culture is very different from our culture.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes, in countryside,people need more labour force.their mind are not so open.

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2. minicookie (14)   ranked 3,252 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

i can understand you in some way, but i think the most important thing in our life is happy and to owe a harmonious family. certainly our parents want to become grandparents, but if you indeed dont have your own child, they will love you all the same and also accepte you. for they are your parents, you are their child. at present, people's value is becoming more and more open-mind, you can adopt a child as your kid, which can give a more colourful life to your parents.just an advice for you.
have a nice day!


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes, i have a friend,their family adopt a girl.

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3. myLot reputation of 71/100. bird123 (1100)   ranked 926 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

Isn't a person's value worth more than their ability to bear children?? I understand some families put pressure on their kids to have kids. Seems there is always work to be done.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes,one can have his own value except his child.

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4. judy19989 (41)   ranked 1,878 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

wow...
it's a serious problem,
just look the family or people who how to think about the thing...


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes,different family have different view.

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5. luckyke (32)   ranked 664 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

i love child very much, if i donot have my onw child i will be very very sad, and my family will be very sad too, but they will still accept me i think.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

yes, we all need perfect and idea family.

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6. myLot reputation of 57/100. Maggiepie (1404)   ranked 1,852 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

My mom was sad that I only had one child (& he died), but she didn't hate me for it or anything. Most people here in the U.S. are fine with other people's choices to have children--or not--whatever they decide, except when they choose to kill their babies so they don't have to rear them. Despite abortion being legal here, most people hate it & don't do it for themselves.

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myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

I'm sorry to know that.now most people in china could accept it.but in countryside there are some tradition that people prefer son.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15014)   ranked 284 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

I don't have a child. I don't like children.

Deal with it.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

we have right to choose our life style.so we can choose to have a child or not.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15014)   ranked 284 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

I guess I only get sad about not having children - is when I hear about someone else wanting a child and not able to have one - I wish I could give them my reproductive system - well, without my defective genetic material...


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

if you'd like,there are ways to donate.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (15014)   ranked 284 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

they don't want my old eggs and defective, loaded with allergies and migraines, genetic material

and I ain't planning on becoming a baby factory at 56...


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

we can enjoy our own happy life without that.hehe!thanks!

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. xannebull (1281)   ranked 209 out of 3,898 in family   3 weeks ago

I will still be accepted with my family even if i can't bear a child of my own.i know my family, parents, brothers and sisters will still be there for me.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zhouxi (206)   ranked 189 out of 3,898 in family  3 weeks ago

you have a nice family!good luck!

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