do you ever feel jealous to a friend?

hehe, well, maybe i feel that way before, because she's the first one who really becomes that close to my mom...as in super close, i feel that they are evn closer than we are! hehe my other friends are also close to my mom but i don't feel that way...huh!

hehe, i don't feel jealous on that, i feel mad! haha

Oh, i used the wrong word. well, yes. i get mad like a bull when i saw them exchanging smile or what ever it is that shows interest and I hate it! They are old to do that!!! I'm cool when it comes to that but I don't want my mom or any man show interest at her. Hand off to my mom.

haha... well i understand you coz you are just trying to protect your mom! hehe

but know what? my mom even told me stories about her love life before! haha and sometimes when we are together and we come across with one of her past bf or what, she even point it to me & started to tell stories! haha i feel like ...geez! haha but sometimes i enjoy it...what i just don't like is when the guy flirts...haha i get mad and afraid that my father will know, haha

really? you're fine with it? My mom doesn't share her love stories at me because she know i won't enjoy or like it. There is one time when she share her story at me my forehead wrinkled and ignore her for the entire day while we are at the mall.

haha...yes its fine with me, just stories okay? and sometimes i even ask more stories! haha but what's fine with me are just her love stories when she & my father is not yet together okay...hehe

and why you don't like such stories from her? hehe

because i see her giggling and blushing when she's telling me(us). I don't like her gestures also. Eeeew! Sometimes i insulted her to stop bubbling.heheheheh My sisters enjoy it and tease her of her past, but me, I don't. I just want to hear stories on how my mom and dad met and her experience in joining beauty pageant.

haha...coz you know, our parents, even they are onntheir age now, they will always be young at heart! haha but anyway, just like you, i like it more when she tells stories about her & my father...hehe

so your mom is a beauty queen as well? is she a Bb. Pilipinas title holder?

no, she haven't joined Bb. Pilipinas. just a local pageant in our city, but she walk-out in final night!lol she said she's tired standing and smiling for long hours. The organizer hunt her after she quit because she has the big chance of winning. She become Muse in inter-collegiate basketball, she represent San Beda, i think. MY father was a avid fan of basketball, I just knew it last year. i never saw him switched our television to basketball channel.

haha...wow! your mom must be so pretty!
she walked out? huh! maybe her rivals that time is happy coz the strongest contestant walked out!
but is you dad not a varsity player? hehe

Pretty? she's mestiza and slender when they met. but i don't think she's pretty. (eyes crossed)hahahaha. Mama is fond of joining beauty pageant. No, he's not a varsity but he knows how to bake.lol

haha...well, as you know here in our place, we find mestiza beautiful...
so why didn't you get that passion of your mom in joining pageants? hehe or you are more of a sporty?

really? your dad knows how to bake? that's nice! is he a patissier?

I don't wanna appreciate my mom's beauty.hehehe Joining? eeeew! Nu-huh! my confident is not that high and I don't want to be shameful on stage. I also do have this stage fright problem. Yes, I'm into sports, I used to be a varsity player. I am more on adventures. No, he's not a pastry chef, it's just a hobby. He was trained by his parents to cook and bake goodies.

hehe...but did anyone from your siblings do have the guts like your mom to join beauty pageants? me? i join when i was in college...hehe but never won!
(panggulo lang!)
so what sports are you into? volleyball?

My elder sister. She join campus Ms. and Mr. valentine and she won against high school and college division. I think she was in grade five at that time. Really? how was the feeling? was it for Intramurals? did you represent your division? That's a nice experience. Yes, volleyball. Do you have sports?

hehe...your sister is great! winning the title against those on higher levels...
haha...i'm thick faced you know! haha its a pageant in school and i represent my college...haha well, actually we are 2 who represents our college...but well, as i've told you, i don't have luck here...
but experience is great, coz even if i don't win, at least after that night im already known...hehe and even got a chance to be noticed by my crush! haha

really? wow, you know we always watch on tv those volleyball games between universities... so have you ever played on that? what school did you play for? who knows i already saw you on tv! haha

at least become popular in your University. It's a good feeling huh?So did your crush asked you on a date?Yippee! hahahahaha You're a fan of UAAP? I wish I was part of their team. Our school doesn't belong in UAAP or NCAA. So what's your favourite team? Do yo have a favourite player? I already met them and watched it live. They are really good and so so so tall.lol I played in Ateneo.

haha...how i wish! but, no coz i already have bf that time...hehe but atleast, he ask for a dance that night! and that's more than enough for me...hehe

why? what school you came from? but ateneo is playing there right?
well, i don't have real favorite there, but we do watch it on tv coz its really nice watching them... as of now the only name that comes to my mind is the one Devanadera? and one pretty girl from La Salle i think, if i'm not mistaken...

I guess your heart was pounding and wishing the music won't stop. Yiiiihah! "...cause I'm dreaming of you tonight.. till tomorrow i will holding you tight..." did i get it right? your Boyfriend at that time didn't get jealous?Ateneo, in the province. Rysabelle "sasa" Devanadera of baste. I think shes the team captain of her team last year. She's plays really well. Are you referring to Stephanie Mercado? daughter of Lydia de Vega? Maybe next time you can come with us.

haha..yes you got it right! haha like my world stops at that moment and i feel that his hands are cold! haha... sayang! hehe coz that night is just a month after i get to have a bf...huh!
no my bf don't get jealous, coz he don't know that it happens! hehe coz he's not from our university...haha

yes, that Devanadera, she plays well and they are really great, playing like a man! huh! here did they get such strength? haha, i like volleyball but i am not good in it! haha im afraid of the ball...

i'm not sure if she's the one but all i know is that she got a long hair and sexy...hehe

hahahha you inhibit those moment to your partner. hahahah well, all events of your life should not be share to your partner unless you are so sure he's the one for a lifetime.
Oh, she's not from la salle but she finished her High School in la Salle araneta, not so sure. She's a ramp model,Nike endorser and had several offer to enter showbiz. We though she's going to join PBB. She's moody! hahahha

hehe...but up to now, i don't tell him that story...haha
yes, my bf then is my husband now!

oh i see, and so what team is she playing for? well, no wonder, she really is pretty, why didn't she join pbb then? hehe
how about you? hy didn't you join pbb? haha

awwww...that's nice. "kinikilig ako" why inhibit? How long you've been together? is he your first boyfriend? I love your story. she said she only enter showbiz if there's a good offer and she's also afraid of the intrigues. She's been involve in different scandals that degrade her, all are untrue. I think she is more focus on volleyball and she's planning to join Philippine team. You know what me and my partner like her so much, we have a crush on her. we hope that she won't settle in Germany with her mom. We still wanna see her playing.lol Join PBB? lol you must be kidding. If i joined all my secrets will be reveal. how will i hide my preference, huh?lol my partner was invited to enter the house.hahahahha

haha...yes, he's my first bf! and of course the last also..but there's in between... hehe..you know. sometimes i'm crazy also...haha

really? so that's the reason behind! haha
so what if your preference will be revealed there? its just fine coz i think Filipinos are already open to these kind pof thing...see, like aiza...
why didn't your partner accept the invitation? (sayang naman) hehe

Wow! so you really inlove with your man. keep it up. hope you two have children to share your love.

Revealed? I don't know how to handle and deal with it if ever I'm inside the house.lol My batch mates swill be shock, some of them ruined my reputation in school. So, better avoid more issues.

My partner? She doesn't like also. It's enough she experienced ramp. She prefer being simple despite of the big breaks in commercial ads offered to her. I don't also wanna see her partnered with men.lol

Let's turn the table... If ever you have this opportunity are you going to accept it? Aren't you afraid of the issues? Does your husband wanna see you on TV? hm?? Are you willing to be their puppet? taking a bath with cams on?
I find the show as a rehabilitation center.lol

hehe..i think so? well i also wish & hope for us to have a baby already...

how about you? don't you have any offers? haha
well, i guess your partner just made a right decision of not entering the world of showbiz! and i think if she do, your relationship will just be put on risk & privacy will be gone...
hmmm, your partner must be so pretty and have the appeal to get those offers!

me? if given a chance? haha i don't like! i can't live the way they do... i love my privacy, and yes you are right, they are like puppets there, showing & telling the world everything about them...but we can't blame them, the prize is just so tempting...

yes,she's pretty. no, offers. My face won't register on TV, viewers will switch their channel.hahahaha Our relationship will end, surely. You can't live without your husband. pretty sure you go crazy thinking of him and the girls surrounding him. Well, yes. prizes are too tempting but i guess they only want fame.

yeah i think so, the way you described her shows that she really is pretty...maybe as pretty as you!
your face won't register? haha so humble...maybe if you're going to be a celebrity, you will be a threat to most movie stars now! haha

well, well, just good that my husband don't have such celebrity look! haha and i think i can never be a partner of a celebrity coz i admit that i am a jealous person...yeah, easily gets jealous.

she has a little bit resemblance with.... hahaha I'm not humble. I'm just telling the truth. Maybe i look good to my mom(parents keeps telling their child how they look good even not. ) nu-huh! He may not be as handsome as celebrity but surely he's so appealing. First boyfriend turned to be your betterhalf. Yeah, boy! Being a jealous person is okay but not to the extent that you want to prison him in his own house.lol

¡Vida de la unión feliz, amigo! amor feliz.

resemblance to...? hehe say it!

haha..well i must agree with you! coz to my parent's eyes & to my husband as well, i also look good! haha usually our mom is our #1 fan!

haha...i also can't believe it! coz you know, when i was still i think still on grade school, an old man told me that the first bf that i will going to have will be my husband! haha i don't take that seriously not until it came true! huh!

that's true & i agree with you...jealousy is okay and sometimes sweet...but too much of it will kill a relationship! i have experienced being like that and well, my bf(husband now) & i always ended up fighting! hehe but since we got married, the jealousy factor also lessens...

friends of her keeps teasing her as angel locsin. one funny incident when she was outside the bar waiting for a friend a girl said "angel"? some say she looks like mikaela, the one in greenwich ads with john Loyd? well, she talk like her. she rarely speak tagalog before.

Yes, yes! our parents our #1 fan.lol really? how young are you when a stranger told you that? maybe it was Jesus?! they said Jesus sometimes pretend to be one of us. did your mom of your husband know that? tell me more.hehehhe

good thing your not that jealous anymore. really love your story.=p

wow! she's really pretty! no wonder she gets many offers...
maybe she should make even 1 commercial so that i can see her! haha

very true, coz in our parents' eyes, even we are the worst, we are still the best for them...hehe (at least in most cases)

i think i am just in between 9-11 years old...hehe
if i'm not mistaken, its a town fiesta in my uncle's place & we are there, then they have this visitor that they said a man who lives in the mountain near them (well they live near the mt. makiling) actually i thought he's 'ermitanyo' haha then that's it, upon seeing me the man says to my mom...'you know, this child will be marrying her first bf to be...blah blah blah...' hehe well, because i am still young then, i just smile and listen and don't take it seriously...haha
but i think it stays on my mind...and when i am already marrying my bf then, my mom remembers what the old man says way back...

my husband didn't know anything about it but maybe after this, im gonna tell him the story! haha i just don't know if he will believe or will jut say that its just a coincidence...

well, well thanks that you like it...but know what? our relationship is not as smooth...before. we are 5 years bf/gf before we settle down and in those years we have been through many many trials that almost destroy the relationship...huh!

hahahah we've just talk last night about accepting commercial ads. Summer is coming, talent scouts may ask her again. No need to do ads just to see her on TV. I'll ask her if i can share our photo to you.

Mt. makiling? is that the one with a falls? with pool? I think I've been to that place when i was still in school age. "Ermitanyo"? maybe. It's possible. Is he old guy still alive?

As what i observed when two people settle their first few years of being together as a husband and wife is horrible. I think all couple undergo adjustment stage and after they surpass those trials they become more sweeter, understanding and more inlove.

is he still alive, the old guy? By the way i thought i clicked wrong avatar.lol your avatar is scary. I hate that doll.

oh great...i hope she will let me see the two of you...

well, mt. makiling in los baños, laguna...you know the one with mud spring! and i don't know if you are talking about the 'pook ni maria makiling'

i don't know if that old man is still alive coz i never hear anything about him after that day...

yes its true that first years of marriage undergo so many adjustments...and that's also the time you're going to see the real color of the one you marry! haha...im just glad that we are over those adjustments period and i think we have learned to live with each others attitude...haha good & bad attitude! and actually one thing that's good is that my husband is a matured one...he's 7 years older than me...hehe

hmmm the avatar...its just temporary...haha

I hope she will allow me to post our photo. im not sure about the place, i was young at that time when we visited makiling. I hope i can meet that old man too.lol 7 years older? just like my sisters husbands. Its better to marry older than you than marrying a man who's immature by nature. pretty sure your husband is responsible.

maybe if you will post your photo with her, she will not allow it. but if you would do it just for a while, just to have a glimpse of it...that will be fine too...hehe

well, yes, its definitely better to be with someone who's older than you...and not only older by age...i mean a mature person who already know his responsibilities...

haha...or maybe because i'm just like that! hehe

well of course i feel a bit jealous coz they are so sweet together while me? hmp!
i don't know, i just feel that mom treats her differently from me...and i don't see her treating my other friends that way...
and also, because i always receive some scolds from her when i do something wrong...haha

Well, no matter what, she scold u, is for your own good.. hehe^_^ Would u rather she dun scold u, and allow u to be doing all the wrong things?? haha

As she's your fren, thus your mom has to entertain her, and reason as to why they are close, might be that she respects your mom, and can get along well with her, with lotsa topics to chat about.. hehe^_^

I believe your mom will treat me like her son too! lol=D

haha..yes i know, that parents do that for their children...and they say that when your parents scolded you hen you do something wrong, it only means that they love you truly!

well, well, yes she respects my mom and i think its also because my friend is the one who acts sweetly to my mom and so my mom feels good about it...hehe coz im not as sweet as her that time...

maybe, if you only act good on her, most probably she will treat you that way...hehe

YEah, so there's nothing to be jealous about, silly gal.. lol=D PLus, u are sleeping with your mom in the same house, while she's not!! haha=D

And if she thinks that your mom is the best mom in the world, u will think the same for her mom too.. haha=D For we tend to take ours for granted and be envying the others, while not knowing we already has got the best, such as 'Once upon a time, grandparents'.. lol=D

YEah, but i prefer to be her son in law.. lol=D

haha...yes nothing to get jealous about...but i'm young then and having some issues! haha...maybe i am sleeping with my mom, but know what? we are still talking about her when we are already at home...hehe but anyway, those were things of the past...
yeah, i also think that her mom is great and even think of becoming her daughter in law! haha yes, coz my friend's older brother is also my crush that time!

but good thing is that, that silly thing that i feel before didn't ruin our relationship to them & when i got married, her mom is one of the principal sponsors...

my mom's son in law? hahaha

lol=D NO wonder they are so close!! Maybe your frend is taking your mom like her real mommy, as she thinks there's a high chance of u marrying her brother!! lol=D As such, it's just a matter of time for her to call her, mommy!! lol=D

Wow! Sponsor?? Is she very rich?? lol=D bUt i thought it should be the groom paying for everything?? hehe^_^

YEah, Ask your mom to take me as son in law!! lol=D Replacing the current one!! hehe As u need me more than him!! lol=D

haha...she does know about how i feel for his brother and i think it will be better if its her brother who will call my mom mommy! hehe or me, to call their mom 'mama' haha but too bad that does not happen coz her brother marries other girl huh! and know what? the girl she marries is my classmate in grade 1! haha

they are not rich at all...hehe or maybe i should not use the term sponsor...just call her one of the witnesses...

hehe, but my husband don't call my mom 'mama' or 'mommy' or what...hehe

lol=D NO wonder she's so close to your mom then.. As she's trying to bridge the gap and foster closer relations between both families, so that his brother can be forced to marry u.. lol=D

hehe^_^ Life is like a cycle.. MOst of our crushes will tend to marry someone whom u know, but never expecting it to be them.. haha=D

YEah, witness should be the word, as she's like a relative to your family.. hehe^_^ Then what does your hubby call your mom??

haha...but her brother don't like me, coz even their mom likes me to be her daughter for real! haha but too bad coz it happens to be that my husband now is also their friend! haha and so when her mom finds out, well actually its their mom who bridged my husband to me...so no more future for me & her son...haha
and actually at first, she didn't like the girl for her son coz she's always in their house & they are locking in her son's shop! haha

yes, and its really a small world after all!

my husband call my mom 'mama' just in front of me but when they are talking...hmmmm
i don't hear him calling her 'mama' coz you know, the status thing and besides even my mom feel it awkward to even call him just on his first name...haha
and plus the age gap...my mom is just with same age as her oldest sister...

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hehehe^_^ IF that's the case, wont i be having two grandmothers instead?? Or maybe 3, or have a great grandmother as well?? lol=D

YEah, that's right! PArents can decide anything or everything for their children in life, not never in marriage.. haha=D Nobody knows it best when it comes to love and feelings.. hehe^_^

Just like me, if i'm there, my top choice will be marrying u!! Maybe his wife is JEALOUS of u.. haha=D For being so close to his family, when u are just a friend.. hehe

HIs mom is so OLD!! haha

hehe...don't you like that? the more the merrier!

true! coz only us can feel to whom we will be happy...i guess. but for me, my parent's opinion still counts when it comes to matter of the heart...haha but of course the final say is mine.

i don't think she's jealous...hehe coz she's not like me! haha
actually, the issue between us starts when we are still on grade school! haha although we attend same school & e also have same religion, we really don't become close to each other! huh! but we try, yeah, but not successful! that's hy both of us are kinda surprise to see each other in my friend's house!

yup, my mom in law is that old...think she's already 70-72 hehe not sure. and my husband is her youngest son...

hehe^_^ I dun really like big families as privacy might be restricted, and not forgetting, lotsa naggings in the house!! lol=D

Yeah, opinions will still be important as they tend to see things we dun see while in love.. haha=D bUt still, it's your final say with your decisions, for u are the one marrying him, and not them.. haha=D

Since everything is the same, it's surprising that both of u are not close at all?? haha=D UNless she's someone who's very competitive, and does not like frenz who's smarter than her.. hehe

NO wonder.. hehe^_^ I also wont know how to address your mom if i'm in his shoes.. haha=D

really? you don't feel envious with big families? coz on my part, there comes a time that i wish we have a bigger family...hehe but its just one time when i was still an only child...hehe but now, i also don't like such big family...but i still feel that its fun to have bigger family, just that its also difficult. huh!

yeah, and we are the one who will live with them for the rest of our lives...
well, that's true, there are things that we are not able to see when we are in love! haha or rather we refuse to see, even if its right there in front of our eyes!

are you talking about me?! haha
nope! i think we just didn't get along well, coz we have different personality & group of friends, she's kinda sporty, and im not. we have different interests and we got separated in 2nd grade i think. we have different sections...
although we're not close, we're not also enemies...just civil to each other....hehe

and another thing is the 'status'...

YEah, i dun really feel envious with big family.. alot depends on things and financial state of the family.. BEing too poor can be a problem too, while being rich has got a even bigger problem, when children are fighting for assets and money.. haha=D

YUp, we REFUSE to see!! haha=D THat's how things are always going.. Because we dun like to be proven wrong, and thus we kinda brain washed ourselves to accept what we want to see.. hehe

hehe^_^ SO, both of u are just acquaintances?? hehe^_^ Knowing the existence and feel the presences of each other, but yet, not acknowedging.. hehe

hehe, yeah, you're right! but the problem her in our country is that, it is the poor who have a big number of children in the family...
imagine a poor family with a dozen of children? huh! actually my husband's family is a big one, they are 7 siblings! haha...they are happy when they are all together but my husband is telling me stories about how was their life hen they are still a child...having a big family with just an average if not poor family...

true, we refuse to see things even if its right in front of our eyes...and they say, self deceit is the easiest thing to do...haha making yourself believe for what is not...huh!

yeah, something like that, we just know each other but we are not friends...but when we saw each other, okay we smile and sometimes say hi & hello...just like that, nothing more...

YEah, that's what i noticed as well, in my country as well as in many other countries.. haha=D I guess, when they have nothing to do, they will only be thinking about love making.. lol=D As a result, there are more and more babies!! hehe

Same like my mom, she's the youngest in the family, and she has got 7 siblings before her.. haha=D BUt those kind of big families are a common sight in the past, and not now anymore.. hehe

YEah, because we dun wan ourself to feel hurt and the pain!! We are living in denial!! haha=D Perfect example to be used here.. hehe

really? that's also the case there? hehe well, guess you are right...when people can't think of anything to do, coz there's no work, no food to eat...they just make babies! hahaha but here, during the early times, having many children is a big blessings...there are even some family here who have more than or about 20 children! haha but what's good about them is that they are all grown ups now and the parents was able to send them alll to school...i just saw that on tv...

yeah, nowadays its no longer advisable to have plenty of children...and people are more practical now....some don't even want to have a baby...

hehe, guess that's the least we can do to protect ourselves from being hurt, even for quite some time.

Yeah, but most of the time, it's only happening to malay families.. lol=D I just dun really understand why they need to have so many kids, even though they cant really afford them all.. hehe

WOw!! So that family must be really rich huh?? Sending 20 over kids to school at the same time?!?!

YEah, standard of living is so high now, and it makes no sense to have more babies, when we cant even support ourself.. lol=D

hehe...because they don't have family planning! hehe and just accept it when they get pregnant and look at it as a blessing! hehe and some are just uneducated...i think.

nah! they are not rich! the parents really struggles those days that their children are still young...but as the children grows older, they were able to help their parents already and the older ones, send their brothers/sisters to school until all of them finish their studies! in short they are helping/supporting each other...

hehe..that's why im not worried even if i don't have a baby yet...hehe just kidding! when you already have a child, you will do everything to provide him/her what they need...

YEah, most of them are not high educated, and thus, they just keep giving birth without any control.. haha=D BUt i believe they do love their kids as well, and thus they dun bother to think as much too.. hehe

AH okay.. So Those older children are helping out too.. So i guess the youngest should have the most easiest life of them all huh?? After all, he/she shall be the most pampered of them, and will have the most comfortable life too.. haha=D

WEh!! U are not planning to have 20, and thus u should not be worrying at all!! haha=D Maybe with me, we can have up to 40 instead?? haha=D And u will do everything to provide for them.. hehe

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haha...yeah, most high educated people just have few children... coz they are actually planning, and they know the hardships of having many children...hehe

of course those parents love their children no matter how difficult life for them, their children is their highest possession and willing to do and sacrifice everything just to provide for their children to the best that they can...

yeah, definitely the youngest have the most privilege and the oldest have all the hardships! haha

nah! i can't have such number of kids! haha 40 with you? no way! i will die early when i can't even control my only baby...what more with 40? who will gonna have your stubborn genes? waaaaaaah!

haha=D Though hardship is involved, but they definitely can afford the money to do so!! lol=D It's their way of repaying or contributing to the society too.. hehe

YEah, since children and babies are already borned, it's the responsibility of parents to be taking good care of them.. IF not, why bother to give birth to them in the first place, right?? hehe And i believe u shall be a good mommy!!

haha=D We are both the eldest in the family!! and thus we know!! hehe

haha=D WEll with 40, u will have the help of the other 39 to help u!! hehe

they can afford but they don't want to...and how can they repay the society in that way?

yeah yeah, its parents responsibility to take care of their children, but its just so sad, that there's some people who don't know how to take care of their babies...some are abusing them and there's even some who killed their own child for a reason of too much poverty! huh! that's crazy!

well, i hope to be a good mom when time comes...i really hope so. for i know that its not that easy...

yeah...we know! those responsibilities and the privileges of being the first born in the family!:-)

its good if it will turn that way...but what if 39 gets your genes and only 1 will be left to help me? haha

That's just too bad then, for all men are selfish!! lol=D

Well, they cant really be blamed.. After all, they have to make sure they give the best to their children, and maybe to those parents, if they cant afford it, they wont want the kid to suffer too.. In the eyes of love, the parents are right, but in the eyes of law, they are wrong..

YEah, it's not easy to be a good mom, and being the first in the family too!! Thus, make sure u have twins instead!! lol=D So that, both can share same responsibility in the house.. hehe

Well, if all 39 get my genres and only one left to help u, that one will definitely be me!! haha

haha...very true! and i very well know that...

haha, whatever their reason is, its still wrong! they can give their babies to me! haha or just let them adopted by others who have the capacity of taking care of the baby...killing their own child should not be an option...never!

twins? haha i like having twins! hehe

hahahaha...i don't think so..for you are the leader of those 39 little devils...hehe just kidding!

hehe^_^

Actually if given a choice, most parents wont wanna give away their babies, for they wont want their children to hate them, as they grow up.. NO kids like to be abandoned or be given away.. Because of a certain feeling involved, especially when they know the truth.. hehe But i'm not saying killing their baby is the right option too.. hehe

haha=D Twins can be doing alot of things together huh?? hehe

haha=D There, u'r right!! I will be commanding all of them to be helping mommy!! hehe

hi zed1

well that's good that you never feel jealous...seems like you do have such self confidence... maybe your friends are just insecure with you...
and oh, im surprise to know that even between guy friends, such things also exists? thought those were just a girl thing...

haha, maybe you let him feel your fist on his face! haha just kidding! being calm & cool and have self control is always the best to stay away from troubles in moment like this...

Nah ... jealousy is just everywhere and it exists for both men and women. Perhaps ladies express it more than guys. Guys are jealous but they are not so direct. But the talking behind the back are all the same; just that sometimes guys put it in a subtle way, if you get what I mean.. . Not like a gossip monger type though, LOL. But there are ladies whom are not like that and men whom are not too. These are those happen to have jealous sides to them only.. generally speaking..

haha..yes, men are not as expressive as women in terms of feelings...coz as far as they can, they will just keep it to themselves...which sometimes result to worst...huh!
my husband is like that, he don't show that he feels jealous, and i feel that he never do...but when he reach his limit, he just explode and tell everything to me...haha, same with my father.

Yes2x...I'd say at least 88% are like that, LOL... I'm too, though on the net, I tend to express more. Dramatic! LOL....

But I'm sure your husband cools down easily too... I tend to be able to cool down after a few hours..

hehe...i think most of us are like that...we can express ourselves more openly online...hehe

well, well, yes, he cools down after a hile...hehe what he just need during those moments is space and i don't argue with him, & just let him talk...coz i know he will be fine after that...

You are a very good wife...
Your husband is lucky..

hi zed...

thanks for the compliment, but i think i'm not as good as you think...hehe
coz i also have some tantrums that gives a headache to my husband!

Nah, you are being modest..I still think you are awesome and your husband thinks that way too.

hehe...well, well that's your opinion & nothing i can do with it!

or maybe my husband just already learn to live with me on my best & worst...hehe

im more lucky.

Your good points will override your bad points, for sure..

helo chaitra!

wow! that's nice to hear...that till now you are still close to your friend was still able to go out together even if you both are already married... you really are best friends in its sense!

well, with me, its just a bit jealousy...hehe and it don't ruin our relationship, i am also close to her mom and her mom also treats me nicely. just maybe i saw something with her & my mom that i didn't see with me & my mom! huh!
but anyway, still my mom is my bestfriend and we are really close as friends, and my friend, she's still my friend but we don't see each other much now coz we are living from different province already, but i visit her everytime i go home...

thanks for sharing!

me and my friend try to meet atleast once in a week.. and we speak on phone three to four times in a week.. sometimes every day..

wow! that's great!

huh! maybe you are in love with her!
well, i think most of us will tend to be jealous when our special someone or someone close to us becomes close to other people...hehe coz it means that attention we get will become lesser...and just maybe.

well, now, yes no more silly issues about it! and anyway, my friend & my mom didn't know that i feel that way that time...

..i dunno ckyera it could be, anyways all i know is that we are very good friends and certainly wish to stay that way for long, umm .... hehe i think i need to concentrate on my studies more for now HAHAHA... something to keep me busy with so i that i don't think much about her ... well talking about attention yeah i crave for hers hehehe... okay okay hehe enough of thinking about her ... have a nice day ckyera:)

haha...that's right, you should concentrate on your studies first...hehe but you can always make her as your inspiration! huh!

well, just stay nice to her and i hope that your friendship with her last for long and ahem...have you ever think of her as more than friends?

hehe... my inspiration hm? yeah definitely!:D... and staying nice to her, you can sure count on me... when her phone wasn't working i insisted she have my spare one, eh to be honest i wanted to stay in contact with her and so i wanted her to keep the phone, and after my request several times, she finally accepted and kept my phone, actually she was hesitating to ask me my spare phone but i told her it is okay and then she was very happy i could help .. umm.. HEHEHE yes i have often thought about us as more than friends and also wonder if she has ever thought like that..

haha...woooh! i smell love here!

well you are so nice to her....and i hope she will see that...and who knows, she also feel the same way...hehe

goodluck friend and looking forward for a nice future for both of you!

hello cloudwatcher...

sorry to hear that you have ben abused for that long in your life... i hope that you are okay now.
well, i guess if we are experiencing such things, its just normal that we will tend to dream of having a life better than the one we have...i guess what you feel then is not jealousy, but you are just dreaming to have a nice family as hers...
i understand you, coz i once feel that too...that i envy the life of some of my friends when my family is going through many problems & trials in life...

hi shibham!

im fine! and i'm surprised that you use my language!

well, well, you are right, maybe i just mis interpret it that time, but well im still young then and the situation is new to me...
with you, haha that's funny, but good that you also get the same job that he has and the job that you like..
so how was he now? do you still feel jealous towards him?

hi ckyera. yes, now we are good friend as before and i have nothing to be jealous again.thanks.

okay, thanks also yaar!

Hey ckyera i just heard 'yaar'..! does that term mean 'friend' in your language, erm by any chance??

ei voldrox!

yes yaar means friend but with shibham's language!

but in my language its 'kaibigan' (friend)

hello, shibham! shibham!
He's a campus hottie? most campus heartthrob are not intelligent. They usually use their face to manipulate people and to get what they want.

hi there. hard to understand.

hi ckyera. yaar is a hindi word and hindi is the national language of india. my mother tongue is assamese and in assamese friend means BANDHU( for male) and BHANDHABI( for female).lol

hello shibham!

well, hat simonelee is trying to say is that, usually, handsome men are not as smart...hehe just like your friend...you said, he's good looking & gets much attention from girls...but he's not as smart as you! hehe so he's just using his looks to get attention and manipulate things...

and thanks for that info bandhu? hehe

really? and you are just in grade 1 by then? wow! and you still remember?

well at least both of you lands on a good job now...and are you still friends now? and have regular communication?

i guess all of us do some funny things when we are young...coz i also find it funny when i think about, how i become jealous to my friend in this way...haha

thanks & happy posting!

hehe...then that's good for you. and yes i agree that no one can replace us in our mom's heart! well, as i can see it, your mom really have a good heart...something that you also have...

well, their sweetness is different as compared to me & her mom...and its also maybe because my friend is really sweet, unlike me...coz i'm not as expressive as her...

she's already married no with 3 kids...

Ok I give up you have a good reason.... ...married eh.. ..3 kids..