abortion!

thanks for responding.. yup it will be a very difficult to tell what is right or what is wrong... it will always be depend on the situation...

oh.. that video I'm talking about is not a fake one.. it was a video that showing how the baby is form inside the mother womb.. ahh.. just watch it... and don't judge it to quickly...


---ohh it so sad story... ahmmm... dont worry you have already 2 children right? that angel of yours. whose not able to see the world would always guide you... for you her/his mother... i really recommend you to watch the video...

that angel of yours

My angel is my third child who died suddenly at 8 mths old which is why we aborted..

it was a video that showing how the baby is form inside the mother womb

Oh I thought you were talking about an abortion video, sorry about that..As for how the baby forms and progresses I'm well aware of it all..6 pregnancies and 3 kids the third being born at 24 weeks gestation...I'm already very familiar of the stages etc...especially with all the went down during my preg and delivery with my third as well as his fight

ahh mokie... i think your not really interested on that video.. is more than that,,, it also stated how the baby feels inside her mother... okie gudluck to you.. and godbless....

i think your not really interested on that video

Honestly I dont..there is no need for me to..I know what its like to be preg, give birth, breastfeed and the whole nine yards...I dont know whta its like obviously to be in the womb but it really isnt important to me....I also know that regardless of all and any propoganda I've seen since my abortion I still would do the same thing over if I were in the same horrible situtation I was in then..

abortion and miscarriage is different!!! well it is really differ from the situation. neither in medical term or emotional or psychological state of the mother. thanks for responding!!!

you have a pOint!!:)

There are pills for birth control, which alter the hormonal patterns of women, cause spotting, and irregular periods. Not a very enjoyable experience if you've ever been on the pill.

Depo, a shot that makes you put on weight.

There are other pills that stop pregnancy, but I believe that is still considered an abortion.

Some people are raped, drugged, etc. What about the rights of a woman? It's her body, and it should not be abused--and yet it happens all the time.

there are so many pills in the market to stop pregnancy . they could use it if they dont want to get pregnant

who's to say that all pregnancies that end up in abortion were unwanted pregnancies? That wasnt the case with me...the scenarios are endless, ppl need to realize that rather than trying to black and white it.

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ravenlady hi the leading post was for pitgull this one for u ....
i know that all the pregnancies that end up in abortion are not always unwanted but the majority of them are.
oke to answer more for u can u reply one thing .... u said "that wasnt my case" what do mean by that did u have one too?? sorry this is a very private question and u r not obligatory to answer it, if u r willing to answer then only answer it .

Yes I did...long story short my third child was VERY premature..a few weeks after he came home finally after being in the hospital for months I found out I was pregnant again..my hubby and I were happy about it and then two weeks later Tyler (my 3rd child) died on the way home from a "perfect check up" wiht his lung specialist..It tore us up..after two weeks of discussion as best as we could we decided to abort...What Tylers death did to us individually and as a family was hard enough to deal with..the fact that my preg with Tyler had complications right from the 3rd month was a concern and the nonsense we had to deal with in regards to Tys death added to it..My trying to go through another pregnancy and putting my husband who ended up in a severe depression for 7 yrs and my oldest who became suicidal as well as myself who ended up suicidal again through it wouldnt have been a good thing...(the only reason I didnt mention my daughter is because she was 4 yrs old and really didnt understand what had happened other than the fact tht Ty wasnt coming home again)..

We were happy about my being pregnant again..Tyler was going to be off his oxygen soon, he was making amazing progress then all of a sudden things changed dramatically...We would have loved to have had that child but the end result was it wuldnt have been in the best interest of myself, my husbnad and my two remaining children..

different view, different opinions. but our opinions and view will never reach the ears of a person whose willing to lose the the baby.. for her own sake, for her own good.right? for the mother hold the life of her baby, the baby that lives inside her.

ravenlady i feel really sad that u and ur family had to go through all that . there are somethings in this world that we cant change and they are better left alone in dark corners of our memory . i am sorry but my heart sank when i read ur story . its sad that people have to to face these things. the worst thing that can happen to a mother is her sons death and u have faced it . i will surely pray for u and all those mothers who has suffered from such a situation.

but our opinions and view will never reach the ears of a person whose willing to lose the the baby.. for her own sake, for her own good.right?

"willing to lose the baby"?? "for her own sake and good"??? sorry but in MY case, it was for the sake of my entire family...and truth be told until you go through (the gods forbid of course) exactly what we did you will truly never understand..be thankful for that....You have no idea what it was like..You may not agree with our choice but the reality is, my LIVING children, my husband and myself came first before an unborn child....As a mother I have a responsiblity to my LIVING children above ANYONE or ANYTHING else...thats fact. YOU (or anyone for that matter) dont have to agree with our choice..but your feelings/opinion on it are really irrelivent...Like I said, if in the same postition again I would make the same choice..yes it sucks I dont have FOUR kids right now and will most likely never have another..but I dont regret my abortion for a split second. It was the right choice.

ravenlady nobody means to offend you in anyway .i and we all agree that what u did was right and anybody in that situation would have done the same thing.nobody is and never will blame u it was the circumstances that are to be blamed.it is really hard for a mother to abort her own child and i know it must have been terrible for u to do it .

yep.. it will be her conscience!

a baby in medical term will always be considered as a alive for as of 2 months the fetus is has already a heart.


--- i remember this qoutes from my classmate which she said " if you get pregnant but not with your fiancee, because of shame. you decide to abort it.. think twice.. because mother mary... got pregnant with jospeh.... and if you will abort the baby.. then you have been aborted JESUS!"

Well, I'm pretty sure the baby that you would be carrying is NOT Jesus. And plus, I think the decision is totally up the woman. There should be no law that tells the woman what she has to do with her body. There never should be.

Plus, what is stated in the Bible only applies to people who actually are Christian, Catholic, etc. Most of the world isn't one of those religions, so you have to respect all of those other people, too.

yes.. your right.. we have no right to stop or say something to a person who wanted to do an abortion because that is there right that is their autonomy. but what about the right of the fetus to live?
but as i say as we all say.. it will always depend on the situation.

if her life is in danger.. that would be called therapeutic abortion... for itwas on mother sake... i ramaber my singel mom classmate she stated that

" if you will going to abort it will be much harder, much pain, much trials, (bec. of complication and consequences) if you you choose to let it live, it will also be harder, much pain, much trials. (for you will going to support all through your child life.)"

the video what I'm suggesting to you. i have watched while we are in our lecture about maternal. and we are deeply sadden when we have watched the video we are so touch.