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maxpowr (26)1 month ago

Now a days i am going thru a dificult situation, and hard to understand to myself, That start with a lovely morning! I often go to morning walk and come back to my home within hour, But that morning was different from another day, that my eyes gone stuck to a person, she was a beutiful girl with attractive smile.That morning i again came back to my home but my heart still their to this garden.Now i regularly go there to see her, and she too come there, I want to talk with her about my feeling but fear, if she refuse than, please suggest me what to do, where to start, how to express my feeling to her.

 
 
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trilliansramblings (151) response was accepted on 11/12/2009.
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tags:  love, in love, tag, first time love, love at first sight
 
1. myLot reputation of 56/100. Hucheng (136)   1 month ago

Just say it out!Be a man!


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

thanks for your suggestion but its not so easy as it seems, i didn't ever feel fear but now i dont know what's gone wrong with me

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2. myLot reputation of 28/100. trilliansramblings (151)   1 month ago

It sounds like you could be in the beginning stages of love.

You should start by introducing yourself, if you haven't done that already. Start slow. Try to get to know her a little. Ask her about herself. Try to find out what you two have in common. Then you can get a sense for if she's interested in you.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

hello trillian, how's you, thanks for your suggestion and really sorry to reply you so late, i was not onlie for a long time, yes you right i am in the beginning stage of love/attraction, and ya she is not coming to garden now a days and i dont have her address, i think should have follow her that where she live but that thing didn't come to my mind, i am still waiting if she again come in garden and that time i m going to follow her that where she live.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. crushy79 (340)   1 month ago

just be sure whether it is infactuation or love.

some will get at first sight.

but some it differs.

nobody knows when will they fall in love .

nobody knows with whom they are going to fall in love.

but it is a wonderful feeilng.

if she is not with you,you will get lots to talk with her.

if she is near you,you will get nothing to talk.

enjoy the pleasurable pain.but be sure whether it is love or lust.

love is a precious feeling.dont confuse it with lust.

love starts from your heart.lust from eyes.

so pray to god.and decide your life.all the best.


myLot reputation of 68/100. shobhan51 (127)  1 month ago

Crushy79, I totally concur with you on this. Anyway I wish lover boy all the best.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

first sorry to being late to reply, i was not online for a long time, you know where i was busy!!well now a days she is not coming to garden, and i dont have her address also, i have no way instead waiting for her to the same place, but this time if she come, i am going to follow her, to see where is she live, i think its wrong to follow but what to do, its first time that i am being afraid to talk someone, i need some time.Looking for forward for your suggestion(as you are a girl so you better understand another girl about this matter)

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4. 234235099 (10)   1 month ago

i think u should think about how u can make u know each other,u can talk with her in a moring,just like a acquaintance,say moring,then make a conversation with u 2.let her know u r a nice guy,not a bad guy with some bad purposes to say hello to her suddenly.and u don't need tell her ur feelings about her at the first time.u can be friends at the begining.leave a good impression on her.maybe it is more easy to get her.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

hi thanks for your nice suggestion, i think this will help me out, but saying hi to a unknown person is good?how she will react on that, i think i should talk thru another person who know her better.

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5. mammalfeathers (19)   1 month ago

Well, do you know her. i think that before you go blurting out your love to her, you should at least get to know her. are you even at the stage in a relationship with her where you talk to her. sorry if you are and im sounding mean,but you should get to know her first before saying anything.


myLot reputation of 68/100. shobhan51 (127)  1 month ago

Lover boy should determine if it is love or lust before he pursues further. To be in love one has to be a friend first. Friendship develops into love. Lust is short lived whereas love is permanent.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

sorry to reply you late, ya you right i think i should know her better, than should take any step forward, but for this i have to follow her that where she live, now days she is not coming garden, and i have no known as where she live, so no way instead waiting.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. djoyce71 (1624)   ranked 1,322 out of 3,602 in lover   1 month ago

happyHello.

You can start befriending her and get to know her and when the right time comes, tell her how you feel. Whatever she tells you or decides regarding the circumstance, the you must admit. But, be positive. You might win her heart.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

dear, first i am sorry to reply you late, i was not online for a long time, i was bit busy, you know where!!yes my first step would be the same, but i dont why i am being feared,Now days she is not coming to garden and i dont have her address also, so have to wait.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. maria120883 (164)   ranked 3,306 out of 3,602 in lover   1 month ago

you need to take the bull by the horns and tell her already. there is always that possibility that you will never get to see her again so you have to do what you got to do!!!!!! just go for it!!!

you have to take a chance, you never know if that is going to be the last time thatyou will ever see her again or if she might be the love of yourlife the one that will bear your children and the one that you will choose to marry someday. just do it. you need to pump yourself up with courage and do it.

you can also take a dog a walk and go pass by her and see if she compliments your dog and then that breaks the ice and you can start to talk to her,. is she doesn't say anything to you but she does smiles at your when you pass by then you have to break the ice yourself and say something to her like hey doyou have a dog, do you walk a dog like i do, do you like dogs?

just bust out with something that comes to your mind at the moment. don't freak her out by telling her thatyou are in love with her. because then she will think you are a weirdo!!! and want torun away or somehting like that.

goodluck buddy!!!

happy mylotting

maria s.


maxpowr (26)  1 month ago

Hey maria, how's you, thanks for your suggestion, i really like your suggestion, and ya you were right, it's possible that i never see her again, i am going thru the same situation, i was busy to see her only, and never thought to know that where she live, now a days she is not coming to garden, i think i should have follow her, but what to that time my mind was not working, i was thinking from my heart instead from mind. now i have no way instead waiting for her next visit there. than i will follow your given steps, and i need courage for that.

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