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Yes, I gave that poem to her but.... email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love2 months ago

As I have told you guys earlier that I had something in my mind and I wrote a poem about it. I have posted that poem also on this site. I think you guys have already read it, aren't you? If not then please visit the discussion with the title on my profile with a title as "I don't know if it is allowed but....".

So, I gave the poem to her. When I started talking it wasn't that bad. She was, I think, surprised that I went and talked to her. Well, I appologized for my behaviour and she said that it was okay with her and she isn't feeling bad for it. Well, at the end I gave her the poem and she read it in front of me. At the start she was enjoying but at the end.. I don't know why her expression got changed and the reaction was "It was nice." and then a silence. The tone she said those three words, I didn't get much words to talk to her. I think something whcih she didn't like.

Then at the end of the shift I tried talking to her. She wasn't looking happy with me and I think she got annoyed also.

Now, what! Today also, I tried to say hi but the response was so dull and ignorant that I can't speak even a single word then.

This is the discussion and I am in total anger. I dont' want to talk to her anymore but... let's see what happens!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

I am following your latest saga my friend!

You say 'I dont' want to talk to her anymore but... ' and you know that you do not feel like that at all. You would not be angry right now if you did not want to talk to her. It is the only thing you want right now, be honest with yourself.

May I ask something I have not seen mentioned in our other dicussions? Are you certain that this young lady is free? whistle Could it be that she already has someone and you are not aware of this?


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

You are right! I want to talk to her but she doesn't want to do it! Let's see, I am still hopeful.

She is free, I know that!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Get her to join myLot and we can put in a good word for you whistle


myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 145 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Hi mysdianait,

Get her to join myLot? It is really a good idea. If she can join myLot and I think all friends on myLot can put in a good word for sanuanu. Of course, the leading character in such a story is sanuanu. He can try his best to win the hearts of the girl by his gallantry. Wish him success.


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Hi gb!

Sanu has won the heart of many damsels here on the Lot wub
She might have a lot of competition here and realise what she is losing out on whistle


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

It is a no from her side. Today, I had a talk with her and she has accepted that she is not interested in me face to face.

So, the story is closed and I am in search of a new one!:-(


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Join myLot???

I don't think it is a good idea!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

I can see that it is not a good idea now too Sanu.

Now you can move on as you have sorted things out. Clear your thoughts and continue your travels because Miss Right is out there somewhere wink


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Ha ha ha ha.. I have heard this for the first time.. Miss Right!

I have always heard of Dream girl or soulmate. You gave me a good smile!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Your smile has been missing from here for too long Sanu wink


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

You know what, I have started asking my parents about my marriage! LOL! They are saying that it is far from now!

Infatuations are bad, don't they?


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

I can't really remember. It's a long time since I was infatuated rolleyes


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Ha ha ha ha!

You know what, if you are with me, I will never have tears in my eyes. Atleast not due to sorrow or sadness.

Well, I have had many infatuations and one of the best was when I was working in my last company. Wait, I will start a discussion on that too and you will know that how fool I was that time!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Fun keeps us young Sanu wink

I can't wait to read your next story - but don't take that badly though blush I am not happy to know you are going to inform us of another 'tragedy' that you have been through but I love reading your topics! thumbup


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

It was not a tragedy but my foolishness. I came to know after when she left my life that she had something about. May it could be infatuation from her side.

I will explain it in next one or two days!


myLot reputation of 78/100. mysdianait (12185)   ranked 2,728 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

This is getting exciting becuase you keep us waiting with all these new announcments! We can only guess too necause you are so mysterious whistle


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Mysterious! Am I?

Well, I have this tendency of keeping people wait and wait and wait about my discussions. Now, I have opened all my cards and I have nothing left. I have one or two more stories but those are too small to discuss here at myLot. hmm.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. dawnald (10177)   ranked 151 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

I'm sorry, but probably she doesn't feel the same way that you do. And if so, at least you know, and you can hopefully start looking somewhere else. Hurts though, I know.:-(


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

May be you are right but I am still hope ful.

I will ask her out face to face if she likes me or not! Good idea, isn't ti?

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. hireshd (360)   ranked 186 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

May be she does not feel wat you feel for her, so we need to accept even if we have some feelings for others it is not necessary that the other also has same for you!!


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

I respect her decision and I have great respect for her in my heart.

I think I was a little too early in making the approach, I should have waited atleast a month more before opening my heart in frotn of her!

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. eLsMarie (1157)   ranked 26 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

i haven't got the chance to read the poem but i'll try to look for it later. i'll agree to what the other mylotters says that maybe she really doesn't feel the same way you do so she does not want you to expect anything from her. it's just a simple silent move. just tell her that you don't have any plans of disrespecting her decision if she says a big NO to you. try to fix everything by being friends with her again but if she remains to be unfriendly, i think she's really not the girl who's deserving for you...


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Hi elsMarie,

I think she doesn't even want to have friendship with me. I will have a pain in my heart till the time we will be in the same company. The only solution to it is to leave that company but I won't have that choice also.

let's see!

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5. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5490)   ranked 895 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

She could have reacted the way she did because she either does not feel the way you do or she may have felt somewhat overwhelmed or shocked by your declaration. You could leave it for a while and see how she is and eventually talk to her I guess. I would leave it for a bit though and give her some time. I wish you luck with this sanuanu! happy


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Ah, I wished I was her lover. The song sung by Enrique fits so much to me... bt it is not going to be the case with me.

She is not interested in my at all!


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (5490)   ranked 895 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Ohhh!! Are you sure? Hang in there sanuanu, you're a great guy and the right girl is out there, I just know it!happy


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

You really think so..

It has happened for the third time, can you imagine third time heart break!

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6. myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (3731)   ranked 1,550 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

Maybe she was just overwelmed and surprised. Maybe she didn't expext that at all and doesn't know how to react just yet. I hope that she comes around. Let's see what happens indeed. Good luck.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Ah, I wished your words were true but it is not true and she is not made for me. Chapter is closed as she said that she is not interested in me.


So, where is my sweet sweet girl with whom I will make love!!!!
Story starts again! LOL!

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. carrine (1019)   ranked 5,192 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

heya there.
just dont give up on her.. im pretty sure everything's gonna be alright between the two of you bro.
have faith and believe in yourself.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

I don't think that it will happen with me. It is over now but thanks a ton for responding to this discussion!pal


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myLot reputation of 87/100. carrine (1019)   ranked 5,192 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

hahahhaha
yah ive made it! and of course ill response of your post. remember were buddies right?? iam happy that you're back.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 145 out of 11,885 in love   2 months ago

Yeah, I have already read your discussion and the poem.

In my opinion, it is unnecessary completely for you to get angry. As some other friends here have said, she may not feel the same way you do so. Perhaps she has had loved one, perhaps she doesn't accept you so quickly, perhaps she needs some spare time to think it twice before giving you response.

So, you'd better calm down and let time to prove the love if you really love her. Wish you success.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Thank you so very much for the response pal!

but the story is closed and I dont' think I can carry out even friendship with her. So,.. bye bye Charm.

BTW, the girl's name is Charm! Isn't it sweet?


myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 145 out of 11,885 in love  2 months ago

Yeah, Charm is really a sweet name indeed.

But as you have said above, now that the story is closed and you dont' think you can carry out even friendship with her. So, just try to go out from shadow and start a whole new life. I think you can succeed at last. Good luck! my friend!thumbup


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Hmm, this has been happening to me for the third time and you won't believe that this time, I had decided that I won't go for girls and I was almost on the right track as I know that I have nothing to impress them at all but again it has happened.

Now, full stop till I get married!

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3295)   ranked 1,635 out of 11,885 in love   1 month ago

As I am only just now seeing this my response to your most recent post still sums up my feeling on this subject.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Ah, I think now you must be knowing the whole story.

If it is an infatuation then it has been happened with me for more than 5-6 times and the worst thing is that I have not still got any idea of how to carry on a relationship. It seems that I won't learn this art.

These days, things are so fast that I think that whatever I want to do, I must do it in a hurry. The more time, I take the less chance for me to get someone. Life is too confusing because somewhere we have to follow: "patience is virtue" and some where we have to follow: "Time is money"


myLot reputation of 96/100. Canellita (3295)   ranked 1,635 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

Carrying on a relationship is easy enough, but you have to practice when you are young or you will not be successful at it as you get older. You are going to make mistakes so don't worry about it. Just get out there and start making friends. If you take your time getting to know someone you will not make a mistake choosing a partner.


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  1 month ago

That is the problem. When I was young, I was afraid of girls because I have heard from others that girls are one of the barrier in success of any boy. So, I have avoided any relationship with girls till I was 25. AFter 25, I have started doing some relationship but neither of them got success with it!

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10. myLot reputation of 85/100. maygodblessu44 (2549)   ranked 1,408 out of 11,885 in love   3 weeks ago

Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
TRY AND TRY AGAIN BOYS, YOU WILL SUCCEED AT LAST" is mostappropriate approach line for you. Md. Gazani triied 21 times to raid India. Please be hopeful.
May God bless You and have great time. thumbup


myLot reputation of 89/100. sanuanu (3937)   ranked 13 out of 11,885 in love  2 weeks ago

I think Ghazni tried 17 times and at last he got success but I dn[t have that much patience my friend!
Let's see


myLot reputation of 85/100. maygodblessu44 (2549)   ranked 1,408 out of 11,885 in love  2 weeks ago

Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
So nice of you for correcting me to 17 times. I have also gone through long string of conversation at Response No.1. One has to have patience. It is not that one has to switch on and switch off. On ehas to give ufficient time to turn liabilty into assets. It will take moe time and more patience.

May God bless You and have great time. thumbup

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