Yes, I gave that poem to her but....
By sanuanu
@sanuanu (11235)
India
November 5, 2009 8:54am CST
As I have told you guys earlier that I had something in my mind and I wrote a poem about it. I have posted that poem also on this site. I think you guys have already read it, aren't you? If not then please visit the discussion with the title on my profile with a title as "I don't know if it is allowed but....".
So, I gave the poem to her. When I started talking it wasn't that bad. She was, I think, surprised that I went and talked to her. Well, I appologized for my behaviour and she said that it was okay with her and she isn't feeling bad for it. Well, at the end I gave her the poem and she read it in front of me. At the start she was enjoying but at the end.. I don't know why her expression got changed and the reaction was "It was nice." and then a silence. The tone she said those three words, I didn't get much words to talk to her. I think something whcih she didn't like.
Then at the end of the shift I tried talking to her. She wasn't looking happy with me and I think she got annoyed also.
Now, what! Today also, I tried to say hi but the response was so dull and ignorant that I can't speak even a single word then.
This is the discussion and I am in total anger. I dont' want to talk to her anymore but... let's see what happens!
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10 responses
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
5 Nov 09
I am following your latest saga my friend!
You say 'I dont' want to talk to her anymore but... ' and you know that you do not feel like that at all. You would not be angry right now if you did not want to talk to her. It is the only thing you want right now, be honest with yourself.
May I ask something I have not seen mentioned in our other dicussions? Are you certain that this young lady is free? 
Could it be that she already has someone and you are not aware of this?
Could it be that she already has someone and you are not aware of this?1 person likes this
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
6 Nov 09
Get her to join myLot and we can put in a good word for you
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
6 Nov 09
Hi mysdianait,
Get her to join myLot? It is really a good idea. If she can join myLot and I think all friends on myLot can put in a good word for sanuanu. Of course, the leading character in such a story is sanuanu. He can try his best to win the hearts of the girl by his gallantry. Wish him success.
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
12 Nov 09
As I am only just now seeing this my response to your most recent post still sums up my feeling on this subject.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Nov 09
Ah, I think now you must be knowing the whole story.
If it is an infatuation then it has been happened with me for more than 5-6 times and the worst thing is that I have not still got any idea of how to carry on a relationship. It seems that I won't learn this art.
These days, things are so fast that I think that whatever I want to do, I must do it in a hurry. The more time, I take the less chance for me to get someone. Life is too confusing because somewhere we have to follow: "patience is virtue" and some where we have to follow: "Time is money"
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
16 Nov 09
That is the problem. When I was young, I was afraid of girls because I have heard from others that girls are one of the barrier in success of any boy. So, I have avoided any relationship with girls till I was 25. AFter 25, I have started doing some relationship but neither of them got success with it!
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Carrying on a relationship is easy enough, but you have to practice when you are young or you will not be successful at it as you get older. You are going to make mistakes so don't worry about it. Just get out there and start making friends. If you take your time getting to know someone you will not make a mistake choosing a partner.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
6 Nov 09
She could have reacted the way she did because she either does not feel the way you do or she may have felt somewhat overwhelmed or shocked by your declaration. You could leave it for a while and see how she is and eventually talk to her I guess. I would leave it for a bit though and give her some time. I wish you luck with this sanuanu! 
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Nov 09
Ohhh!! Are you sure? Hang in there sanuanu, you're a great guy and the right girl is out there, I just know it!
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
6 Nov 09
Yeah, I have already read your discussion and the poem.
In my opinion, it is unnecessary completely for you to get angry. As some other friends here have said, she may not feel the same way you do so. Perhaps she has had loved one, perhaps she doesn't accept you so quickly, perhaps she needs some spare time to think it twice before giving you response.
So, you'd better calm down and let time to prove the love if you really love her. Wish you success.
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
7 Nov 09
Yeah, Charm is really a sweet name indeed.
But as you have said above, now that the story is closed and you dont' think you can carry out even friendship with her. So, just try to go out from shadow and start a whole new life. I think you can succeed at last. Good luck! my friend!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Nov 09
Hmm, this has been happening to me for the third time and you won't believe that this time, I had decided that I won't go for girls and I was almost on the right track as I know that I have nothing to impress them at all but again it has happened.
Now, full stop till I get married!
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
11 Dec 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
TRY AND TRY AGAIN BOYS, YOU WILL SUCCEED AT LAST" is mostappropriate approach line for you. Md. Gazani triied 21 times to raid India. Please be hopeful.
May God bless You and have great time.
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
12 Dec 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
So nice of you for correcting me to 17 times. I have also gone through long string of conversation at Response No.1. One has to have patience. It is not that one has to switch on and switch off. On ehas to give ufficient time to turn liabilty into assets. It will take moe time and more patience.
May God bless You and have great time.
@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
5 Nov 09
i haven't got the chance to read the poem but i'll try to look for it later. i'll agree to what the other mylotters says that maybe she really doesn't feel the same way you do so she does not want you to expect anything from her. it's just a simple silent move. just tell her that you don't have any plans of disrespecting her decision if she says a big NO to you. try to fix everything by being friends with her again but if she remains to be unfriendly, i think she's really not the girl who's deserving for you...
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