how can i deal with my husband

I think it's understandable he wants to relax at home, after all, he has been out all day working, I don't blame him for wanting to play games, work isn't everything after all!
Don't pressure him, in the end it's his career, not yours. If you think you two aren't making enough money, get a job yourself if you don't have it, or pursue your own career. It's easy to criciticze others and put pressure on them, but how about you?

Sometimes people have confidence in what he has run. With to do what became his confidence, so most likely it will be good at his job so he could later be regarded as experts in their fields.

In this case I think you should not expect much so that he find a job you think is better than the present. Believe me, luck was in the hands of God and God will give it to someone who meant it

My sugestion is tackle your isues one by one...since nothing is can be unsolved i think you should remain calm,composed and look at the bright side.
He is working and bringing home income,that is positive.Changes on his job timings realy would make u happier,try and wait til he gets a new job or promotion etc, that allows him to come home earlier and spend time with the family oe a,but right now,he needs your support. Talking to him is another good way to overcome your problem,be gentle but direct.dont keep it to yourself as you wil suffer from unnessary stress.

All the best.Regrds

I think it is not easy. Working in the advertising company is very tiring. So I think it can be understanding that he goes home to play the games. As people work hard and then play hard. It is normal. We can make ourselves work 24 hours. It will drive people crazy and you can't offer quality work at last. We also need the break. I think he will change one day. As you say, he is young now. He may not know how to play your future. He will change after several years.

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love and affection is very essential in everyone's happy life.

you have just started your life.

so dont complicate yourself with too many notions.

first try to accept his situation.

try to encourage him with good words instead of blaming eventhough he has negatives.

looking at the positives gives you more happiness instead negatives.

everybody has minus points in them.

more than all these things just cast your burden upon the lord and trust him and be relax.

god will guide your life happily.

Its only three months you both are married so its early to think anything about future and career. Enjoy your times and get to know each other better.
Discussions and plans for career and future should be discussed prior to marriage so that you both can plan the path ahead. Understanding and compromise goes a long way in keeping a marriage working…so when he’s free you can always sit down together and have such discussions. Don’t nag him or pressurize him to take more responsibility.

I think you should be happy that he has a job and maybe he is taking it seriously while he's at work...When he wants to come home and relax let him! If you keep riding him about things its just goin' to cause problems between y'all!

You said that he is young and sometimes young men mature at a different rate than young women. As you two get to know each other a little better, you will plan your future together. Sometimes if you get stressed, it is easy to put stress on your partner. He may have his own plans for the pace that he wants to pursue his career. The key is to always TALK to each other and learn the wishes and hopes and dreams. They will come, I'm sure, so please try not to worry.

Let me tell you a little story about a young man that sat in the chair behind me in high school algebra class. He goofed around all the time, getting 30's and 40's on his math tests. He always made jokes and acted like he didn't care if he even made it out of high school.

Well, he did mature and went to college later on. When his mind was ready for the future, he got very serious about it. Now, he has a wife, five children, a lovely home and he has written his second book about Marketing. If you had asked me in our Algebra class if this boy would become the man he is today, I would have laughed. But he proved me wrong. Maturity comes at different times for different people.

I wish you both all the love and happiness for each other and a bright and successful future.

Hi Whiclou,

As a wife you have the rights to discuss the matter with
your husband and also informed the importance of the new jobs
which would brings good happiness and more money. I am so sure that
he may listen your advise and would like to listen or learn some good
things in the future in order to have the good jobs with high salary.
So don't worry be happy and also you have to get your husband in the
good shape and also wishing you to have the good and married life.

Have a nice day.

So your husband is a gamer, then show him sites that pay for playing games,then gradually other sites pay for discussion,then gradually he will start liking it.