Do you change the things you don't like in your life?

I wish we can change ALL things that we don't like in our life. Personally, I wish past sad and painful events in my life can be changed. But that is not possible. For things in my life now that I don't like and I am capable of changing, I do it. I don't want to be sad and lonely and now I choose to move on and enjoy life. I don't want to be entangled in any office controversy and intrigue, so now I am staying away from any idle talk and refrain from commenting to those I feel are just sowing intrigues. Life is a choice. All we need to do is choose the right choice, isn't it?

i can change some of it but not all of it...maybe it is my destiny to be like this and to have a life like this.

I try although I am not always successful. I try to pick out one thing to change at the time and work on it. I find that if you try to change too many things at once I am unsatisfied with the results. I also try to recognize that I cannot change everything. Again I am not always successful. I feel that life is a constant change and what we want out of it varies with our situation at any one given point in time. Therefore we have to be flexible and change too.

If you can change something in your life that you are not happy with then you should. I didn't like the crime in my country so I left. I was also unhappy about my weight so I joined a gym and go 5 times a week. Too many people just sit and complain about their situation but aren't willing to do anything to change it. Our lives are our responsibility so we need to take control.