Do you consider yourself a good lover? How?
By laydee
@laydee (12798)
Philippines
November 8, 2009 6:16pm CST
Hmm.. In terms of having a relationship, I could say I'm a good lover because I really do my best to make the relationship work, including leaving him alone when he would really need space and researching on how to understand him better and how to better myself.
Not to mention that I'm loyal and I don't have any secrets from him.
As for him, though he doesn't have all the time in the world for me, and we're still adjusting to the fact that we're far apart due to work assignments. He still manages to squeeze time for me regardless how tired he is (obviously) and this is what makes me think he's the best lover for me.
How about you? Are you a good lover? Do you think your partner is a good lover as well?
11 responses
@buping (952)
• China
10 Nov 09
hi ladyee, to some extent, i think i am a good lover as my boyfriend always said this kind of words to me. and we first fell into love with each other, he thought that i have made several boyfriends.haahaha... i took care of him, i made some romantic things when we feel bored with life. and i would give him a surprise out of his expectation.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
9 Nov 09
we haven’t really given it a thought…I mean we both are so tuned to each other that even without telling we know what the other wants and what to expect. Tiffs are there as always but at the end of the day, we cant really do without each other. We’ve both had to evolve a lot like in every other relation and I think we’ve managed it just fine.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
yeah , i do consider myself a good lover since i am so faithful with my husband even if he's away from me. i make sure that i communicate with him and do things that would make him feel loved.
@CathyLee2009 (429)
• China
9 Nov 09
I'm a very faithful lover,yet I won't say I'm a good lover.love is so complicated ,just like life.
@shona264 (167)
• India
9 Nov 09
Yes,I do think I am a good lover because I really care for my lover,give him space,and even after having a busy day,I manage to have time for him.Doesn't matter how much time I give him,because love means spending time with each other and not how much time we spend with each other.I really try to understand his problems and help him over that.Besides everything,love is just love.And I don't think that there is something like good lover or bad lover.We just love our partners the best we can.Thats it.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
..I do.. I always prioritize the happiness of my loved ones before my own happiness.. Sometimes, people will even say that I am spoiling my loved ones because I do everything just to make them happy and even to the point that if my loved ones I hurt me, I just let it go and continue loving them.. maybe, that's really what love is..
@rorisricha (732)
• India
9 Nov 09
Hi...it's a great feeling to be loved and a great task to be a good lover because of this busy lives.....we are in today..Even though we love the most we really feel still lack of time for us to express.....ofcourse we will..in the time we have..but on some occasions feel like if I could had time could have done this and that.....yeah a good lover maintaining, attending, him in the time I have and sharing everything with him....Hope our and your relationship continues without any hurdles........thank u and take care......
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Hi laydee
I would have to give myself an 8 on this topic..LOL..I feel like that I am a good lover to my hubby. I make sure that he has what he needs, make sure that I fix different things for supper so that he doesn't get bored with the same thing, I baby him when he needs it, and most of all I make sure that he is happy when it comes to the bedroom. But you know what he does the same for me. We have a great relationship.
Good discussion and you have a great day. Keep smiling.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I don't know honestly but I just love someone the way I know how to love.
