l learn to give up to cry when I feel very sad

China
November 10, 2009 6:36am CST
I often to cry when I met difficulties in my life or work, I cried very sadly. Now I lean to give up to cry when I feel very sad, because I found the cry was a weak behave, and cry can't let you resove the problem, only change your feeling. Do you cry when you meet the difficult in your life or work?
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EdTv00
@EdTv00 (298)
• United States
11 Nov 09
If you want to cry, by all means CRY!. You should never have to hide your emotions. Crying does not make you weak, dont let other dictate your feelings.
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Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
12 Nov 09
Cry really can release my bad emotions, it's ture, but cry really can't change anything, just release stress. thank you.
EdTv00
@EdTv00 (298)
• United States
12 Nov 09
no problem.
coolcat123
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
10 Nov 09
it was once with me too but why to cry if no help is given to you by the tears instead it brings thoughts which are sad and make us more tense. people instead of thinking the past should try to think the future doings like what to do next to upcome the problem.
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Patsie Hatley is Deceased
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Nov 09
hi bettdeng5 I used to cry easily when I met big difficulties in my life'aut have conquered that since I grew older and now in my senior years, I would love to sit down and cry about mysituation here at gold crest but I tell you what.it would not 'change anything,In order to make any changes, you must be alert and calm and'be good natured. crying just does not cut it all it does is give you a headache, and who needs that.
Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
12 Nov 09
You are right, when I cried, I felt a headache, and my eyes were flare,I will give up cry when I met the difficulties, thank you.
itzmee1009
@itzmee1009 (362)
• Australia
10 Nov 09
Hi Bettydeng5 I agree with you, Even i used to cry lot,but not infront of others,when ever i feel depressed and sad i do,but i used to overcome from those sadness quickly,life is short so we should not waste by crying.
Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
10 Nov 09
Thank you for your repsonse, yeah, if some people don't understand us why we cry, they will think which is our weak behave, so I think cry can't resolve anything just relax our feeling. Do you think so?
Jackie8
@Jackie8 (127)
• China
12 Nov 09
Never cry, never run away, Just fight it.
Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
12 Nov 09
Struggle and fight is a good challege for the difficult, I will. thank you.