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myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family 5 months ago

Its the first time one of my kids has needed to be put to sleep, so it was quite nerve racking as you could probably imagine.

My son has had to wait 6 months for the dental surgery, bless him. I am just thankful it happened before Christmas so he won't be in any more pain and will enjoy the festive season.

He fell off his scooter onto the concrete pavement and knocked two of (luckily his baby) teeth. He managed to badly damage them, so they were exposed. Anyway he is nervous of the dentist so she recommended I had him put out so he wouldn't be scared of dentists, as the injection in the mouth may upset him. He needed the teeth taken out.

If I had any idea what it was going to be like I wouldn't have put him through it. The operation went fine. I went to the recovery room to collect him and we were sent home as soon as his eyes were open. I carried him to my mums car. She drove us back to her house. The whole journey was horrific. I have never seen a child so distressed. He didn't know who I was and he was almost hyper ventilating because he was working himself up so much. He was too floppy to sit on his own so I had to hold him and talk to him, but he didn't hear me.

This went on for nearly 2 hours before he finally calmed down. He watched a video quietly on my mums sofa.

Anyway I spoke to my sister today and both of her kids have had operations. But she told me both were kept in the hospital for a few hours afterwards. The nurses made sure they could use the loo ok and that there were no side effects. Now I am angry at the dental surgery center. As I feel we shouldn't have been sent on our way so quickly. He had an operation, but we were in the hospital for 30mins.

I know adults can cope with walk in and out operations, but surely this shouldn't be allowed for children? My sister says I should complain, but this is the standard procedure for dental operations, so they are not going to change it. Whats the point in complaining?

Thankfully I can say my son is absolutely fine now apart from a fear of going to sleep, as now he thinks he won't wake up or nasty things will happen to him when he is asleep.

 

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LadyMarissa (2903) response was accepted on 11/23/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (13458)   ranked 15 out of 41 in my family   5 months ago

That sounds pretty awful. I'm glad he's fine now. Hopefully he'll get over the fear really soon and it won't bother him for a long time.

I think perhaps you should complain anyway. If that happens to enough parents and enough of them complain, perhaps there's a chance that they will change the procedure.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

I hope they do because if I had taken him on my own and I had driven him home it would have been dangerous. I wouldn't have been able to keep an eye on him and drive at the same time. But they don't tell you that you need two people.

Maybe because my son is hypersensitive it may have effected him more so than other children. But I don't think thats the case. The nurse seemed to know it would be a struggle home as she said it was a good job there were two of us.


myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (13458)   ranked 15 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

so it sounds like they know it's a problem...


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

Even if they couldn't provide any after care at all, just to of had a room to go in for a while with him until he fully came around would have been ideal. Instead we endured an hour long drive with him sobbing and distressed not knowing where he was or who he was with.

Surely providing a room wouldn't cost the medical service much more? Grrrrrr it makes me so angry.

But yes it does appear the nurse was aware we would have a difficult drive home. But they didn't even warn me as to what to expect. More information should have been provided.

Anyway sorry if I am ranting on about it, I guess when it comes to our kids it brings out the strongest emotions and sometimes we just have to vent them, even if its to complete strangers online. Thanks for listening

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2. myLot reputation of 50/100. Anora_Eldorath (2614)   ranked 21 out of 41 in my family   5 months ago

Skye-

Oh, how I know the feeling. Our daughter had ear surgery back in March and I remember feeling so anxious over it. It seems very odd though that they didn't let him wake up fully in the dental office, though I am not familiar with how that sort of surgery works.

Perhaps the best thing you can do is simply reassure him as you have been and let him know he will wake up if he goes to sleep. Maybe if you sit with him in his room as he sleeps he can be assured that if he does wake up you'll be there.

Have a lovely night and my best to your little one.

Namaste, Anora


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

I did lay next to him while he went to sleep last night. Not a habit I want to get into, but if it helps reassure him for a few days then thats what I'll do.

If I had taken him on my own it would have been so dangerous in the car as how would I be able to drive with my child so distressed in the back. It is odd that a child can be chucked out the hospital as soon as he comes around from the operation. They didn't tell me anything about side effects or what to look out for,

All they do is ask you to sign a form to give permission for the op and give you a leaflet.

He is absolutely fine now. Back to school today.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2903)   5 months ago

Awwwww, poor baby. I'm sure your son was very confused about everything happening to him!!! Complaining will do absolutely NO good as the medical profession are sure to collect their fees, but cut expenses on the other side. They turn the children back over to their parents way too soon so they have NO recovery expenses.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txqiwrbYGrs

Here's a Youtube video where the Dad recorded his son coming out of anesthesia after dental work. With the type of care your son received, be thankful they let you take him home as you could give him MUCH BETTER care!!! He would have just been a royal pain in their bum in that they would have had to work & would have resented it. Mummy can give him a LOT MORE love & BETTER care!!! Just hope he doesn't have to be put to sleep again anytime soon!!! Children just don't know how to control what they are feeling after being drugged heavily!!!! I hope he is back to normal today. HUGGGGS to his Mum for taking such good care of him!!!


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

Thanks. I felt like crying with him at the time. It was awful to see him in such distress and not be able to do anything to help him. I don't doubt that I gave him better care, but I just feel we should have been offered a room for a while until he was at least able to talk to me. We had an hours drive home in the car and it was the worst journey we have ever taken.

But it is over and done with now. Hopefully he never has to go through it again


myLot reputation of 94/100. LadyMarissa (2903)  4 months ago

[bTHANK YOU FOR THE BR!!!] happy happy happy


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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. Binthu (3807)   5 months ago

Hi Sky,

This is a common practice in the dental surgery and also
the dental center usually send the patients to the home after
he feels more comfort, on the other hand your son still feels the
sleepy because the dose of anesthetic would put him in deep sleep
in the surgery and also it would be on the blood for some time
then he would also feels the sleep mood . So better to inform your
son to have the good sleep in the home and follows the prescribed
medicines properly in order to have the good and peaceful day.

Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

Thanks I know its common practice but I don't agree with it. If you live within 20 minutes of the hospital then I guess it works well. But we had an hours drive. Just to use a room for an hour or two wouldn't cost the medical service much, yet it would make the experience a lot better for the child.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. Trensue (1436)   5 months ago

Each person reacts very differently to those types of medications. It would be normal that he would not recognize you as they give you something to make sure you don't remember the surgery. I don't know if complain is the right word, but I would certainly let the staff know that no one prepared you, as the primary caregiver, what to expect. You would not want someone else to be unprepared. They explained it to me, so I knew what to expect and was able to cope. Just random thoughts.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Skyeblue25 (195)   ranked 3 out of 41 in my family  5 months ago

I phoned them today and told them how I felt. I got an apology. Hopefully they will explain to parents in future.

It would have been easier had I known what to expect. Thanks for the reply

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. borhan (683)   5 months ago

Most luckily, he has recovered and you all are at home. You can thank Almighty as the baby was not kept at hospital for one more day. That would made the baby more nervous, i believe.
These experiences are horrible foe a kid. I wish and pray as he remains safe in future days.
Give more time to your baby. Thank you.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. sid556 (11693)   5 months ago

Putting anyone under anesthesia for the first time always carries a risk. Especially a child should be monitored closly. Two of my girls had to be put under for surgeries when they were very young. It was not a quick ordeal. They did stay until they were alert and coherent. Never did we experience what you described. You should speak out not only for your sons sake but for others as well.

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