When children fight

we shoud interfere i mean we cant make them think that it is ok to fight especially as kids if they too early they are going to teach it to the even younger that it is ok to fight it is almost like pregnancy the kids are getting pregnant at ealier ages because we let the old ones get away with it

I guess if they are not killing each other, you should probably let them work it out. I however, will intervene if it is really getting heated, and it looks like it is going to get out of control. My kids generally only fight with each other, so not really a big problem. As they get older though, I could see where fights could be a problem.

hi careguardian I really would interfere as I would not, and really I did not, raise my kids to be violent hoodlums. I feel' we should teach our kids to settle quarrels and spats not ' with their fists but with talking it out.there is way too much violence as it is directed at our kids in games and tv shows, we dont have to have it between our kids and the neighbor kids too.