Some "Responses" from few Mylot members used to feel me "Heart touch'.....

@Baluyadav (3643)
India
November 15, 2009 9:45am CST
When i go through the responses i got from different members,out of all,few responses from some members make me feel heart touching..ofcourse,they are all my mylot friends.The way of response..the inserting of polite words in response..feel like they are considering me..like so many..Do you feel like that with members?
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
hello baluyadav... yes my friend, and sometimes i feel that i really have the connection with them. sincere comments and responses from them make me feel happy and makes me feel that they are really a friend to me. know, what sometimes, while reading responses and comments, it brings me different emotions, i can be very happy with the comments that i received and sometimes it can also makes me sad or even brings me a teary eye... so comments and responses that i receive from my friends and other mylot members do have an effect on me... and i appreciate each & every mylotter that i met here...
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
16 Nov 09
Hi,yera,this response seems itself,comes from your heart,is it?.Thanks to Mylot.If you trust or not some times i wait for response from close friends like you when i post a discussion.I have not got satisfaction without their response even though i got 100 responses..It is my responsibility to say some of them like..marguicha..amyson..stephcjh..fulltank..neeli..getbrowser..Misterwit..Long list.needless to mention here..they know and they feel. And one more suggestion to you as friend-don't react too much sensitive..i am feeling that you are too sensitive..]we are all here to support you in all aspects.All the best and have a nice time.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
haha...yeah, it came from my heart...most of the time, the responses & comments that i gave are all come from my heart, this is what i feel and think while responding... well just like you, there's also sometimes that i am waiting for my friends to respond on my discussions and i feel that its incomplete without them...and in return i also respond and comment in every discussion that they make to the best that i can. but when it happen that they were not able to respond on mine, i don't mind too, coz i understand that not all my discussions will interest them and just maybe they are also busy at times...but that won't make sad or mad or what...friendship will still remain. well, you sensed me right, i am a sensitive person...but i am also a joyful one and thanks for the piece of advice...
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
13 Dec 09
Hi, Congrats for getting the best response mark.Have a great time.
@charblaize (1026)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I like to answer responses with how i feel, whether they are on my friends list or not, I will still respond to their discussion wholeheartedly and honestly. I like to do the "treat others as you would like to treated." I have had some give me really good responses and have some that didn't give me much. But it is nice, understanding and heart-warming when you get the response you really need and touches you. I am glad you have got that opportunity and gives to show us, that they are caring and sincere people out here.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
15 Dec 09
hi,char,thank you for sharing your views and the content in your response is very much appreciable..all the best and have a nice time.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
15 Nov 09
I try to express friendliness here and make people feel welcome to respond or comment to me. After all there's no reason to be mean, so I try to express politeness and make a person feel good or needed, it's only proper!
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
16 Nov 09
Hi,that's nice cowgirl.What is loss to us if we behave politely and express the content with pleasing manner.All the best and have a nice time.`
@marguicha (230351)
• Chile
15 Nov 09
Hi friend, One of the wonderful things about this site is that, in spite of belonging to different cultures and living so far away, we make friends with some people here. So we can talk of mylot members and our own mylot friends. You are one of my friends and I am interested in what you do and how your world is. That is surely a bond through space. Take care!
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
15 Dec 09
hi,friend,these words give boost up to people to live with confidence and happy,as someone is thinking of us and about our activities,thank you marguicha.
• Malaysia
15 Nov 09
Hi, Baluyadav! Yes, I feel like that with some of the members and I really appreciate it. Even though they do not agree with you, but they do try to sound pleasant. They would not bombard you with harsh words and make you feel what you are saying are worthless and they even get back to you when you have questions.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
16 Nov 09
Hi,you are in right track of behaving with others perfectly..as you said give repsonse to those even they bombard us gives us good mileage.All the best and have a nice time.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
As one matures in this site, I base maturity on the number of posts made. Maturity shows in the kindness of ones reply, tolerance and words of comfort and to let the one that posted the discussion that the topic matters to them. It's usually the newbies who come in here with in their fighting forms but tends to mellow down as they age on mylot LOL. Cheers!
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
16 Nov 09
Hi,bong,good analasys.I too saw in new bies and the temperement in their responses.As you said that as we are getting seniority,the tendency in responsing as politely is increasing. Have a nice time.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Nov 09
I hardly ever make discussions anymore at Mylot. I like to respond to my friends discussions instead. Some members here are very sincere and quite a few aren't. I am glad to hear that you have some good friends here too.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
15 Dec 09
hi,friend,thank you for sharing your idea on this subject.Have a nice time.
• Philippines
15 Nov 09
hi baluyadav, I do feel the same things but not to over do as something the emotional attachment makes some discussion unworthy of reading as it fill the spaces which should be use to writes the replies to a discussion. Thus, a bit of sentiments should not deviate replying as it is the essence of discussion. As sometimes the polite words are merely abuse and it uses informality. I could say that some uses those words to elicit further comments which sometimes is annoying as the exchanges of comments become like an ordinary chat and the main topic of discussion is discarded as many members already uses to it.I think it is best to have such sentiments but not too over do as i notice some friends only go back to their friends discussion and still comments. But if you are going to read their exchanges of conversation they no longer talk about the topic and they do it just to increase their earning. But, the truth some comments back then comments again though the exchanges of comments is different from the real topic. The quality of the discussion loss its essence.