Were your kids good sleepers?
By moonchild1au
@moonchild1au (6237)
Australia
November 16, 2009 4:36am CST
My daughter is now 2.5 years old & she was by no means a good sleeper when she was a baby...she would never sleep during the day until she hit about 15 months old! For other parents who have had a child like this will agree with me that you feel like you're tearing your hair out. Now that my daughter is older, she has her day time sleep most days but sometimes she doesn't as she doesn't want to sleep which I guess is to be expected coz the older she gets, the less she'll need that sleep.
I have just recently stumbled across this website called einschlafwunder & i wish I had found it when my daughter was younger & didn't sleep. From what I have read, it would've helped me big time...you can buy & download soothing & comforting sounds for babies.
How did you cope with your baby not sleeping during the day?
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5 responses
@Jae2619 (1482)
• United States
21 Nov 09
I have two children. My son who's 7, has been the best baby, toddler, and big kid I could have asked for. When he was younger, you pretty much had to get up and check on him to make sure he was ok because he was such a sound sleeper.... and even today when we are out past his bed time he begs to go to sleep in the car on the way home... Now my little girl who's 2, still doesn't sleep threw the night. She begs to stay up. We've tried everything for her, fan for sound, lights, TV, singing to her, crying it out, so far nothing seems to work. I run on about 2 hours of sleep a night/day (when ever I can get it) and it's rough. It wears you down, but thankfully, my horrible addiction to Mt. Dew has helped me alot. I just try to keep myself busy with household chores to fight off the urge to fall asleep when she is playing. My husband works odd shifts so it's been rough trying to find time for me to catch a nap here or there but we work it out. I have had to call in reinforcements from my mother in law to come play with the baby, and/or watch them both while I catch a few winks because I just can't go on. I will check out your site you listed to see if that would be something worth trying for her. Thanks.
@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
24 Nov 09
You have been very lucky with your son!! I thought my daughter was bad but your's sounds just that bit worse...I hope you can find something to help her & you out...my daughter didn't want to have a sleep yesterday so you can imagine what she ws like at dinner time lol..the only good thing was that she was in bed early last night YAY
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@kezabelle (2974)
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20 Nov 09
My eldest never slept a lot during the day but she did sleep really well at night so it never mattered to me really she was such a relaxed happy child and she didnt cause a problem being awake at all, her sister howeve wow she slept all the time she is three and would still sleep in the day if it wasnt for her nursery session in the afternoon
They both sleep 12 hours at night i do think ive been very lucky but also I have always kept a good routine at bedtime and i think it helped with my two they thrived on knowing what was happening at bed time and when it would happen and it seemed to help lull them to sleep as it was simply part of their routine.
Different things work for different children though.
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@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
20 Nov 09
You are lucky!! My daughter was sleeping through the night at 3 months old until she got a really bad flu...she is now 2.5 years old & only just starting to sleep through the night again.
@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
9 Dec 09
My husband and I got into a discussion with a Grandma, mother, and baby at the mall the other day. The Grandma and mother were talking about how kids will wake up when they are hungry, and if they are good sleepers, we should just let them sleep, and enjoy the peeace. My husband, who has raised a lot of children, agreed, and so did I.
I told them about the story Mom told me about the night i was born. She had asked them to wake her up in the hospital when I was ready to nurse. The next morning when she had not been roused to feed me, she was annoyed. However, her tone changed when they told her that did not wake her because i did not wake them. LOL I'd slept through the night the night I was born.
@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
11 Dec 09
You must've been VERY tired after being born!! My daughter was fairly sleepy for a few days after her birth but I think the pethadine i had when I was in labour had something to do with that.
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 09
My toddler son liked to sleep for half an hour in the afternoon when he was younger. Now he often falls asleep then and some days he stays awake all day. It depends on if he has had a really busy morning. He needs to have catheter care on a 24 hour timetable. My baby girl had trouble sleeping last night. Her nose was running and she kept crying. I soothed her with some cuddles. Good luck with your daughter's sleep. A nap in the day can help a child feel happy and awake.
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@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
17 Nov 09
I agree, a nap can really help with kids & dinner time (kids witching hour)is not as bad...my daughter rarely goes without a sleep these days which is good.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Hi, moonchild1au. No, not hardly. They would stay up at the wee morning hours. They still do now. My son slept soundly when he was born. I did not have that much of a strain with him. But my girls, they would fuss and whine at night and in the early morning hours. It was very frustrating, I admit. But, I had to deal with it. It seemed that the older that they all got, I was able to rest more while they slept longer hours. Thanks for the website. I am in need of some soothing music to play around my kids







