Be fair to yourself
By lichee_china
@lichee_china (506)
China
November 20, 2009 5:40pm CST
We generally make the mistake of comparing our experience with another person's.We exaggerate their successful experience and downgrade our own success.I'm going to say that if it have difference,it simply means you have had a different experience.Be fair to yourself,you should be happy whatever you have gain.
2 responses
@lichee_china (506)
• China
22 Nov 09
yeah,be fair to yourself,your success is even better than your sad at someone's experience compared to you,have a nice day,china.
@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
20 Nov 09
I so want to say that. That I could be fair to myself. But for now, I can't. I have to suspend my judgement because I still have some difficulties in life. And I still can't help see the success in others.
Hopefully, I'll learn to live with all my experiences and accomplishments. If only I don't have somebody that always reminds me of my failures. 
