Why divorce rate gets higher and higher?  

Hi Betty,

Most of the recent survey would indicate the increase in Divorce
at all the countries, and it was happened due to many more reasons,
especially there is no mutual understanding, if the couples does not
have the mutual understanding and adjustments then it is really too hard
to manage the life. So the life is full of understanding and adjustment
so the husband and wife must have this both character in order to have
the happy life and also to avoid this divorce. As a good couples they
would follows the important character like Mutual Understanding, Adjustment,
respects each other, helps each other, do together, etc., in order to have
the good life.

Have a nice day.

hi,bettydeng!
I think it because people's minds have changed and they cherish happiness of their own more than before.
of course everyone has rihgt to pursue his or her own happiness,but I just doubt that whether end a unhappy marriage is a guarentee way to begin a happy marriage.
I mean the world we are living in is definitely not perfect,and it is impossibe for our spouses and marriage to be perfect.so I think a marrige enter into a hard time,the couple should first consider what they can do to better the situation,rather than how to end it as soon as possible.if the family can remain stable,it is very helpful for the growing of the children.
well,have a nice day!

How many people marry when they are 19, 20, 21 and do not know what they want from life?

Two or three years go by, they mature, their expectations change, and the relationship that they took on for reasons that they cannot explain in their adolescence, makes no sense to them now that they are full adults.

If there are children, there are responsibilities that they never considered. It adds tension to the relationship, as well as a financial burden that they may not be ready to handle.

Far better that people marry later in life, after their 25th birthday for example, when they are much more certain what they want, and far more capable of handling the problems that arise.

i dnt know how much the divorce rate....but i agree couples if cant get along with eachother and not happy anymore with eachother so go for divorced rather than keep try saving marriage and what happen mostly since not happy any more in marriage life one will cheat to find person that can give love and happiness they search..were just human and just passing by in this earth so why we need to stick on the person that can't give us happiness and even love..some theyre into the kid's reason but if i have parents nah happy 2gether anymore i prefer they will into divorced than suffer stay and live nah in happy life and we kids will be affected anyway....

hi betty^^;;
with the first reason that love is gone..then i may ask why love has gone faded?
i think because spouses are preoccupied in this fast-changing and competitive world. there are too many unnecessary things a spouse focus on and thus neglecting his/her rule as a spouse at the same time a parent. on the other hand, some thought that they spent too much time on their partners and children thus forgetting themselves.
so when they fight, they thought they would need their own time and resort to divorce because it would lessen their responsibilities. people are becoming selfish and greedy, and the worst they jealous among their families and partners. there's no word sacrifice and understanding anymore..this is the world they are living today. im not a pessimist as i would love to raise and have my own happy family and i know there are still many who have a happy ending but this is just my observation..

Therefore before marriage, one have to understand who their spouse are. hey have to learn to live with it by showing some tolerance. A happy marriage not usually in peace mode but a willing to sacrifice for each other.

Couples divorce for many reasons. Some may be due to money issues, some may be sexual issues and some may be due to lack of affection and commitment. But, if one were to look beyond all these issues and reasons, they will find that it’s the EXPECTATIONS that are the root cause. It is because the spouse does not know what his/her partner interpretation of LOVE is and what they expect out of it, which makes the relationships grows apart.

You can go to the following link to read more about What Leads To High Divorce Rate In Our Society Today.
Here is the link : http://socyberty.com/issu...

In fact I have read about an article taking about WHY PEOPLE DIVORCE, and maybe it would be great for me to share that article with you since it's the right topic.

Her is the article: http://socyberty.com/rela...

I dn't think divorce is a good way to solve problems. But when couples can't stay together anymore after many efforts, divorce might be the best way to release eache other. Just like my mom and dad, they have problems with each other and they are not happy, which makes us unhappy too. It's so frustrated that I can't help nothing when looking my mom unhappy. She always complains abt how my dad treated her, how hard she is, etc. And she doesn't want a civorce. All those problems between them are breaking us dowm.

mostly couple are not satisfied for thier wedding thy do it only as a regular duty if they do it in other way they then the divorce ration can be reduced.