what are the things that you done that you want to do it differently ?

Actually I think its the other way around.. just correct me if I'm wrong..but people please others because they want others to please them..And if no others appreciate or give a simple thank you or too. You will frustrated because no body appreciate what you do..You need to feel appreciated to..Its the only reward that you need for pleasing others..I'm just taking in general about pleasing people.. .............. But I think, You must not wish that.. Cause even people don't show that they appreciate what you do..deep in their heart they really appreciate you..

because I do.

I dont know... I think its because I felt guilty if I didnt and because I just wanted to be a nice person. Doing something for someone else that you know will be helpful or make their lives a bit easier is a good feeling in itself but, the more you do the more you are expected to do - by both others and yourself I think. I just find it frustrating when I have to compromise because two peoples interests are directly opposed. If you only have a limited amount of time/resources you can give all to one person and upset the other or give some to each and not be doing your best for either. (I'm not sure if that will make sense to anyone else - but i know what I mean ) Thank you... that was a nice thing to say

People really rely on promises to much. I do agree with you. Its really hard to say no and same time its really hard to give money out to your friends. Money is a hot commodity. Once it slip away from your hand you loss it. .. I realize that after I loss my job two years ago. until now I still don't have work.

Then we have different view then. For me life is a random and pure coincidence. Maybe it has a reason maybe not. But I don't want to waste my time finding reason. I rather waste my time enjoying life. What ever life can offer. If not then I will just dream about it. I'm happy that God does not give problem that we can't handle. But how I wish God give me no more problem. I want also to wake up in the morning without any worries or problem.

regardless of our good intentions, if it's not meant to be then it can never be... i still believe that nothing happens in our lives just by chance. everything has its own reason... we may not understand it now, but someday it will all make sense. so hang in there... all this is just part of the journey of what we call life.

I'm sorry to hear that.. May I comment? If its about break up or something in that nature..and if you feel guilty about it..then I think its more because you love him to. And breaking up with him for you at that time is the best way to punish him for the things he done..But now that his happy with his life..that makes our guilt lessen..I just have a question are you happy with yours? In a loving way of sense are you? If not..I think..its doesn't lessen the guilt its multiples..lolzz... But If our talking about a different story..then just excuse my comment..thank you..lolz

May you share it with us? I don't know you and you don't know us..So what harm sharing?..lolz.. Yes they say when you fall, there's no way but up.. But theirs also a saying..one step forward two step backward.. If you fall..it will keep you falling..falling..and falling..and falling.. that's the law of force..