I am really upset and enraged about all these talk about cheating.
By laydee
@laydee (12798)
Philippines
December 3, 2009 8:17am CST
Perhaps it's because I was a victim of a cheater. Perhaps it's because my grandfather and father have done so. Perhaps it's because friends fell victims of their partners cheating as well. I am really enraged about women allowing men to cheat through them. I mean, these women know that the men are married, so why do they even tempt the guy?
It really bothers me big time.
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
well, different people have different personality it is their liking and some really have a magnet to married men. Some know the consequences and yet they still accept it is a fact they like married men who have more experience and big spender. they could buy anything they want and still pamper that the worst things those women may end up as common law wife. Though, the legal wife still triumph the knowledge their husband have another woman lead to hatred.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
True enough. But what bothers me is the fact that the woman knew the wife and knows that they have 2 wonderful young kids. I mean, doesn't these people have hearts at least for the kids?
Well, I think I know the answer to that. But still I hope that they would wake up before it's too late and truly understand that it's not love they're fighting for, they're just loser trying to get attention.
Whew..
Thanks for the response.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
hello again,
Well,
i still don't know what else to explain regarding the cheat but with regards to why the women do it? i think it falls under a guy on "why would they fell for it" when they know well that they have families, it's rare or impossible that a man is under the influence of "indecent proposal/threat" just like the movie starring demi moore.
with regards to your topic, it's the Men's fault for allowing to be tempted since they have the "choice" to "reject" it anyways.@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
I think it's both their faults and I think they both should rot in h*ell! hehehe..
Anyhow, I think we can't really do anything about it. Perhaps time is a good healer and surely when regrets do happen, I'm really ready to say "I told you so".
Thanks for the response!
@MischiefFilledMe (268)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Cheating is a horrible thing. I personally have never actually been through it, but it was very close one time. My ex-boyfriend, who I had been dating for a week or so at the time, had started flirting with another girl, and I dumped him on the spot. Then, he USED the girl to make me mad, so I started flirting with a guy who I have now been dating for eleven months.
That situation was close enough to cheating to make me really upset, but not anywhere NEAR what a lot of people have been through. I really do NOT like the girls that go around flirting with married, or about-to-be-married, guys. Which is another situation I have been through.
A girl, who had a boyfriend at the time and was also one of my very good friends, started flirting with my boyfriend, who is planning on marrying me, although we are not sure when this is going to happen. She knew about the situation, and was still trying to steal him from me, just to show HER boyfriend that she could have ANY guy she wanted, to get him to treat her a little better when, in reality, he was a great guy anyway. He really did NOT deserve to be put through that torture, and my boyfriend put a stop to it, but it was still awful.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
It will always be awful and sadly there will be innocent lives who will be affected. I just hope that this sort of things never happen to me again. I just wish so hard that I would never have to encounter cheating or unfaithfulness again. I'm just so tired of these things that if ever it will happen, somebody's going to really taste my wrath.
Whew. Still, I pity the kids.
