How does it feel finding the person you truly love already has someone ?

The sooner you can accept the fact that the person you are in love with is no longer free the better. The best way to forget is to stop seeing the person. You can socialize, there are still a lot out there. You just have to accept the fact that if you meant to be together fate will take care of it. Cheers!

A similar thing has only happened once in my life and I have to tell you that it definitely is a very awful situation. My situation was with one of my ex-boyfriends. We decided to take a break for a while because he was jealous of a few of my college friends. I was in college at the time and he was working a full time job. I lived in a coeduacational dorm and he had a difficult time accepting that. When I got out of school a few weeks later, I called him only for him to tell me that he was engaged to someone else. It really send me into a depressive state in my life.

jlamela, When you mention that your lover already having someone, what do you mean? If the both of you are dating and that he is not married with the other party, I think it would help if the both of you could sit down to talk. Relationship is called relationship because all problems are worked out between two parties - doing it alone is called compromising. If you decide that you wanna be 'nice' now, knowing that this will be an issue to the both of you and especially you in the future - you are just sacrificing short term gains for long term growth. However, if your partner is found to be married, then I think the best advocate is walk out of it (run) and no looking back, even if the pain is going to be equivalent to cutting off your right arm without anesthesia. Sometimes, some situations just warrant drastic measures and moves, to stop the complications from developing further and escalating. I know it can be painful, but trespassing is just something that does not go well for all parties. I can understand that it being not entirely your fault in the beginning and that it will be painful if you stop this relationship. But, you will be culpable if you blatantly choose to stay. And being karmic, the pain that comes with it be no lesser than 2 folds if it strikes back on you. So, you should know what you are threading on here. Hope the above helps, take care and have a nice day.

i would be feeling sad and i think it would really take time to heal my heart from that situation.but i think it wont be happening to me because when i love somebody i try to be more protective and more romantic and responsible and im sure with that no one will ever think of cheating on me.im sure if you really show how much you love a person he/she wont be looking for another one other than you. i was just thinking.did things happened to you?did you experienced it?

Sad to see that he is involved with someone but if he is happy with his relationship now then I will be happy for him atleast that's the least I can do & I will not do anything bad to have him back. Its enough for us to be just friends.

Simply forget and try hard to forgive. Move on, find someone more deserving for your love, it is also unfair to force someone who is now happy with someone new to love you like you do.