How will you say this to your lover? "I DON'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE"

@Boyetski (986)
Philippines
December 17, 2009 12:08am CST
After a long and happy relationship, when suddenly you wake up in the morning and realized that your in love with someone new. How will you confess to your lover? Will you tell your predicament or you want to make sure of what your feeling's first?
4 responses
invisiblelady
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
HMMPPP!!!! I don't know what to say.. How about you?
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invisiblelady
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
You're right. In the first place, no body wants to get hurt. And that is something that could hurt us. So it is also not easy to hurt someone. How much ever you'll try to say it in a nicer way, you will still end up hurting that person in one way or the other, even if he/she will say it's okay..But it is not, really!
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Boyetski
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
I hope it will not happen to both of us right? But we can never tell the future. It will always be a mystery. All we can do is prevent it to happen as much as we can.
Boyetski
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
I don't know either. But I believe that we should be as honest as possible. But for me, since i'm so much inlove with my girl right now. I have no idea how or what to say. Hopefully for me it won't happen.
cripfemme
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I think do it as directly as possible, as Shakespeare says "If it is to be done, let it be done quickly". Whatever you do, get it over soon. You're right, though, before you go telling your significant other that you want to break up with them. Those are hard words to take back.
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Boyetski
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
I agree with you. What book of shakespear is that? Anyways, we cannot avoid to hurt your significant other with this. So be honest as much as you can as quickly as you can. Make the agony short.
DenverLC
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
Well I will just simply say it in a formal and serious manner. I will invite her at the place where we had our first date and will honestly tell her, " I am so sorry but I do not want to fool my self especially you longer, I don't love you anymore and I mean it thank you for being a nice wonderful person, you will find the right man for you the way I did too." Give her a final hug and embrace, drop the ring or anything as a sign of our engagement, then walk away.
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Boyetski
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
The courage to tell the truth is the hardest part to get. Since you decided to be honest. You are definitely doing her a favor in telling her the truth. Evryone deserves to be happy or to be happy AGAIN. :))
myramae19
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
confess it as early as you can,.anyway,it's bound to happen sooner or later the sad thing is you really have to face the consequence. This happened to me one time.I thought I made the right decision but it's actually not., I regret it after all. Be sure that the person you currently love is the one you really love,and if she feels the same for you., if u think no one is above her then go for it!..yeah right! everyone's deserve love and deserve to be happy:)
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Boyetski
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
Well said. Confess it as soon as possible. We cannot finish anything we dont start.