Just hit me that im still not over her  

Welcome to the club buddy it's called "smitten and bitten" you're get over it one day. What a bummer? especially when you can't do a thing about it but leave it be. I don't know why these thing happen but they do I'm getting over my last episode of the same thing,but I'm just about over mines I saw the little filly yesterday and felt little if any emotion about her or what could a been. So you see you will get over this it just take time...and the sad part is that its going to happen again with someone else in the future its called being human......

Awwww i feel so bad for you. I have been there too its very hard to get over someone. Did she ever know that you had these feelings for her? Well the best advice i can give to you is to start looking around for someone that makes you have all those feelings all over again. Its obvious that she is now taken and no sense beating yourself up more and more over it. Its out of your control. Meeting another nice lady would be great for ya right about now. Who knows you might even run across that special someone right here on mylots:) Have a great night

Hi she already gave you her answer as you stated above, she wants to date guys her own race and such... You can try to tell her how you feel and see how it goes, but it appears she wants to be with other guys than you. You will find a much better girl just for you believe me.

It will take a while but one day you will find someone BETTER and think to yourself, whatever did I see in her? It's true. Believe it.

It's funny how we hate those kinds of feelings and yet we keep nurturing them jsut because we really don't want to get over THAT feeling. Getting over someone I guess is a choice. Besides, nobody does it for you. About that "dating only the same race" thing could just be alibi. I am not saying that you are not a lovable person. Well, anyway how should I know, right? But I believe everyone is lovable in his or her own right but I guess that girl doesn't see that. I dont also know the culture that she has so perhaps her reason was enough justification, but well I know a lot of people who believes that love has no boundaries whether or not you are of the same race.

The horizon is wide, D, so explore it. Believe me there are many fish in the sea. :)

But you see there is a right time for everything.

LoL. That's why some old saying say like this "grab your chance whenever you can" and "second chance is not an option" :)

Well, if you do like her then I guess you should let her be (even she is unhappy with her current BF). If you really want to wait for second chance, you may do as you wish, but it will be like waiting for a snow fall in tropical area :p

Just move on and live your life brother, there are still lot of girls waiting for you out there :D

Good luck!

Maybe you should call her and tell her how you feel. Even if she's not interested (if she ONLY dates guys who are her own race,) at least you will have a weight lifted off of your shoulders and that should make it easier to move on. Good luck!

HI,
if you like her then tell the truth. If she said she dates only the same race then I dont think love will go that way. Do you think she really that picky? lolz... well, I dont know but it might be for some women. If you are not over her then you have to call her and tell her how much you are in love with her

That is a bummer. Sounds like she really does stir your heart up, but I suspect the feeling is not mutual. I know having such a person in the workplace can certainly brighten things up and make the job better. Maybe another special lady will come along soon.

aww I'm sorry d_e_v...I know how you feel! Believe it or not this can happen to girls too! lol

But I think a good ol' cliche will fit nicely here: "there are plenty of fish in the sea." -- You'll meet someone else, you'll fall in love with her and you guys will have an awesome life together! Just keep telling yourself that and it will eventually happen. There are plenty of women out there just waiting to meet you :D