What mean forbidden for you? What things or actions are forbidden for you?

well i am a vegitarian and non-veg is forbidden for me but i happily accept it because i dont know the taste of non-veg.

Good question, Icesmile! What is forbidden is what I choose to be forbidden. In other words, for each of us, the code of conduct by which we live is entirely our own choice. We can accept or reject those things our parents, teachers and friends tell us are right or wrong. My criteria are fairly simple: if it's positive and life-affirming, it's good. If it's evil and dangerous to others, it's forbidden.

There are things that are rules set by society, religion, social , cultural or educational etc. Some things are universal. when these rules are on a broader scale and everyone needs to follow them then u r no scape and u must follow them too as they are set for your goodness as well. But if there are rules that u dont want to follow no one can force you to do it. I know some people who were forced to follow some rules but when they were not near their family or friends they violate it completely. My boss was always made to fast by his mother and he used to scream at us at work when he was fasting. But after a day or two u will find him fasting at home but as soon as he is at work he will start eating and smoking.