Non-truth Tellers! Have You a Way of Telling if a Person is Truthful??

@artistry (4151)
United States
December 22, 2009 3:14am CST
What is your way of telling if a person is being truthful or not? Or do you accept most people as honest? If you find out they are untruthful what do you do then?
1 response
@ra1787 (501)
• Italy
22 Dec 09
If you know someone well enough, usually we can tell when they are lying. Most of the times anyway i pretend to believe those lies especially when those are "white lies"... The reaction really depend on the importance of the lie, if the person lied about something important i would probably confront that person and at least ask why they lied.
@artistry (4151)
• United States
22 Dec 09
...Hi there ra1787, I think you are completely correct. Someone you knowe is going to behave differently if they are lying to you, especially I would think, if they are physically near you. Their body language will probably betray them. Most of the times I think, that if a friend of yours lies to you, if they are basically honest, it's because they don't want to hurt you or tell you something that they think is bad. It is a protection thing. I would rather they just tell me and get it over with. Finding out later would make me angry. Take care and thanks for taking the time to respond.