How would you feel when the person you loved fall for ur friend?

I admit that such an incidence will shatter you to pieces but you possibly can't reverse it back.What has happened,has happened there's no other way than accepting it! You don't intentionally fall in love with someone it just happens and it might happen at any point of time in your life,so its useless to blame her if she truly loves that guy. But as far as continuing your relationship with her is concerned,well if that guy was your boyfriend and still they are having an affair then both of them are at fault why blame her only and if they didn't know about your feelings then you can't blame them! But there's no point in holding a grudge against anyone in this matter because as I said you possibly can't help these issues,just accept it!

The best solution for that is to weigh them differently, the problem / solutions appropriate and What really matters to you. Face the challenge. If you had enough basis for the said affair, then consult them and let them explain to you rather than have many unanswered question in your mind. It will never solve the problems. it would be much worst if you pretend you do not know the problem, for the more you see some actions in them, the more you will be hurt. Ask both of them separately, of what is you in them? listen to their reason with no anger to make you think properly. Let them know how you feel about it. Granted you have enough information, then the next step is to adjust yourself and LET them know how you feel as a person and your stand about the situation. This incidence in your life is testing your relationship with them. Whatever will be the outcome. Face it wholeheartedly. Forgive them for their mistakes. Let this serve as learning experience for all of you and the learning about trust and mistrust, honesty verses dishonesty. GOODLUCK and merry christmas..

Unfortunately, the friend would no longer be my friend. If a true friend had been having an affair with someone I love, I wouldn't consider that a good, faithful friend especially if the person I loved was my husband. The friendship would be over and so might the marriage. If this happened to my boyfriend, I'd make him make a choice between the two. He couldn't be with me and still be messing with another woman.

Hello there... Well, if that happens, I will be so mad that I had that person as my friend... And one more thing, if she was my friend then she knows that guy was my boyfriend, then she's having an affair with him, she's totally a pachyderm.. That kind of person, shouldn't be called as a friend..:D

I have experienced that but I am secretly in love with him. When I found out that he is inlove with our common friend although I am so sad about it then I just help him in choosing the gifts to give & even go out with them while we are on group date it pains me but I don't min because I am happy seeing him very happy.