Will you reject a marriage proposal from a guy if he is getting bald early
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
India
5 responses
@RAVENBLADE0842 (493)
• United States
7 Jan 10
I gotta say that for a women to reject a marriage proposal because a man is balding, or vice versa, is just crazy. I can't imagine a society that puts so much impact on whether or not a person is losing there hair. There has got to be more of reason for rejecting her proposal than that. I don't know her, or have any more details but, it could be just a reason for her to reject the proposal because she ultimately doesn't want to spend her life with that man for other reasons. If two people really love each other, than something that superficial should really not be that much of a factor. Maybe I'm wrong, or maybe its a major cultural difference, but you could enlighten me if I am.
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@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
7 Jan 10
Yes,you are right cultural difference is a main factor.Thanks for the reply.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
7 Jan 10
Definately not. It is more important to love and be loved. People tend to see the outside and looks of a person and they think that is important. A lot of men may be bold, but it is the inner self of that man that really makes him a person, not his boldness. I think it is a very nasty habbit women have in today,s life.
@agv0419 (3021)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
It is very shallow reason for rejecting the guy. If you really love the guy his baldness would not be a problem because all of us going to gets old. Beauty is going to be fade but the attitude last. People always look the outside like what they said they don't see good side of a person.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Jan 10
Hi Sreejith,
I think it all depends upon the individual, some may have their own perceptions and they can’t accept a bald person as life partner. It does not mean that the guy won’t a get girl in his life. I know people who married physically challenged people. Girls are ready to marry even blind men. So in my opinion your cousin is not liking a bald men, it is her choice. If you ask me personally, I am already married. In my family, my grandfather was bald and my paternal uncle is bald. 

@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
7 Jan 10
I can't imagine rejecting a marriage proposal due to getting bald or being bald. When I met my boyfriend 20 years ago he had a full head of hair and now he is balding but it doesn't mean I love him less. People who reject that are very shallow type people. I find that men who are balding or bald are quite sexy. To me hair is not everything. Its what is inside that matter. Such as, sense of humor, intelligence, having a good heart and soul, being a kind generous person. These are the real things that matter, not hair.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
No, i would not reject a marriage proposal from a guy if he is getting bald early.
In my opinion, I see no problem about getting bald. Baldness is a product of ancestral genetic make up. You cannot blame a person having such. It is not his will. I see it more of discriminating the bald person if it is a criteria for rejecting a marriage proposal.
Besides, you are loving the person what can be not what you see physically in him. It is not his baldness will contribute in a marriage relationship. It is his totality as a person being. His being will contribute and do in the marriage relationship.
Though, there are traditions that has concept like what you said. It is a matter of choice if you will go on with the tradition or your free will and views about choosing the guy to marry under circumstances.





