Put Your Big Boy Pants On  

Hello, and welcome to MyLot. You've had a big disappointment, but it's probably better that it happens now, because you can make a complete new start. Your man should have voiced his reservations before, and I'm afraid it sounds as if he used the job relocation to get himself out of the relationship, which is very cruel.

You're probably better off without him, even though you won't believe it at the moment. Somewhere out there, there's someone who is truly worthy of you. You will have a happy ending, I'm sure.

Hi Miravu,

I'm sorry things turned out this way for you. I could not take a guess at what your man's problem is without knowing him. I'm a woman and I've been married twice. I know that I would not give up my job,my apt. and all my friends & family to move far away with someone I've only known 6 months. Maybe when I was just starting out, I'd have considered it. but as I got older I've come to think that 6 months is not all that long of a time. I'm just thinking that maybe this man was really into you but just moves a little slower than someone else might. I mean you are moving with the prospect of a better job and all and he isn't. I have dated guys for 6 to 8 months and had it all fall apart. I could have him all wrong but that's how i'd be.