is it okay to be a two-timer?  

Your ex-boyfriend sounds like a nasty person. You didn't want to be two timed so you split up with him. I think that was very sensible of you. He was caught with another lady. If a man has a girlfriend and then he meets another lady he wishes to date he should split up with his girlfriend. Really the best thing is a man in a relationship is totally faithful to his girlfriend in the first place. Maybe you need to have sometime as a single before you meet a lovely man that will be completely faithful to you. Good luck.

i think you taking your time with a new relationship is a good thing t do after someone cheated on you, i can't say why someone would do something like that. my first bf got his ex pregnant while he was with me (the short time it was). i think most people who do that are just not mature enough to even handle a relationship. but i can't be so sure.

On a personal note,I didn't like it if I found out if my bf has another girl except for me.I won't do that as well meaning I will not be a two timer simply because you were not just fooling your loved one but also yourself too.Being a two timer means you to have a lot of lies.Trust is most powerful tool in every relationship if you're doing two timing I don't think that you can be trusted of anything too..

It's not okay to be a two timer and if a person is one, like your ex boyfriend, it's not actually something to be proud of. It's immature and shows that a guy can't handle relationships well unless he learns from it. They, the two timers, are having a hard time deciding who to choose and not because they can't help themselves to get attached to people specially when it comes to defining the thin line between lust and love.

It's never okay to be a two-timer. A couple should always be composed of only two people loving each other. When one party loves a third person romantically, then it is a sin.

You have to heal first, so that next time you are more ready to enter another relationship.

Even though I am a guy I still think that being a two-timer is really bad. I think when one is committed already he should stop looking for other or if he founds someone then he should formally break up with the current GF.

Well if you're not comfortable with committing yet then don't force yourself. I think you should take time and be sure you are ready when the time comes.

Suggest 3-somes?

*cough*

Joking aside, if you have no problem with two-timing being morally wrong and your conscience allows you to, + you have the skill to keep it hidden from both guys or find a way for them both to be okay with it, then two-timing is fine.

However, you may want to keep in mind that of the guys you deem to be not commitable to, one of them might actually be the one for you. So don't just cheat like heck, because if they find out it will be irreversible and you'll never get him back.

It is never okay to be a two-timer in my book. I believe that trust is among the important aspects in a relationship, and you wouldn't get trusted by two-timing. It is cheating, inconsiderate of your partner's feelings, and just wrong. It would just make finding true love even harder.

It is definitely not okay. But you are right, being in that situation is tough, i was there and decided to forgive the person who hurt me and fight for the relationship. We are still together and going strong for five years now. It is not a failure but a lesson to go through, do not deny yourself of love because of what your ex did. Love is still an amazing feeling to experience, pain is always a threat with it, but it can only make you stronger in the end.

You just need time for yourself and time to heal so you can trust again.