Are you jealous if your partner stares at another nice looking lady?  

Yes, I feel the same way that you do..even if it's on tv..and a sexy scene comes on with just a woman and he is so dang obvious. He just forgets whatever he's doing and stares. He doesn't care that it bothers me and that makes me even more mad. I'm getting mad just thinking about it. It's one thing to admire a nice looking person..but lusting after them is totally different and disrespectful. But my bf has a lot to learn about that!

I am a boy and not exceptional in these kind of cases.
but i got a bit jealous when ever my partner talks or praise for another boy or even compare me with some one else putting me down.
i dont like these things when i am compared and put down. and you can say this is a kind of jealousy

Yes. I always got upset with my man for staring. You know, what gets me is the man will say that we shouldn't be so jealous. That women are just so jealous. You know what I used to tell them. It's not jealousy. It's being angry because you are being so disrespectful to let that person know that you're with me and she knows you are staring at her and making goo goo eyes right in front of me. Idiot!

I don't let the little things like him looking/stareing at another person bother me. I figure at least I know he's still alive if he is looking. And I also know who he is coming home to at night. Our rule is you can look but you can not touch. LOL. I guess I learned this from my parents though becuase my mom and dad will point out good looking people to each other. So we were raised to be confident in our relationships.

Some times I let it go as a natural response that even I would have done. Some people are so attractive that you end up staring without realizing even as a woman I would stare so I can't scold hubby for staring. But if it ever becomes a habit, I will argue. It hasn't happend yet so unless he does it habitually, let it pass.

No, it does not bother me at all. It is just looking and I always look at other men especially if they have a great body. heck I always look at other people because I admire anyone who takes the time to stay in shape and look good and I even like to look at other women at times just to see how they wear their makeup or style their hair. It is no different than looking through a magazine.

I'm going to admit that I don't like it but I know that is down to my own insecurities. I'm not too happy with the way I look at the moment and I'm always comparing myself to other women anyway. I just think that leering at other women infront of me is a little disrespectful, particularly as my husband knows that I am a little insecure right now.

oh come on every man looks or wants to. my man looks all the time. he will even say things about someone being hot or nice lookin. this doesnt bother me at all because he doesnt flirt with other women and always makes me feel like i am the most important person to him

I think it should depend on how long your relationship has been. It's not good If he does it at the beginning of your relationship.If you two have kown each other for quite a long time,it's normal for him to do this.

Hi dragonangel,
I admit I would be bothered if my bf continuously stares at other women, and we've been in this arguments a few times before. I would catch him staring at an attractive young woman even when we're together, and I can't help to compare myself with the girl and feel downright insecure. I let him know it's bothering me and I told him I don't like it when he does that, and I guess he got the message and never did it again.