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myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24607)   ranked 1 out of 2,035 in get married 2 years ago

DID YOU KNOW That the bridal veil was originally worn as a show of female submission? It was said that along with the Bible verses about headcovering as a show of female submission, that the groom lifting the veil off of her face was a symbol of him taking posession of her. No kidding, I read this in the coure materials I'm currently studying on wedding traditions, as a part of the course I'm taking to become a bridal consultant. I had heard rumours of this fact before my own wedding and decided that I would NOT wear a veil. I am glad I made that decision. I wore a big glittery tiara instead.

Anyone else familliar with this tradition, or does this come as a surprise?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. marsha32 (581)   ranked 465 out of 2,035 in get married   2 years ago

hhmmm
I, honestly, hadn't put much thought into it at all....just a tradition to me. Now I know better :)

Marsha


myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24607)   ranked 1 out of 2,035 in get married  2 years ago

When I got married I picked tradition to bits, to make sure that I wasn't doing anything that symbolized anything opressive.

No veil
Kept my name
Walked in with a friend (no aisle)
Husband and I had matching rings of equal size
Ms. not Mrs.
Red dress instead of a white one (who gives a flip about my virginity or lack thereof?)
Did not vow to obey
No bible readings that had anything sexist in them
No "who gives this woman?"
When we lit our Unity Candles we did not blow out the family candles
No one announced us "man and wife"

Egad! When you look at that list above, there sure are a lot of sexist traditions to pick at. Our wedding was one big feminist political statement, and we woudln't have had it any other way! :)

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. idowrite72 (1844)   2 years ago

I think I might have heard that before and doesn't it go along with asking who gives permission for the bride to be married when the father walks the daughter down the aisle? I might understand that if she wasn't "of age" to be married, as might have been done more often "back in the day". My parents had to return a second time because my mother wasn't old enough and needed my grandfather's signature......she was 20 and needed to be 21. I think they were trying to elope!!


myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24607)   ranked 1 out of 2,035 in get married  2 years ago

OK I don't know if my comment posted or not. My computer just did something weird, so I'll do it again.

Have times changed, or are things just different from place to place? My sister was 19 when she got married. In Canada 18 is legal age for everything but drinking, and drinking is legal at 19.


myLot reputation of 99/100. idowrite72 (1844)  2 years ago

I was talking about 1948!! It is legal at 18, but drinking is still 21 here.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   2 years ago

It is quite logical. I have seen this in many church weddings and I myself experienced wearing the white veil on my wedding and being lifted up. At that material time I have no idea what it meant. Should I have known the real reasons I would not consent to wearing a veil as I don't believe in submitting myself to anyone. Marriage is only a formality as we are still individual being having our own mind.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (7430)   2 years ago

I had heard of this hun, one of the reasons why I won't be wearing a veil for my wedding soon LOL I will be wearing a circlet of mayblossom instead


myLot reputation of 97/100. BarBaraPrz (6655)  2 years ago

I would have worn a circlet of flowers, too, but I got married in January. I did, however, have one red rose pinned to my hat.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24675)   2 years ago

of course some people used that tradition to unload a daughter they didn't want - take for example Rachel and Leah...

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. BarBaraPrz (6655)   2 years ago

That sounds about right... hide the goods until the last possible moment.
I wore a crocheted Juliet cap that matched my shawl. My mother made both.
My older sister and youngest sister both wore veils, but not covering their faces.
My middle sister wore a white straw hat.

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7. myLot reputation of 82/100. bhanusb (2788)   ranked 334 out of 2,035 in get married   2 years ago

Hi, congratulation. You broke the tradition of wearing bridal veil. Now girls are breaking many old traditions. Religions are made by man. So the rules of religions are in favor of men. Religions say God has no gender. But when we imagine God's image then a man's picture comes in our mind. In India Hindus have many goddess. They call them as "Mother". But in India women become victims of torture. I wish
women should break all the superstitions against them. But at the same time I believe all the traditions are not bad.Carry on your flag.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 6 out of 2,035 in get married   2 years ago

Actually I wasn't familiar with it, but suddenly I'm glad that I wore a hat!

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   2 years ago

I honestly don't care what the old customs are because I believe in womens rights in doing as they so please regardless how they marry or don't marry. When I married my husband, I had a veil and the piece covering my face because it was pretty. I bet your tiara was beautiful too! These days it's a "to each his own thing" anymore but back in those days, yes, women were subjected to obeying their spouses which is so wrong because women can "think" too.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. MagicalBubbles (1913)   ranked 178 out of 2,035 in get married   2 years ago

I heard about this a while back and thats why I got married without a veil!! To even think that a woman should be submissive to a man.....feeling sick Sorry but its not my type at all. I think those women should be slapped on the back of the head haha!!

I guess now you know how I feel about muslim women hiding under a veil or whatever they call it. We've come a long way to try and be equal to men.....lets not go back because I'll be fighting and kicking all the way LOL.

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