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myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148) 2 years ago

Marriage is a foundation in building a new home where love, trust and devotion must dwell. Out of love, children are added to complete a family. Married couples always start a new life together happily and hope to make it last. Problems and trials come to test their strength and faith, some survived to fight against all odds but others failed to save the previous thing they let loose. The kids fall as victims to their parents' wrong decision.

Sharing thoughts from my very own experience, dealing with life's challenges is harder for a child who went through such kind of pain. As couples break apart, it's not just the home that goes broken, their children's hearts are crushed too.


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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. advokatku (3013)   ranked 546 out of 668 in had my heart broken   2 years ago

children who are victims of 'broken home' is usually a lack of confidence, very private and easily offended .... take a relatively long time to deal with children like this ... to parents who run a divorce, before run it, must provide an understanding of divorce to child them, of course with the language most readily accepted by their


myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148)  2 years ago

I came from a broken family but I dealt with it positively. Learning how to accept reality has helped me grow and live normally but the pain still exists up to now.


rhya08it (58)   ranked 274 out of 668 in had my heart broken  2 years ago

although my family is intact i have friends that came from a broken family and i notice that most(not all) of them always want to be notice and there some have an attitude problem..specially when there are occasions..

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. yresh12 (1878)   ranked 230 out of 668 in had my heart broken   2 years ago

My family is not broken but I have seen a lot of relatives and friends having there marriage diminished. It is really hurting in that way. I think that children are more affected to it. Having to grow without guidance of both parents. I hope that you would be a very devoted mom to your baby. It maybe hard but I know you could and can do it.thumbupthumbupthumbup


myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148)  2 years ago

Thanks for the encouragement my friend. What makes me struggle to become a good wife & best mom is my determination to keep my family in tact since the home I came from was broken.


myLot reputation of 97/100. yresh12 (1878)   ranked 230 out of 668 in had my heart broken  2 years ago

NO problem. Nobody wants a broken home. Circumstances makes us a victim of one. Just hope and have faith.Give love and share! Goodluck!have a nice dayhave a nice dayhave a nice day

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3. myLot reputation of 82/100. spalladino (11857)   ranked 55 out of 668 in had my heart broken   2 years ago

I can't completely agree with your last line. When the home environment is tense and hostile because the parents don't get along, the children become tense and stressed. Oftentimes they feel a sense of relief when the parents split up but, of course, they also feel sadness as well. Since children learn from their environment, growing up in a household where the adult role models do not love or respect each other does nothing to prepare them for healthy relationships of their own. If a divorce situation is handled well, with both parents remaining involved in the children's lives, they will be emotionally better off.


myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148)  2 years ago

It's alright my friend. We are entitled to our own views and opinions. My own experience is the source of all insights I shared here in this discussion. As you said, sometimes a divorce may be a better solution for couples who fell out of love and respect. Inspite of that, lucky are those children who are still given enough attention and care by their parents - this did not happen to me. I felt so abandoned and it's what makes my heart breaks up to now.

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. futzkie08 (376)   2 years ago

I agree with you, there is some advice i wanted to impart to you. Now that you are in that situation, i dont know if there is still a chance of going back and building the family back and healing a wounded heart, Im sory about your child growing in a broken family. But my dear, all you have to do is to treasure every moment you have with ur child. Let him feel your love as a mom and as a father. Be open to her on what had really happened and kids are smarter than we thought they are.

let metell you this. I was 25 when i become a single mom. My daughters father died from lung cancer when she was only 5 mnths old. I dont know how will i be able to help and guide my daughter. at that age, i told my daughter, that it will be her and me already, her father died and we need to help each other in making our life better. I asked her to behave well and be a cooperative daughter, yes at early as 5 mnths old. Ohhhh Men she grow us without crying at night asking for milk, she is such a behave child that now she is 7 i can see from her the responsible child.

Make your child an inspiration in fullfilling ur goal in life. Where evr he is what ever he is doing right now, let him be happy for u to be happy too. you seems to be young and who knows you will find the right person for you. Everything happnes for a reason. you know that. God Knows what is best for you. Good luck


myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148)  2 years ago

I'm lucky to have a wonderful husband, he helped me fulfill my dreams of building a happy home which I never experienced since childhood. Thanks for posting your own story here, I feel sorry for what happened to you but I do admire women like you who has so much strength & determination. May the Lord grant your heart's desires and give you guidance as you nurture your child being a single mom.

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5. jenny08 (79)   2 years ago

i grew up in a broken family too.,i also suffer persecution from my boyfriends family because of that.,and it really hurts me a lot.,now i want to prove them wrong.,one day if i have my own family i will make sure that my future children will not suffer what i had experience...


myLot reputation of 94/100. eloveriz2004 (148)  2 years ago

We deserve respect,understanding and acceptance despite our family backgrounds. In this cruel world we live, discrimination and misjudgement are just common. You may have difficulty dealing with those things but keep holding on to what you think is right. Living a good life is one big proof for other people to realize their mistakes and unfair treatments on you. Be strong, you can do it!


jenny08 (79)  2 years ago

thank you for the comment my dear sister...yes,hope someday they would realize their mistakes and unfair treatments to me.,i know i need to be strong on this matter..i know i can do it,by HIS help...

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