solution to, do i pick husband or job  

so my husband wanted to leave again after we discussed before getting together that he'd never stop me from moving somewhere for my career. i work in the museum field and just got offered a job in antarctica for 6 months where he can't come with me. he doesn't really want me to go and said he'd eventually leave if i continue to do jobs like this. This is my first one out of the contry so it's not like i keep leaving him for jobs. anyway we talked last night and i told him nothing was going to stop me from living out my dreams. our solution is to take him as far as new zealand, there is a base there that i work out of half the time. but not sure how much time i'd have off to see him or how i will travel to see him wherever he stays. then i have to pay for his stay out there cause he doesn't work and his flight. well at least it's a start of a comprimise right