Snap judgement  

Yup! it can be really dangerous indeed even if we have our own thoughts and understanding with just bout anything judging others too fast is a lil bit too much and if we do tell a single soul bout these snap judgements of ours its as if we are spreading rumors already. Its safer to keep it to ourselves , our judgement that is unless the time comes that our judgement is proven true .A very sensitive but meaningful topic thanks for sharing my friend

Hi, generally this happens with me, some people get me wrong, only because i seem to be a very serious kind of person and a very formal one too, only if they give me sometime to open up, they would know i am a very friendly person. Some of my friends say i scare away some people at times. .. They get the wrong impression about me even before knowing me.! It is a bad thing i agree, i wish people could just understand i need some time to open up that is all. Now talking about myself talking about others, i don't really do it, i don't want to say things about others, coz i know i might be wrong, just as wrong as some people take me.

well... girls like us do that most of the time, it was like part of our normal conversations or girl talk bonding, and in my part, I usually avoid to be the source of a rumor otherwise I would feel really guilty like my conscience would haunt me and swore to God not to spill some beans again.. besides I don't normally judge people instantly 'coz I don't easily get affected with their clashing personalities.. and as what I observed, those judgmental people thinks they're cool when they tell everyone they know something that a lot of them don't. Funny, I just remember the T-shirt my bestfriend have with a statement saying "I silently judge you".. according to her it's the perfect shirt to describe her personality.. lol. maybe, as human as we are, if we unintentionally tend to judge someone, its better to keep it to ourselves, just do it silently... in your head so no one can hear..

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I think that it depends more on what you do with the snap judgment than whether or not you make them. I believe that most people have a tendency to make snap decisions (or judgments), and sometimes these judgments can save a life, such as choosing not to walk down a certain road alone when they see what they decide is a creepy-looking person walking towards them. On the other hand, if they decide that this person is a serial-killer based on his or her looks and then start telling everybody that the other person has killed people - that would be serious and harmful. I don't think it is necessarily the judgment that is harmful, because a person's opinion or judgment can change when he or she learns more facts about the other person and there would be no harm done from the original snap judgment. If the person making a snap judgment about somebody else starts talking about the other person like his or her judgment is a fact, however, that is where the negative effects begin, in my opinion.