Please help! Shall I leave him?  

Sweetie, i cannot tell you to leave him. That is your decision to make. But, if this was me, i would leave him so fast his head would spin. No women should ever take this crap from any man. He might be funny and make you feel good, but disrespect, no way. Say goodbye and get it over with. Good Luck. TATA.

Speaking from personal experience it is time to let him go. You are just emotionally hurting yourself even more by staying with him.

Even though you may not want to I find it emotionally helpful to go to the gym or take a long walk after being this depressed.(Also a few beers help)

Maybe a cool off would help. Put some space between the two of you and really think it over. It's pretty normal that you can't seem to spend a day without him. It's a matter of what you want and what's right. You're so attached to him or simply, you might just be either too "in love" with him or you just got too dependent on him. Your heart is telling you to stay and your mind is telling you to leave. What's right is to leave him, after all, the relationship is no longer healthy and it seems that your boyfriend just doesn't care at all. However, maybe with a cool off things could be fixed. Who knows, maybe on that time when you're apart, your boyfriend will miss you and start to realize what he never took good care of. Absence makes the heart fonder and it might help you. There's obviously something wrong in your relationship, more than those actions that he's showing you. Maybe he wants space? Maybe the feelings that he used to have died down? We just don't know.

Be strong and do what you think is right. Come to think of it. If you won't put a space between the two of you, he'll go on with his ways and you'll still be hurt. Putting some distance between the two of you might hurt and will make you miss him a lot but either way, you're still hurting. Go for the one that you think could help and that is to put some space between you as of now. You could talk it over some time when both of you feel that it is appropriate already. If things won't work out, maybe you could leave him for good. There are a lot of deserving and good guys out there. You feelings will just die down in time.

Just break up with him. He thinks he can have you anytime and that you have no power to leave him. I know this cuz i'm a guy. I know how it feels to be superior. It gets me power tripping and i always get out of hand. The only way to break this is to leave him.

Just break up with him. He thinks he can have you anytime and that you have no power to leave him. I know this cuz i'm a guy. I know how it feels to be superior. It gets me power tripping and i always get out of hand. The only way to break this is to leave him.

Hi caliya,

As I read your message, it seems you jealous or not.. Try to confront him and ask him in a nice way. Try to steal their time when they chat with anyone and talk to him heart to heart. Try to feel to him that your the man of yours and try to feel to him that he's important. Maybe they noticed you..
I you really love him. Don't give a chance to steal it from you.. Have an excellent day!!!

hi caliya,

I am saddened to know that your boyfriend is treating you that way. For you are so inloved with him regardless of the pain he is causing you to the point you always fail to leave him. What you have shown in your ways is basically a true love that speaks and understand his mistakes, a love that is sensitive to know how would he feel rather than to what you feel. I admire you for that.

Seemingly, your partner is getting quite insensitive with regards to your feelings. Instead, he is more appreciative of other people by sharing all their thoughts, his good views. I just hope he will realize how great person you are, that you are still able to listen to him many times when he speaks, even you are deeply hurt by his doings..Maybe, there are things in his mind that he cannot tell you directly that is why he uses other people as an object for him to slightly relate what he feels..Unless, he had revealed everything to you emotionally about his thoughts for you and about your relationship.

I understand that you cannot live a day without him. You think life is miserable. But, actually when true love comes first, we always see the good side of the person we love but not all are seen..There are things in a relationship that has downfall and this is the time for both of you to work things out by telling what you both really feel about those situations. So, as to make good clarifications and understanding of one's mistakes.. It is indeed, in this way you will know, all the questions in your mind that needed an answer. And, for these answers, you can have choices for every solutions or resolutions you will make.

You know, even you love the person so much, and no matter how long your understanding will be for the sake of loving. It is still best, that both of you have that emotional security of love and affection, a respect and good treatment that both of you will give for each other, a love that only both of you can understand and a heart that both of you will always give no matter what irregularities of life may seems .. Still, at the end, both of you are contented with your relationship. It is hard to let go for a person you truly love, much very hard to start a new life alone again, but, it's in your decisions, would make you feel the freedom of being loved by accepting who you really are despite of your imperfections, then All I can say is that, no matter what your decisions may be, you deserve to be happy and experience the other great things in life has to offer..

Happy mylotting..

I guess you should ask yourself if he really loves you. Basing on the way you describe him, it seems that he doesn't respect you or know your value. Maybe it is also because you are showing too much affection for him that he knows you will never be able to leave him. Even so if I were in his position, I wouldn't do those things if I really love a person. So my advice would be to let him fight for you. Let him go and if he really loves you then he will fight for you. But the risk is always there that he won't come back to you. The bright side of it is you will know the truth if he loves you or not. Its really up to you if you are willing to take the risk.

Boybato made a great point up there... A Cool Off will help. A little distance from him will not make him a fool but make yu feel needed. A trick I consider most often is when you pool away and he never come knocking on your door the next 3 days means he is fed up with you but don't want to tell you that, "hey gyal, you are pissing my down" To really kno if he still cares, pool off, and observe.
Wish you well, okey, but keep the smile bright cos You such a lovely person...Smilee!!!

maybe you can go to travel far away him.i think respection is basic.and there is nothing that you can't do.
come on!good luck!