Is there a perfect relationship?  

As long as we are living in this imperfect world, there will always be imperfections. May it be in the home, in the family, in the community, in the country, in the world, much more in a relationship. There is no such thing as perfect relationship. There will always be something that makes it different and imperfect. Therefore, let us not spend our time, treasure and talent looking for a perfect relationship because we will be frustrated, unable to find one in this life. Good day.

there is none because in the first place there is no such thing as perfect in this world all are plausible. relationship is like learning its a process that will have its ups and downs.

There is no perfect relationship. I believe there are ideal ones, which at some point will also frustrate and fail us. Despite the downsides, I'm glad this is how it works.

"Perfect" is static, is boring. "Perfect" is likely to cancel out, if not fully, growth and the "more".

welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. not just based on your relationship.... there is no perfect in this world. i have this status in my facebook account saying being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you have decided to look beyond the imperfections. i love my wife and she loves me, maybe we are lucky. find someone who is fit for you that can look beyond imperfection. hope you have you happy ever after.

There is no such thing as perfect relationship. The term is just a state of mind. A perfect relationship depends on how the couple consider their relationship. It can be called perfect despite the existence of problems or quarrels between the couple. Definitely, fights or quarrels are normal in a relationship, but repeated fights with physical or emotional violence is not normal. Perhaps, a relationship can be called as perfect when the couple keep their vow and stay faithful despite all the odds and trials in their relationship. It is likewise perfect when the couple go through all the challenges together. They build the family as one not alone or without the other.

Hi roscelcruz,

If that's what you meant by a "perfect relationship", yes there is. My parents are married and is living together for more than 20 years. Some of my relatives are still with their partners for even more than 30 years. As of the moment I have a "perfect relationship" with my boyfriend because he loves me and I love him. But with the word "perfect", it means not having defects or no blemishes at all. With all the aspects or anything related to a relationship (not just basing it all about love), I would say that our relationship is not perfect. All relationships are not perfect anyways. Because we encounter some problems in our relationship, we have flaws but we see to it to solve any problems we have, we talk when we have misunderstandings and we handle challenges together.

hi there,
i don't think there is a perfect relationship for in the first place, the persons involved in it is not perfect either. but what is important is we strive for it to be close to perfection..and with our imperfections, it is what makes our relationship challenging.

i think that there is no perfect relationship in this world. because perfect relationship is an idea or a dream of those who does not experienced to have a relationship. they want it because they fantasized to be happy with the one that will love them.

Based on your definition of a perfect relationship, then I have to say yes. There are still couples who truly love each other. Despite the challenges, they still manage to support each other and stay strong. Maybe you haven't found the right guy yet. Just don't expect it to be perfect in the beginning. If both of you will try to make things work and continue on loving and respecting each other, I believe that you'll experience the perfect relationship.

roscelcruz,

Honestly, is a perfect relationship that predictable and restricted to just living with someone you truly love and that the other party loves you like you do?

I am sorry, but I just beg to differ here, as there's just many ways we look at things, issues and the way we live our lives. A perfect relationship is never a birthright and it just needs two different people to come and work together. Ever resolving and evolving within to accommodate and adapt to, one another.

So, I always ask this - Why must we define love in a worldly sense? Would having that answer solve any conundrum in the first place?

Instead, why not ask what's our own definition of love, what it means to you and how does having that perception benefit your love relationship?

Why do we want to generalize Love when it's boundaries are infinite?

Why do we want to cage the spirit of love with a one-size-fits-all definition when the dimension of love is probably as broad as the span of this universe?

Don't ask what's love - go experience it and figure it out in your own words... in your own voice... in your own emotions and in your own soul.

So, remember loving someone a lot is one thing - making it work is another.