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myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love 2 years ago


Hello guys,
I have a question for you..If you are still a student what will be the first in your list?Is it love or studies? For me studies should be the first because if there is someone who told you that he loved you then you ask him to wait until you graduate then he insisted that he don't want to wait the first thing that will be in my mind is that guy doesn't really love me because he don't want to sacrifice for my sake..Well that is only my opinion..How about you?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. boybato (2210)   2 years ago

I came to a point where my love life was my first priority over studies and it really didn't help. There is always time for everything and that is something that I learned. Later, I placed studies as my top priority and it all worked for the better. Sacrifice is indeed important especially in such period where one is still studying and having a relationship. Everything must be placed in order and in the right priorities. Now that I'm done with schooling, my priority is relationships and establishing myself for the future, hopefully to get married in the future.

For students, it's quite normal to put relationships over studies because students are normally young and still doesn't know how to handle their emotions pretty well. They're being carried away by their emotions that they lose track of their priorities. It's a normal stage of life and sooner or later, one will just get over it but just hoping that nothing seriously wrong will happen along the way such as unwanted pregnancies or traumatic break ups.

Love life and studies are a juggle and if both are balanced very well, it's very beneficial. Love life provides inspiration in studies while studies enhances the love life. It takes mature people to really know how to get the best out of both.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Thank you for your words of wisdom...yes your right young people usually
prioritize their love ones more than their studies but it should not be an excuse, they should learn to have a balance life,right?

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2. myLot reputation of 73/100. dreamnishu (1155)   ranked 2,900 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

Well i will give priority to study at first. As i want to be a good doctor. so i need to study first. Then love. But it does not mean that i will neglect my love. I will also care my love.
Happy lotting!:)


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Of course we just have to learn how to balance our life...

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. jhenn22 (793)   ranked 2,246 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

as much as possible you should prioritize first your studies over love life. I believe that true love can waits yet the studies can't. Its better you should give your full attention to your studies for you to reach your goal...


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Yah your right..

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. Metatronik (1750)   ranked 391 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

Obviously that guy does not love you if he does not want to wait. I mean he is just treating a girl like an option, it reflects on how he respond on it. Seems that he has so many options like he does not courting only one girl but too many chicks. When I was student I never had a relationship nor never been in love with somebody else because I am really concern with my academics especially I have low grades so why would I entertain someone else in my life? Nevertheless I know it for myself that I am not yet matured enough to face a relationship or to have serious commitments. Other than that I don't like an idea that I have to play as what others are doing like fling and so on.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Yes love can really wait...And guys should not play with girls....Thank you for you wonderful comment...

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. shibham (4931)   ranked 4 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

hi hanizah... how are dear friend?

i am a college teacher and as i am established now, so i have no need to read further..., yet i like to study and i never give priority to love bcoz for me love means land of sorrow, ocean of tears, valley of death and end of life...

take care dear friend...


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

If you don't find the right person you would really experience those things...Actually I will prioritize love if ever I've already reached my dreams...I just want to balance everything...

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. ladygator (2180)   ranked 2,811 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

I have been in school. I think that its the love of your own self and what your aspirations are. Ideally gender roles are a factor in some cases. If you are a man that plans to have a wife with children I would think studies first. Its the big peice that you need to complete before you can offer yourself to another. I had a child young so my sights were a bit off. But I did go to college however and got my degree in the area that would best fit me and my child. I have continued to enhance this along the way. I am encouraging all my children to go to school and focus mainly on this before getting into anything to serious as they will have a much better head start into a positive future for their family.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Yes there are a lot of forms of love and we can use them to be our inspirations for us to pursue our studies and dreams.

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. med889 (4583)   ranked 112 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

My priority has always been my studies because I know that I have been studying before he came in my life and I must finish what I have started so I will finish my studies which is a priority for me to then make him my priority, hopefully he understands and he is very mature.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

If the guy really loves you, then I can't find any reasons why he can't understand...Just explain it to him...Well first thing first..Right?

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. galileo2008 (847)   ranked 4,824 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

When I was still a student, I always make sure that my studies come first before anything else. I was very aggressive back then, so competitive (like comparing my scores with my classmates') and I always make sure that I pass every exams that I took. Now I realized I must have a very boring life as a student, I didn't have a night life, and not time for love. The positive side is, I did not get any distractions and I graduated right on time. Now that I'm done with my academe, I think it's proper for me to have somebody to share my feelings with.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

That is the right thing to do...competing with our classmates helps us to be more aggressive..And there is a right time for everything.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. stanley777 (2694)   ranked 1,380 out of 10,554 in love   2 years ago

Good for you that you chose to wait rather than risk your studies...Love is just around the corner they say, and yes if the guy really loves a girl, he would definitely wait and be patient. I think all students should prioritize their studies because it is much more important at the moment... happy


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

You're right my dear friend love is anywhere..I mean if somebody cannot wait for you better think...The reason that he can't wait is he doesn't love you as much as he loves himself...Am I right?

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10. Vulpine1 (9)   2 years ago

It should be studies but unfortunately nobody want to see his/her love upset and anger with him/her. So no days Love is our priority. But its depend on person what is his/her interest. now regarding to question my priorities are both.


myLot reputation of 62/100. hanizah (205)   ranked 2,238 out of 10,554 in love  2 years ago

Actually you can really have both as your priority...But you really need to know how to balance your time...

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