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myLot reputation of 94/100. dandan07 (655)   ranked 228 out of 3,267 in family 2 years ago

Many people try to find a way to make life better. If in a cruel situation, you can still stay with your family members leading a hard life; while have a chance to get a better one by moving to another city or another country only yourself , and surfuring great homesick day and night.
Will you leave your family for a better life, or stay with them ?
What kind of situation can make you leave your family?

Now I think I have to make a choice, I know stay in the place, I can not make life better. Can not own my own company, can not have my own house, and can not make sure that my children will have good education.
But moving to another country may bring some chances to get a better life. But I still can not make out the final decision. I want your help and suggestion.

 

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tags:  family, leaving, better life, decision, divorce
 
1. myLot reputation of 84/100. frontvisions101 (9933)   ranked 728 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

I'll choose leaving my family for a better life. I don't get homesick that easily and i want a better life for them so I'll take it in a heartbeat. Although there are other alternatives to earn big here. I just don't think it's legal. :)


myLot reputation of 94/100. dandan07 (655)   ranked 228 out of 3,267 in family  2 years ago

Though I now can earn enough money to support myself, I think I am not a independent person in mental. I have to make phone call every day to my mom. In the modern world today, there are many with communicate with family members even staying in other part of the world, but to me, I still want to stay as close as possible with my family.
And my mother now retired , so she needs more time to communicate with her family. As the only child in the home, I know I have to meet her needs. Life here is hard, even we fight more than 30 years, to many young people they still can not get enough money to have their own place to live, the income can only cover their daily needs. So many people move out to try.
I am also a part of them, but choice is hard, family is important to me.

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2. patersh (87)   2 years ago

for me, i won't leave my family. it is because they are the one who takes care of me. i cant able leave them because i will surely be sad. i suggest that just find a way to have a better life in your place. for sure, the only people who will help you in times of needs is your family.

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. frontvisions101 (9933)   ranked 728 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

I'll choose leaving my family for a better life. I don't get homesick that easily and i want a better life for them so I'll take it in a heartbeat. Although there are other alternatives to earn big here. I just don't think it's legal. :)

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. rsa101 (9174)   ranked 406 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

Naturally that would be also my hardest decision I would have to make. But I guess if opportunity presents itself for me I might as well grabbed it because opportunity comes and knock once in our life so we better grab it or we may never get it anymore. I think the chance of a better and comfortable life will be the next best thing you want for your family.

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5. myLot reputation of 76/100. ongtina (556)   ranked 2,636 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

Lots of problems come with financial problems, hence staying on together may not neccessary be pleasant, nor does it guarantee a blissful family. If you are someone that will blame it on your family that you lost the opportunity to make a better life, I suggest you leave. If your spouse is one that felt terrible to lead a hardship life with you and blame you for being unable to provide better for her and the children, I suggest you leave. If both of you are willing to give all just to be together and both of you find comfort in each others' presence and that presence give you strength, then you stay. Remember, it has to be two of you and not just one feeling the way cos the other will "blame" and all "loving" will be gone.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (4043)   2 years ago

Of course. I won't think twice to leave my family and work in a different place if I can make more money and betetr living for my husband and family. You should use the opportunity and opportunities won't wait for the time you want. I moved to a different city away from my parents when I got a good job. I can't think about the situation being there and struggling with a small job. We should be clever and take good decisions at right time. Moving out for some time doesn't mean that you are going to be away from the family. You can still keep contacts with the fmaily through telephone and email.

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7. irishcoffee (4)   2 years ago

life cant be better after leaving family,when anyone is with family s/he can feel secure and good relationship kepps life happy

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25599)   ranked 2 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

As hard as I have it now I would choose leaving my family. I would not stay just because I will miss them. That will be something I can get over in a visit or two. It would also give me time to think a lot about my life and what I really want and need. Plus sending money home to care for my family would mean the world to me. So I would be homesick yes and I would care for my family.

I live in ny right now. In July I am moving to miami for the sake of a better life. I will be leavign my mother and siblings behind. It will be hard as I had done it before. But,my daughter comes first.

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. learn2earn (16956)   ranked 127 out of 3,267 in family   2 years ago

When you got married and started a family, have you wished that you will be apart from each other or to stay together? What was the promise you've vowed during your wedding? Are they true? Often, those vows are made lies because some people leave their family in exchange for money. I personally believe that a family is always a family and should not leave one another just to make money. A lot of families are broken because one of the couple decided to leave and make money.


djemme (75)  2 years ago

Excellent post. Leaving your family should not be a consideration if you're married.

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10. myLot reputation of 79/100. maxyl12 (238)   2 years ago

Sometimes you must have to make a choice. Its so hard to leave behind. But that's that. There come a time that we need to leave the family and to be able to have a good life. One example is when one of your children gets marry. Of course you don't want to be a burden to your parent. So its best to leave the house and start a new way of living. Although I'm not saying that we should forget our family. I think its more on moving on and live forward. Be mature. You already knows the answer.

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