When did you stop using a booster car seat for your child?
By Suzieqmom
@Suzieqmom (2755)
United States
October 7, 2010 9:46pm CST
In my state, booster car seats are required until either your child is eight years old, or weighs 80 pounds, and I believe this is the standard guidance (although perhaps not the law) throughout the U.S. My question is, if your child was over the age of 8, but still weighed significantly less than 80 pounds, would you still make them use a booster seat? One of my sons will be turning 8 soon, and weighs less than 50 pounds (he is short, too) and wants to stop using a booster seat. His brother, who is 9 1/2, no longer uses his. The law says it is ok to let him sit in a regular seat, but I am not sure that is the safest thing for him. Have any of you had to make this decision, and what did you decide to do?
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 10
My son will never sit properly in the booster car seats. He is to active and he will not sit quietly for more than 10 min. So even if I have use the booster car, it is the same like without using it. So I do not bring him for a long distance alone, unless there are someone take care of him.

@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 10
My son is only 3 year old, he seem to be do not like to have something holding him for too long. He always wanted to move around and stand up to look at the outside scenery. I think to retrained a 3 year old boy is quite hard because I have tried that but it never works.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
11 Oct 10
How old is he? A cd or dvd in the car always worked well for us--anything to take their mind off the fact that they have to be restrained!

@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
8 Oct 10
If you read the book SuperFreakonomics, independant (not paid for by booster seat manufacturers) studies show that children over the age of two years are no safer in a booster seat than with a regular adult seatbelt. The best thing to keep kids over two safe is to buy one of those cheap seatbelt adjusters that make sure the belt sits where it is supposed to across the child. But car seat manufacturers have lobbied the government (in Canada too) to make it a law that you have to waste your money on their useless stuff.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
8 Oct 10
Interesting--I am going to take a look at this book. I like the idea of a seat belt adjuster, too. That is exactly the problem now--the seat belts come across the kids' necks instead of their torsos.
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
8 Oct 10
I hated that when I was a kid. It made my neck red and painful and itchy!
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
9 Oct 10
My kids are currently ages 13, 7 yr old twins, 4 and 2. The older 3 stopped using their booster seats when they were 4.. I believe the law at the time was that they did not have to use them once they hit 5 years old.. I stopped a bit early as they were good size for their age, and the booster seat was a big pain in the neck!
Obviously my younger 2 are still in car seats/ booster seats. I've actually just switched the 4 year old to using the seat belt with his booster seat instead of the straps. I figure I will probably stop using it before long. He's a big boy, already nearly 50 pounds, and he is tall. I see no reason for him to need the booster seat anymore. Though I don't know the specific laws in my state at the moment.. last I knew it was SUGGESTED that they use booster seats until they're 8.. but the law was until they're 5. If the law says he has to stay in it.. then I'll probably leave him in it for a little longer.. but will probably not keep him in it until he's 8 as I think that's nonsense! The main reason I'm still using the seat now is that if I let him sit without the seat.. which I did once, the 2 year old assumes he can sit without his seat too.. and I'm not in the mood to deal with the temper tantrum and fighting with him to stay in his seat even though his brother isn't.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
11 Oct 10
I know the feeling. . .the sibling rivalry/temper tantrums is the biggest part of my issue!
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
11 Oct 10
The problem is that one son (who is now 9) is bigger, taller, and stronger than my soon-to-be 8-year-old. I actually kept my 9-year-old in his until he turned 9, and he still uses it in the minivan, but only by his own choice. My younger son may have to stay in one longer, no matter what his older brother got to do. Sometimes safety has to come before fairness!
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
8 Oct 10
Suzie-
I'm afraid I would do whatever would keep my child safe. If your child is extremely thin the compression of a seat belt on his chest could be worse than the fact that he has to still use a booster seat. Now, I've seen some newer ones that blend in with the car so that people on the outside aren't aware that the child is even in a booster seat (but meet state guidelines) that you might find useful. I would make sure to read the booster seat weight limits and select the appropriate model.
Namaste-Anora
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
11 Oct 10
He actually prefers the booster seat in our minivan, (because he can sit higher and see better) but not in our other car, because he says he feels "squooshed". He is fairly thin, but does have some muscle on him. It is my younger son that is the bigger problem--he will be 8 very soon, but is tiny--very short and thin. I think I will have to keep him in one for awhile, no matter what he says. But I like your suggestion of trying to find one that blends in with the car--thanks for the tip!
@shia88 (4570)
• Malaysia
8 Oct 10
Hi,
I never use booster car seat for my son since he was born.
When he was still a baby, I carry him in my arm while my husband is
driving. So it means, I won't never drive myself with my son
alone as nobody can help me to carry him while I am driving.
I don't see the purpose for me to buy car seat as we are at home
most of the time and if we were to go out, my husband will fetch us.
I do think some car seat can fit toddler till 5-6 years old.
But since your child has reached 8 years old and he is big enough to
sit by his own, I don't see the need why he still need a car seat.
It is just my opinion. Hope you don't mind.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
8 Oct 10
Of course I welcome your opinion! I did check your profile to see if you live in the U.S., because of course here it is against the law to drive with your baby being held in your arms--too much risk of injury if there were to be a car accident. I hope at least you sit in the back seat! Also, why would you want to limit your ability to drive somewhere to times when your husband was available? Didn't you ever just want to go somewhere with your baby without having to rely on someone else?
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
8 Oct 10
My son is eight but has epilepsy and some muscle problems. We still have him sit in a high back booster seat because we are not comfortable with him going without it yet. When he reaches 80 pounds we will let him graduate from the booster seat but not until then.
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
11 Oct 10
That must be tough, but it sounds like you have a great plan that protects him but also allows him to feel like he is following the same path as other kids. Is he close to 80 pounds yet? My soon-to-be 8-year-old isn't even 50 pounds yet--which is the biggest part of the problem.








