Would you add your exes on facebook?

I'm open to it but the question is, would she accept me? i was actually looking for an ex on facebook and un(fortuantely) i can't find her.

Hello, Eileen.:) Why not? I don't find anything wrong about it especially when you are friends with your exes. :) If you add them it doesn't mean you are trying to intrude their lives the way you had in the past. . Though, you intend to keeep yourself posted of his activities (well, not in a stalking way, too) but this is all right because you are friends again. Besides, if you aren't in a relationship and no one is opposing about it, then, by all means, add them (him/her). I have added some of my exes and accepted request from some of them, too (as if, I have so many of them.LOL)

it would depend on how we broke up

I would , why not? bygones are bygones and it' a new world for me. History is history. I trust in my destiny. If we are still meant to be, then so be it. if not, then so be it too. We should embrace what the future has in store for us. I'll accept his or her friendship.

It definitely depends on how things are between you and the ex and how things ended. I wouldn't suggest adding them if it broke off badly, or if one of you still had feelings for the other in a way that's "more than friends", no because it would just be too bad - they would get too nosy and so on. I have added a couple of my exes, not because we're buddy buddy or good friends, but because we're on good terms and I like to see how things are going with them every once in a while. But honestly it really depends on how things are going.

My ex and I broke up because he cheated on me. Now I have a kind and understanding man with me, and I never had an intention to get the ex to even get involve in a friendship with my fiance and I. When he broke my heart and I was crying a lot, my fiance was the one who stayed by my side as a good friend. He does not hate my ex, he's fine if I add or accept him on Facebook, but I do know what he feel deep down. And it is only a facebook anyway and we don't add many friends accept of those friends we are currently communicating to, and that are still seeing us and doing activity together. So adding my ex won't change anything nor to improve anything, once he became my ex, he's not important in my life anymore and I care nothing about him anymore.

First off, I have to talk it over to my wife before befriending the ex in my facebook account before discussions or misunderstandings takes place. Despite the fact that you don't have any intentions whatsoever over your former girlfriend or boyfriend your partner has the right to know it. For the record, I don't add my exes on my list of friends since it doesnt occur to me to add them and the thing is, I wasnt able to discuss it with my wife either, the exes never send request or adding me as a friend well. But if that case arise, you know my stand already.

I found out recently that my hubby had a communication with an ex and I felt bad about it...

I have only 2 exes and one of them is on my facebook.. I think it depends. I mean, if you kept in touch with your ex and he is a friend, yeah you could add him..