Father Christmas and children

@jugsjugs (12967)
October 26, 2010 5:39pm CST
Some children do think that there is a santa, some children think that you have a hotline to tell santa what they want and if they have been good.My friend told my children that santa wants to know what they would like for christmas,so they said what they wanted,so my friends rang them up later on after the chat about santa she had with them.She told them that santa will be making sure that they are good and if they are then perhaps santa will get them what they wanted.When she had got off the phone to me my son said that if i was her friend i would be honest with her and tell her that there is no such person as santa or father christmas,lol.
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@johney264 (544)
• China
27 Oct 10
Remember never tell your child there is no santa in this world by my idea. santa is a great people and a kind of man is a belief may not important for us but is very important in children heart, santa make every children have a worm heart and to be helpful to others at the same time the children will believe that I can overcome very difficult like the old man santa can bring every thing I want no matter how impossible and how far this dream present. "one old man can do I must can do in the future" saying in children's heart.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I would love to know why my son or how my son found out that there is no santa,i think that he use to love living the dream of there is a santa.He wants me to tell my friend and explain to her that there is no santa,lol.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
27 Oct 10
The children in my country don't believe that santa clause is true. But they believe that there're a girl and boy on Moon. They love them very much :)
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@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
There are alot of people that believe in alot of different things.I think that some of the things that people believe in are sometimes soo strange.
@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
26 Oct 10
my 13 year old believed in santa for the longest time. she just grew out of it. i think kids should be as kids as long as they can.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I think that children when they get to a certain age knows that there is no such thing as santa,but my poor son seriously thinks that my friends thinks that there is a santa.I just did not know what to say to him when he said that i should tell her there is no santa.
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@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
My children believed that there is Santa as they received gifts in their stockings hanged coming from Santa as reward for being good children, now that they're grown ups, they pass the belief to their niece and nephew and every christmas they also play Santa to them. I think there's nothing wrong if parents let them believed there's Santa while they're still young, anyway it serves as motivation for them to do good and an inspiration for them to see Santa on Christmas days. Santa anyway is a part of the Christmas tradition.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I let mine think that there was a santa for years and as they get older they learn and get to know that there is no santa,however this is the first year that my youngest son said that i should tell my friend that there is no santa,he is 7 years old.I like the christmas tradition,aswell doing a stocking,i do a stocking for all of my children and my oldest is 18 years old,lol.
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• United States
27 Oct 10
As soon as my children wondered if Santa was real or not I always said to them, when you think Santa is not real then it will all be over. So as long as in your heart you feel that Santa is real than the excitement continues. What I meant with this is the joy and fun out of wondering what they would get for Christmas as opposed to me going directly to the store and what date that would be. So it is all in the heart nothing more than that.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
My children are already excited about christmas,as they do not know what to expect this year,even though they have constantly told me what they want for their present.I thought it was rather funny when my son told me to tell my friend that there is not a santa though,i could not help but smile at him.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
28 Oct 10
Your son is so smart! Kids being kids, they will outgrow it sooner or later when they know the truth. After all, what we adults are doing is trying to make them happy in the season of love. It's a season of give and gifts, so it doesn't hurt to let them into fantasy. Santa claus might be fake but the gifts and thoughts that comes with it are real.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
27 Oct 10
Smart kid but fun for friend to do this
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 Oct 10
SOrt of sad when I kid know here is no Santa that it is you getting all the gifts but then teach him the true meaning of christmas
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I did smile when he told me to tell my friend that there is no santa,lol.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 10
Jo jugs, I like my loving kids to have the sweet dream of santa during their innocent childhood. That's why there are lots of fairy tales as well as fantastoc legends for children. My husband and I are more that will to be the amiable santa to award the kids with their longing festival gifts if they behave well the all the time. It's a great pleasure to share the joy to see the kids playing with or hugging their respective desired gifts. The gift seems like the impetus to lead them to the right and healthy way to achieve their goal in the coming days. They would find out there isn't any dream Santa Claus when reaching certain age depending on how they experience life. To me it's a good remembrance to have such beautiful dream in our childhood, like what I had experienced when I was a little girl. I know my late dad and mom are the loving santas in my life. Every single gift I had received in the festive day having its genuine love and unique meaning that inspired me to be good
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 10
Sorry jusgs, the first word should be Hi instead of Jo, what a careless mistake made
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
15 Nov 10
One of the fun parts of being a child is believing in Santa, the tooth fairy and the Easter bunny. Let them believe as long as they can. They grow up too fast as it is. It's all down hill when they discover there is no Santa Claus!
@enola1692 (3323)
• United States
27 Oct 10
lol thats to funny did you let your friend know ? I hate it when our kids loose that innocents My daughter caught me being the tooth fairy she was pretending she was sleeping an when I reach my hand under her pillow she open her eyes an said ahahh I caught you I knew you kidding I tried to talk my way out of it but she already had the heads up that there was no tooth fairy thats to her cousins
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I am going to tell my friend what my son said,also i am going to tell her that he is so convinced that she thinks santa exsits aswell,i think that it is funny.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
30 Oct 10
Merry christmas is coming!! lol =D How i wish i get to hear about such things when i'm a kid, but i dun have the luxury of it.. lol =D As my parents quit school early back in the olden days, they have no idea about whatsoever santa claus etc and christmas celebration.. lol =D So, i can only imagine it from textbooks, and stories being told ot me by teachers.. hehe All i know is that, i have to hang a smelly socks by my windows and santa claus will ride by, dropping me a gift.. lol =D I'm naive back then, unlike your son.. haha
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
15 Nov 10
What do you mean there is no such person as Santa? I am shocked! All this time I have been lied to!
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
27 Oct 10
I think children should be children and believe in Santa as long as they can. Soon enough they will learn the hardships that life can offer. When they get a little older, other children in school or an older sibling will tell them it is not true. I imagine it was quite funny that your son thought your friend still believed in Santa! A friend of mine's grandchild still believes in Santa, at least she did last year. There was a website that told children to let Santa know what they wanted and he would get it for them. The child doesn't live with my friend, and didn't see them till the day before Christmas. She went on the website and made a list of what she wanted. It was too late for my friend to get her all the things on her list and she couldn't figure out why she didn't get what she asked for!
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• Romania
27 Oct 10
Believe in Santa is the most pure things for a kid. We all must "believe in santa" sometimes:D
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 10
I had to laugh at my son,he was soo serious when he told me i should tell my friend that there is no santa.I hope santa is getting me something nice this year,as i am unsure what to ask for.lol.
@carolscash (9491)
• United States
28 Oct 10
I do not feel that you should tell them until they are ready and then if they still believe there is nothing wrong with it. I know that the idea of Santa was real and so the spirit is still real in our homes. Why is it wrong if they believe in Santa?
27 Oct 10
no Father Christmas !, no Santa Claus! of course he exists, along with the tooth fairy, the bogey man and the little green men from up aloft!!!. Its fun to believe in all things christmassy and i will always look up in the sky christmas eve and look for the sleigh and listen out for the sleighbells. I love christmas films, especially santa claus the movie and the polar express. so of course he exists. ( now for the men in white coats to take me away, but i will be out in time for christmas!!!)
• United States
29 Oct 10
Oh my gosh, that is hysterical. Just shows you how really innocent children are, and I think that's adorable. My kids stopped believing around the age of 8. My youngest daughter was seven when she said she didn't think there was a Santa Claus because all the kids at school told her that. It broke my heart, haha, because it was so much fun every year doing the Santa thing with the cookies and all. I ended up having one of those letters sent to her "supposedly" from Santa Claus, and she ended up believing for just one more Christmas. I think she really wanted to believe there was, and now she's 37, and still wants to believe there is. We all need to have some fun right?
@tinkerick (1257)
• United States
29 Oct 10
It's kind of sad when a child no longer believes in Santa. Spoils the fun of being Santa. My oldest figured it out on her own when she spied me setting up gifts one year. My youngest still believes. My middle child finally decided 2 years ago that there was no Santa. Up until that point she had adamantly believed Santa existed even when kids at school disagreed. She told me it's because she knew Mom and Dad couldn't afford all the gifts that Santa gave them.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
28 Oct 10
My youngest asked my mother one day if there was really a Santa. My mother of course said yes there is a Santa (I think my daughter was about 4 at the time). Of course my big mouth oldest son (13 at the time) said "no, there is no Santa Claus, it is just dad). I wanted to clobber him! Thank goodness my daughter thought her brother was lying. I think she believed for a few more years, but around when she was 8 she stopped believing and I was almost sad because obviously being that she was the youngest, it just seems like all the extra "magic" of Christmas is gone without little ones believing in Santa.
• Marikina, Philippines
29 Oct 10
Ha ha ha. I remembered when I was a kid. When I woke up early in the morning, I saw lots of toys inside the house and my mother used to tell me that Santa Clause was the one who put it there for us. Until I was at the age of 12 years old, when my mother had finally said that Santa Clause was not real and the person that who gives toys every Christmas day was my mother, I was disappointed at that time, but it is okay because now, I understand that Santa Clause is not real and every Christmas day, whenever my 8 year old cousin said that there's a real Santa Clause because of what my Aunt taught her, I would say to her that there's no Santa Clause so that she knows it already at the early age.