Before you got married, were you thrown a bachelorette/bachelor party?
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94909)
United States
May 14, 2011 8:02pm CST
This is American tradition for the bridesmaid to throw the bride a bachelorette party & for the groomsmen to throw the groom a bachelor party. It's just the last day you're single and you basically go clubbing, party, go crazy technically....
So, Before you got married, were you thrown a bachelorette/bachelor party?
How was it?
I'm not married, just curious =) I have attended a few bachelorette parties but it was PG cause I was young then they went out at night and it probably was more R rated, lol!
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4 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
15 May 11
No, no one threw me any wedding parties. I didn't get an engagement party, a bridal shower or a bachelorette party.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
15 May 11
I wanted them very much so, but I'm not surprised it didn't happen.
@LifeGuru (922)
• Canada
15 May 11
Ha! Funny question.. Alright, so we see these cliche bachelor/bachelorette parties on tv with the strippers and those one last stand kinda things. -_- My fiancee won't lemme have a male stipper at mine, nor would I let him have a stripper at his.
So my idea for a bachelorette party would just be me and the girls (I got no friends - I do but not much)...
My teacher in high school talked about his bachelor party and him and his friends went paint balling and did other fun things without the strippers and the cliche things that might do some damage on the relationship. ^^ He's an honest person, so kudos to my high school teacher.
=/ Hopefully a few years from now my fiancee would follow that example, since I kinda don't trust his friends all too much. -_-;;
But... It'd be good if he'd crash my bachelorette party as my male stripper - ohhh daaaayyuuummn... Either I'm gunna be blushing, panicing, or frozen. xD Especially with the other people around me watching. 
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
15 May 11
I know right! On tv they all go crazy!
In the future, I'd want one but not like tv ones, just a nice quiet fun one =P
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
15 May 11
I did not have a bachelorette party before i got married. i really don't think that i missed that much by not having one. It did not change anything about myself or my future spouse without a bachelorette party. I feel just as blessed!
