It's J.P.!! ( The Bachelorette)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
August 1, 2011 9:31pm CST
Well, well , well! it is J.P. I am sooo happy. He was one of my favorites . Why? He always , always put Ash first. He didn't let the reappearance of Bentley change the way he treated Ash , like Blake did. In fact I Knew he was the one because Ash Told him first about Bentley! His reaction told me he was the One. Actually it was his first one on one date when he just comforted her as she was low about Bentley. I must confess , watching Ash with Ben I thought bad for J.P. Ben was just a cute as she so i was shocked , shocked to see Ben walk out of the plane first! I hope Ben will be ok in time. So what are your thoughts about Ash and J.P.?
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
2 Aug 11
Well...it's 30 minutes before finale is done here, so thank you for the spoiler...(I'm TOTALLY KIDDING! I am not mad about it, not a big deal 
) lol. I actually figured she would pick JP, however, I was not rooting for him.
The main reason I didn't want her to pick JP is because he just seems SO possessive and jealous...and I honestly worry about her. I think a possessive guy is scary. So, I had hoped she picked Ben, who I thought was much more easy going, sweet, and all around good natured.
And I think JP had a little bit when it came to the news about Bently. He knew before anyone else, and she told him one on one. He had the chance to soak it all in, and talk with her 1 on 1 right away about it. She was able to QUICKLY ensure him that Bentley was over. But with the group... I just get how there was more unease in a group. I don't remember how Ben acted, but he wasn't bad was he?
) lol. I actually figured she would pick JP, however, I was not rooting for him.
The main reason I didn't want her to pick JP is because he just seems SO possessive and jealous...and I honestly worry about her. I think a possessive guy is scary. So, I had hoped she picked Ben, who I thought was much more easy going, sweet, and all around good natured.
And I think JP had a little bit when it came to the news about Bently. He knew before anyone else, and she told him one on one. He had the chance to soak it all in, and talk with her 1 on 1 right away about it. She was able to QUICKLY ensure him that Bentley was over. But with the group... I just get how there was more unease in a group. I don't remember how Ben acted, but he wasn't bad was he?2 people like this
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
2 Aug 11
I just have to say that GOOD FOR BEN! I am so happy he reacted the way he did. She led him on SO MUCH, and then to turn around and do that to him. I'm glad he didn't let her get away with it. Power to him!! I have more respect for him now, even mroe than before. He's a great guy and he deserves someone great too.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
2 Aug 11
Possessive? I did see that side of J.P. What I saw was a mature attentive kind , hunk of a man.
Plus he is Jewish, A plus! Anyway, she felt comfortable with J.P and that's why shew told him first. As I remember , Ames, Ryan and J.P. were the guys who took the news well. The guy from Odessa , Blake and Constantine were the ones who Really were pi$$ed off . They heard she Thought she was in love And Not the second part that she was mistaken and she is Finally free to move forward. J.P.'s reaction was the best. He took it in and 30 seconds later said I understand. This was the moment that separated the men from the boys.
I thought Ben acted do very well. His heart was so broken. I hope he is the next Bachelor. I truly thought it was going to be J.P. who would be heartbroken! who were you rooting for?
Plus he is Jewish, A plus! Anyway, she felt comfortable with J.P and that's why shew told him first. As I remember , Ames, Ryan and J.P. were the guys who took the news well. The guy from Odessa , Blake and Constantine were the ones who Really were pi$$ed off . They heard she Thought she was in love And Not the second part that she was mistaken and she is Finally free to move forward. J.P.'s reaction was the best. He took it in and 30 seconds later said I understand. This was the moment that separated the men from the boys.
I thought Ben acted do very well. His heart was so broken. I hope he is the next Bachelor. I truly thought it was going to be J.P. who would be heartbroken! who were you rooting for?1 person likes this
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
2 Aug 11
When it came to the other guys, JP was very jealous and psossessive. I can not remember the exact episode, but I remember there was one episode when I just went...oh no, that is over the top possession. During that one episode I just thought, JP is too jealous to be in a healthy relationship with anyone right now. I honestly don't think they will last, but only time will tell.
I think Ashley was comfortable with both of them, and I agree with her sister that Ashley seemed to be more herself with Ben. When they were doing their doggy voices I was laughing. I thought Ben's doggy voice was hilarious.
I was def. rooting for Ben. But I just had a feeling she was going to pick JP.
On a side note, since you mentioned them 
I really liked Ames and Ryan, I think they are both sweethearts. Ryan is, literally, my perfect guy! Why can't I find him?? lol
I really liked Ames and Ryan, I think they are both sweethearts. Ryan is, literally, my perfect guy! Why can't I find him?? lol2 people like this
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
2 Aug 11
I think even though Ben seemed more distant in his interactions with Ashley he really was leading up to the day.
I don't think she saw the spontinanity that she has with JP
I wish them well and hope they do get to be a couple. They look off to a good start compared to Brad and Emily and Jake and Vienna.
Soo are you ready to watch the Bachelor Pad next week?
I think its really gonna be one big cat fight!
Thats what I see from the previews and my opinion anyway.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
2 Aug 11
No I'm not a Bachelor Pad fan. It seems like a mixture of Big Brother, Real World , and Girls Gone Wild. I can't get into it.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
2 Aug 11
I'm not really interested in Bachelor Pad either because I'm not interested in seeing all the drama fighting and everything like that. I draw the line at the Bachelor(ette) shows.
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
3 Aug 11
I prefer the Bachelorette also....like you I prefer to watch 25 men and not 25 women lol. Plus "man drama" doesn't seem to annoy me as much as "girl drama." lol
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Aug 11
She was Debbie Downer at the family visit but.. on After The Rose show he hugged it out with J.P. By then she saw the episodes and now can see why Ash fell and she said she feels like the biggest Idiot . I think she said something a little bit stronger And She apologize for being so judgmental and she is looking forward to J.P. spending time with her kids and Thanksgiving and Christmas. And that's when Ash added and Hanukkah! I really think they are going to make it!
